OKFarmer
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Actually, this isn't true NJ. I have the views that I have on this issue because I am having sex with a married woman whose husband won't attend to her needs. She would rather that he did, but he won't and she reached her break point. She's from the US btw.
I didn't mean to imply women didn't cheat, I know they do. But they rarely announce their intent to do so, on this site the way men do.
Yes, you are probably right. Why do you think that is?
BTW - I don't think it's cheating :smile: Well OK it is - but what happened to the other party respecting them with their body?
The other party? Do you mean the frigid hubby needs to respect his wife by giving up the cock? [/quote]Women know how to be discreet. :biggrin1: Men just like to brag about their sexual prowess and stamina w/o any regard for the possible consequences.
BTW - I don't think it's cheating :smile: Well OK it is - but what happened to the other party respecting them with their body?
The other party? Do you mean the frigid hubby needs to respect his wife by giving up the cock?
when i posted this thread...it was more of a thinking thing.....to some of the MORAL MAJORITY here" thinking ain't cheatin" guys...to jump on my ass or anyone else for taking thier love to town did seem overkill...yes i opend a can of worms but have seen many more acts of imorality with alot less condemnation on lpsg......what about my needs?..i am the poster asking for a bit of advise...not anyone's permission or attaboy...many of the responders need to look at thier own moral behavior before casting stones to others...walk a mile in my shoes before blessing my stingy wife for not making her man feel good about himself.....kind of shows how me that some women hate men on this cite because they can see themselves and do not like what they see...and the GAY guys who have never lived with a woman for 30 yrs...butt out, you sound like a maybe you need to lay off the dick awhile you are acting like a woman...FLAME ON...I CAN TAKE IT
He's not half the man you are.Glad to hear that you decided to man up and appologize, but once a week sounds like about 3 to 4 more times a month than many married men get. If my wife and I could have sex once weekly we would; quit whining and go rub another one out like I did this morning.
You are one of what is probably less than a half dozen women on this site to do that. It should also be noted that the men who cheat rarely do so after years of emotional and physical neglect/abuse. Men cheat after watching too much porn and thinking that they are entitled to what they see on video.:yup:But it's true.... Calambo just got ripped into and gals don't get the same treatment. :redface: I didn't thank god!
He's not half the man you are.
You are one of what is probably less than a half dozen women on this site to do that. It should also be noted that the men who cheat rarely do so after years of emotional and physical neglect/abuse. Men cheat after watching too much porn and thinking that they are entitled to what they see on video.
think of it like this, do you think 20 min of sex every now n then is worth making your lady feel like shit, like she wasted all that time on some fake ass dude, you gotta think about her mente n know what it might do to her. cheatings a real greedy thing to do, and greedy people like that shouldn't be in any relationship
Some folks simply lack that capacity and seek the help of a disinterested third party.
I have been married 3 times and have had countless boy/ girlfriends in between. I am quite sure that women over 45 can live without sex at all. Most women only enjoy a fuck if there is the slightest chance of getting pregnant. I would love to meet a fit, good looking woman of mature years who enjoys sex and does not just lay there waiting to be done to. There is a load of crap spoken and in print about how women want foreplay, but in my experience, women don`t usually want to mess about, they just want a dick in them quick so they can get back to sleep. This is why I have a regular meeting with one of my wife`s nieces who is 23 and at uni. Needless to say, I won`t be getting married a 4th time. At least my wife is a brilliant cook. If there are any women out there who think I`m talking crap, I`d like to meet you as I`m sure there must be the odd exception who is good at and enjoys sex.
Manly Banisters points out the danger of using a word which is too often misdefined by those who come across it.
For an 18 years old this is very deep! He surly knowsCalambo, I'm sure most of this issue is in your head....
Look, what i suggest you do is take a long time to think about the source of the problem.... try seeing if it's YOUR fault that this is happening. Maybe your being too needy, and shes getting turned off by it....
Stop thinking about sex and focus more on making your relationship stronger, and making sure that both of you enjoy your sex time equally rather than seeing it as a chore...
just let the sex come to you, don't try and push things because we all know that things won't go smoothly if you do...
look back in time and think of why you love your wife, and of all the special moments you've had with her....
bottom line is: STOP THINKING ABOUT SEX
don't take this in a bad way, but it seems to me like you see yourself lower than your wife (which is expected of someone in your position).... stop begging for sex, if she doesnt want you, then it's her loss