i am lonely and loveless

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I went though my age stage on loneliness I am 24 and a virgin. I tried killing myself and failed but now I went and got put on some medication and I am ok I may be bi-polar. My advice to you is try to find good in everything in your life. The meek shall inherit the earth there is someone for everyone just believe that being loved is more important than feeling pain.
 

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I looked on craigslist to find a date but all there was men looking for sex with men so look on craigslist.

there more dating sites for gay people then there dating sites for non gay people.
 

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Reovella... You mentioned few times you can't speak or reveal your sexuality where you live. Don't worry there are millions like you around the world. Just occupy yourself with work, study and sport. Don't worry you will find the love of your life one day and I can assure you will grow up a very happy man.

We all have problems, feel unloved and lonely at some point of our lives. in that sense you are not alone.
 

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Thanks guys, im very glad you share your advices. Maybe i wont be able to find a counselor in the shortest time, but i will try to find someone to talk with, just like you guys.

I never thought that physical work out like walking will heal me. So i will definitly gonna try it. Thanks again friends for the advice.:smile:

I forgot to mention it, but yes, getting some exercise will change your mind as well as your body!
 
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I looked on craigslist to find a date but all there was men looking for sex with men so look on craigslist.

there more dating sites for gay people then there dating sites for non gay people.

I don't think the OP said anything about looking for sex on craigslist. Non-gay people probably have less dating sites because it's easier for you to meet potential partners.
 

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Reovella... You mentioned few times you can't speak or reveal your sexuality where you live. Don't worry there are millions like you around the world. Just occupy yourself with work, study and sport. Don't worry you will find the love of your life one day and I can assure you will grow up a very happy man.

We all have problems, feel unloved and lonely at some point of our lives. in that sense you are not alone.

im really hoping for some love from somebody soon. wish me luck. and yes, now i realized im not alone indeed. lots of supportive friends helped me here with their advices, you too of course. thanks! :smile:
 

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Your comment of being sinful didn't bring a draw, so I suspect that may be what's doing it.

Craigslist gay ads will get you dead, quick.

Try:

Plentyoffish
Adam4Adam
D-List (Although this is more for circuit/club/preppy/bitchy gays)
LifeOut
Gay.com (If you can handle the bitchyness)

Sometimes simple networking works:
Facebook

Other more sex driven type
Men4Sexnow
SilverDaddies

I'm 33, sexless and date-less. Mainly because gay men tend to be extra superficial when it comes to men. I've always been into guys my age or older and pretty open, but the men I tend to meet are looking for that chiseled god that doesn't exist.
When they're 18, they think 25-30 is ancient, and blow off many opportunities.
When they get to 30, they begin to realize that all the superficial stuff they "Must Have" didn't mean much, and the cattyness and bitchiness in the chatrooms, as well as at the bars didn't pay off.
 
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people are scared to post Plentyoffish sense you see people post on Plentyoffish then account has been deleted and Plentyoffish can read your mail. so most of them are on facebook now.
 

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Ach, many people in your situation...
All men or women will have such moments in their life, even with a partner.
I read an article today, that says 1 on 50 thinks regularly about suicide.
Strange, because I live in a country, where mobile, laptop, car, home are not luxe, but just normal.
We don t need to think about food, shelter, it's all there.
But there is a lack of intimacy. That's why we have one of the highest rate of suicide in Europe, ( I believe after Sweden ).
I have luck. I have a loving partner, and no one around me seems to have serious relation problems.
But it can change quickly, I know that from experience, to the bad or the good.
I can only say, if you're sitting deep, it can only go higher. You are young, and the world is waiting for you...
 

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focus on yourself love will come in time
I always felt alone when i was younger i could be in a huge crowd and think there is no one like me.
but i learned to make friends to be myself and I have found love again
you are young do not give up on love it will find you when your ready for it
focus on being young discover what makes you happy
all the rest will come when you are ready
hugs my young friend
 

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for internet sites I recommend OKCupid. It's free and interesting. I have met many pen-pals there. And they are constantly finding me local profiles to look at, even though I am not actually looking anymore.