think of it like this, do you think 20 min of sex every now n then is worth making your lady feel like shit, like she wasted all that time on some fake ass dude, you gotta think about her mente n know what it might do to her. cheatings a real greedy thing to do, and greedy people like that shouldn't be in any relationship
I believe that you feel that way, but is there a part of you that trained yourself to say things like that because it sounds good to women?
There are cases for and against monogamy throughout nature. Different primates run the gauntlet. Male gorillas have harems of females. Male chimps are somewhat monogamous, but screw around ocasionally. Bonobos which are similar to chimps...they are just sluts. mm. ww. wm. They fuck hello. It is how they get to know each other.
In some cultures it is normal for a man to have many women.
I am not talking about those middle Eastern dudes that oppress their women. (and hey, I know that not all mid eastern people are like this, just making a point)
I am thinking more of all the married Latinos who have a mistress on the side.
It doesn't work as good in America, though. The cigarette burns in my late uncles hand could attest to that.
So depending on what your wife is like, you may want to have a long hard contemplation of what you are considering.