No matter what I do...I can never get over him...it is just too hard. He is an extremely good, smart, lean, funny guy.... And I've been considering that the only way I will be able to get over him is to completely forget about him??? I've tried to get over him many countless times before and I just can't seem to do it well enough. Maybe it is just lust or infatuation... But i want to do whats best for him and possibly myself....I can't live my life with or without him....but he can without me. Anyone else have this problem? WHat should i do? Should i go through with it or not? Should i keep trying to get over him and maybe hope someday it may happen?