I Am Autosexual - Sexually Attracted To Myself. Ask Me Anything!

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I am autosexual (and bisexual), which means that I am sexually attracted to myself. My sexuality isn't often discussed or well understood, so I wanted to offer my own experience as an autosexual boy to answer any questions you might have about people like me!


Here are some pictures that illustrate my autosexuality. I've put them here for two reasons - to jump-start some discussion, and to make me hard. ;)

Sucking a clone of my own cock - it's not just another dildo to me. There's an intensely arousing mental component to knowing that the cock in my throat or ass is mine.
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I started out taking nude photos of myself for myself. I put so much effort into them precisely because they're intended to make my own mouth water - but I enjoy showing them off to you too!
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I find my whole body attractive, including my cute face - it's not all about my huge cock. As you can see it's not just that I prefer masturbation to sex, it's complete sexual attraction to myself.
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Is it better sexually with yourself than different genders? Or you find them equally good?

I have the most experience with myself and generally get more gratification out of it - but sex with someone else would have to come in a close second! Other than that, I don't have a particular preference of male or female except for putting myself first.
 
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Ouch.. thats a fat dildo, I mean its your thick 8" uncut cock
Haha, yep! It's not quite as big as the real thing because I wasn't fully hard when I made the mould, but it is a really valuable tool for me regardless.
 
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Hows autosexual go when someone else is involved? Do you just ram that thick 8" with its 6.5" girth balls deep? all about your pleasure until you cum? Or gentle and all party's get to cum and enjoy the jack hammer?
 
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Do people you know in person know this about you? Do your parents know? How were their reactions?

What do you think are the differences between autosexualism, and narcissism?

Do you feel like you're somewhat in a relationship with yourself?

Have you dated someone else before? I am curious about how this would work, like depending on the level of devotion and time you perhaps have to yourself, to satisfy how you feel, if it could cause an issue in relationships?
 
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Hows autosexual go when someone else is involved? Do you just ram that thick 8" with its 6.5" girth balls deep? all about your pleasure until you cum? Or gentle and all party's get to cum and enjoy the jack hammer?
Autosexuality just means you have sexual attraction to yourself, not that you only think of yourself.

I would love to give myself a night to remember if I could have sex with my clone, and I’d do the same for anyone else who I found attractive. How that looks would depend on them, maybe they really want to feel every inch of my cock pounding them as hard as possible (that’s what I want from myself) but my other partners may not.

I’d argue that using my body to make someone else feel intense pleasure is better and more validating than just getting myself off.
 
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Do people you know in person know this about you? Do your parents know? How were their reactions?
Nobody in my life knows about it yet. I’ve really only just opened up about it in my online spaces, but I hope I’ll be able to do it in my offline life soon too.

What do you think are the differences between autosexualism, and narcissism?
That’s a good question, and I’m glad you asked it because it’s one of the comparisons a lot of people draw and the main reason why I’m hesitant to come out as autosexual.

The reality is that they’re completely different, and only tenuously related by the basic pop-culture understanding that narcissism is “loving yourself” (which probably comes from the Greek myth of Narcissis). Autosexuality is nothing more than sexual attraction to yourself. It’s just a sexuality like hetero or homosexuality. Narcissism is also defined by a sense of superiority and entitlement and arrogance and self-absorption and inflated self-importance and lack of empathy, a fragile ego, the tendency to disparage and denigrate others - the list goes on.

Autosexuality
When someone feels sexual attraction to themselves.

NPD symptoms
  1. A grandiose sense of self-importance
  2. A preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
  3. A belief that they are special and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people or institutions
  4. A need for excessive admiration
  5. A sense of entitlement
  6. ⁠Interpersonally exploitive behavior
  7. A lack of empathy
  8. Envy of others or a belief that others are envious of them
  9. A demonstration of arrogant and haughty behaviors or attitudes
To be diagnosed with NPD, you must have five or more of the above nine symptoms. None of these symptoms include or even suggest that they are attracted to themselves.

Do you feel like you're somewhat in a relationship with yourself?
Not really, but I think I could get there. Getting into a relationship with myself might be predicated more on autoromanticism (romantic attraction to yourself), which I’m not sure that I have (at least not as much as the raw sexual attraction I have for myself).

Have you dated someone else before? I am curious about how this would work, like depending on the level of devotion and time you perhaps have to yourself, to satisfy how you feel, if it could cause an issue in relationships?
I haven’t really dated, so I can’t really answer. I’ve had sex with other partners and it hasn’t affected our enjoyment apart from their fascination with how I see myself. I’m still able to find others sexually (and romantically) attractive so I don’t think it would be too much of a problem, but I can’t say for sure yet.

I do know that, if it did cause problems, I’d be completely sexually satisfied by myself without the need for another partner. I’m not sure whether I’d be able to meet my other human companionship/emotional needs though! :D
 

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Autosexuality just means you have sexual attraction to yourself, not that you only think of yourself.

I would love to give myself a night to remember if I could have sex with my clone, and I’d do the same for anyone else who I found attractive. How that looks would depend on them, maybe they really want to feel every inch of my cock pounding them as hard as possible (that’s what I want from myself) but my other partners may not.

I’d argue that using my body to make someone else feel intense pleasure is better and more validating than just getting myself off.

I've literally dreamt once of me fucking 69ing myself.
 

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I do all the time! Do you think you are autosexual or was it just a dream/interesting one-time fantasy?

No. I definitely need another person to be fully sexual. But I have come to accept myself enough to say "yes, I would fuck myself if I could". ;)
 
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Is the attraction mutual and reciprocated...........?
There’s nothing to be reciprocated (or perhaps more accurately, there’s nobody there to reciprocate).

I’m not sexually attracted to another personality inside me that may not also be sexually attracted to myself, I’m just sexually attracted to myself.

It can’t be “mutual” because it’s not between two parties - it’s just myself.
 
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I am curious as to why you posted this in the Safe Space forum. Did you fear criticism if you posted it another forum?
It seemed like the best fit. I considered “Ask an asexual” (since autosexuality is considered by some to be on the asexual spectrum) but I thought that would be disingenuous considering I’m also sexually attracted to and sexually actively with people other than myself.

I would be more than happy to challenge the criticism (although beyond being called a narcissist (already answered above) I don’t know what that criticism would be).
 
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It seemed like the best fit. I considered “Ask an asexual” (since autosexuality is considered by some to be on the asexual spectrum) but I thought that would be disingenuous considering I’m also sexually attracted to and sexually actively with people other than myself.

I would be more than happy to challenge the criticism (although beyond being called a narcissist (already answered above) I don’t know what that criticism would be).

That's fine. The reason I asked is that you don't seem to have a problem with it. Most posts in this forum come from folks who are troubled by something. I'm glad you aren't. :)

I'm autoerotic. I get turned on by what I see in the mirror and want to seduce it--and large enough and flexible enough to self suck. Over the years I've dreamed there were two of me of having sex with each other up to and including wet dreams. :cool:

Sex with someone else is almost always more fun. Everything's better when shared with a friend. ;)
 

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It seemed like the best fit. I considered “Ask an asexual” (since autosexuality is considered by some to be on the asexual spectrum) but I thought that would be disingenuous considering I’m also sexually attracted to and sexually actively with people other than myself.

I would be more than happy to challenge the criticism (although beyond being called a narcissist (already answered above) I don’t know what that criticism would be).
hello. we live in the same city. i'm in belconnen. wanna talk?