I am not satisfied with sex with my boy friend

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Hi,

My boy friend and I am into relationship since 2 years now... since past 6 months are having regular sex.. but not even once i was satisfied... he uses condoms.. is that the reason?? or his penis is not lengthy enough to satisfy me??? please adive
 

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Well what length is his penis? Im 7 inches long but im 6 inches around and most people always comment on my thickness rather than length, Do you both talk about sex?
 
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Well what length is his penis? Im 7 inches long but im 6 inches around and most people always comment on my thickness rather than length, Do you both talk about sex?

Yes, we have spoken a lot... he tries his best to satisfy, however loses out his patiences after a while... perhaps I am expecting more, but i have asked my other friends even they love having sex for long time just like i do.. n they get satisfied... thats not the case with me...
 

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Hi,

My boy friend and I am into relationship since 2 years now... since past 6 months are having regular sex.. but not even once i was satisfied... he uses condoms.. is that the reason?? or his penis is not lengthy enough to satisfy me??? please adive

What his length aproxx. Whats his girth aproxx? What does your sex consist of? You need to give us mor einfo if you would like moer answers. All i can tell you right now is you need to talk to him, because we don't know nothing, you havn't told us nothing.
 

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Hi,

My boy friend and I am into relationship since 2 years now... since past 6 months are having regular sex.. but not even once i was satisfied... he uses condoms.. is that the reason?? or his penis is not lengthy enough to satisfy me??? please adive
Ok are you a man or a woman, straight or gay?
 

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First you should make clear for yourself why you don't like it. Then, you should talk about it, their is always a way to make it more satisfied for you!

Hi Max, thanks for your reply... but thats where my concern is... I am confused as to what makes me satisfied.. is it a problem on my end or his weakness... what are the ways you are referring to make myself satisfied?
 

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its the condoms. condoms completely ruin sex, at least for me. i'd rather just go jerk off than wear a condom while having sex

are you sure its just condoms??? that leads me to another question... how safe is to have sex without condoms.. i dont want to get pregnant... any tips from staying away from pregnancy... sex is just a pleasure for me...
 

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What his length aproxx. Whats his girth aproxx? What does your sex consist of? You need to give us mor einfo if you would like moer answers. All i can tell you right now is you need to talk to him, because we don't know nothing, you havn't told us nothing.

aproxx 6 inch i guess... sex is predominantly foreplay... which i enjoy.. i like it when he touches me softly all around.. n a light massage on my breast... then blowjob for a while... after insertion it doesn't last for more than 20mins... what other info can i provide you? please ask me specific questions..
 

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Well, 6 inches is above the average penis size; above average for some penis statistics and dead on average for others, so lets just say its adequate length. Girth has been said to be more important by females, so if his dick is super skinny then that could be a problem, but again if its average or above it shouldnt be. Personally, I'm 6 inches with an average girth as well, and my girl likes sex. Well, thats what she says..... but she orgasms so I guess shes not lying. However, Ive measured my dick dead on with ruler and measureing tape, your just guessing.

Maybe you should try other positions. Honestly, I'm not sure because from waht your telling me you guys have a long foreplay, he eats you out, probably fingers you, kisses you, massages your breasts, and intercourse for 20 minutes or so, it seems like your getting pleasure to me. Maybe your just being picky an want a big dick because you think there is much more pleasure out there and your stuck with him. Maybe, its your mind tahts not allowing you to have pleasure, the brain is the biggest sex organ, it causes everything, so maybe next time you just not think about him being unsatisfy and just let yourself go.

If none of this works, try Viagra, I heard it doesnt something special for females.
 

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Can you feel his cock and does it feel good inside you? If you can barely feel his cock then it's a size issue-you not tight enough or him not big enough.
If it's him not lasting long enough... I would say that 20 minutes is average for most men, and maybe even on the longer side for some guys. 20 minutes of thrusting can be quite a bit. Maybe you need him to go down on you longer.
Who are you talking to that can have sex for a long time? What amount of time are they talking about?
 

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Well, 6 inches is above the average penis size; above average for some penis statistics and dead on average for others, so lets just say its adequate length. Girth has been said to be more important by females, so if his dick is super skinny then that could be a problem, but again if its average or above it shouldnt be. Personally, I'm 6 inches with an average girth as well, and my girl likes sex. Well, thats what she says..... but she orgasms so I guess shes not lying. However, Ive measured my dick dead on with ruler and measureing tape, your just guessing.

Maybe you should try other positions. Honestly, I'm not sure because from waht your telling me you guys have a long foreplay, he eats you out, probably fingers you, kisses you, massages your breasts, and intercourse for 20 minutes or so, it seems like your getting pleasure to me. Maybe your just being picky an want a big dick because you think there is much more pleasure out there and your stuck with him. Maybe, its your mind tahts not allowing you to have pleasure, the brain is the biggest sex organ, it causes everything, so maybe next time you just not think about him being unsatisfy and just let yourself go.

If none of this works, try Viagra, I heard it doesnt something special for females.

may be your right... thanks for that lengthy explanation.. I m looking around in other forum threads.. got a quite few tips... thanks for everything