I am not satisfied with sex with my boy friend

[mahi123]

Can you feel his cock and does it feel good inside you? If you can barely feel his cock then it's a size issue-you not tight enough or him not big enough.
If it's him not lasting long enough... I would say that 20 minutes is average for most men, and maybe even on the longer side for some guys. 20 minutes of thrusting can be quite a bit. Maybe you need him to go down on you longer.
Who are you talking to that can have sex for a long time? What amount of time are they talking about?

I think this brings out an interesting point.. I do feel his cock.. but i still feel i need tat feeling last for a long time... if 20 mins is average then y dont i get satisfied within 20mins.. is it just me or its the same feeling even for other women.. any girl to comment on this?

 

[RawDog]

This looks funny:

http://www.lpsg.org/131708-for-women-in-relationships.html#post2105545

Why are you asking from a male perspective on that thread?

 

[mahi123]

This looks funny:

http://www.lpsg.org/131708-for-women-in-relationships.html#post2105545

Why are you asking from a male perspective on that thread?

i understand ur confusion.. Thats non other than my boy friend using this profile... lol just chk the date he posted..

 

[SlamminSammy]

Welcome! Personally, I've never had sex without condoms AND I always pull out, because I don't want to impregnate any women. Dump your boyfriend, check out my pics & tell me what you think.

 

[OMFGItsSamm]

It takes all women different amounts of time and stimulation to orgasm. Seriously, it is entirely different for everyone. Some women can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation, which you usually don't get much, if any from vaginal sex. Some women can orgasm from their G-spot being stimulated, which is usually near the front of your vagina and is usually stimulated during certain sexual positions, mostly girl on top or doggie style. Missionary, in my experience, gives almost no G-spot stimulation. Some can get both at once and that is the "blended" or "double" orgasm. I suggest trying to bring yourself to orgasm, using different techniques to see what gets you off, and then trying to guide your guy towards what you know will work.

Get a vibrator, or a dildo; try just stimulating your clitoris, try just stimulating your g-spot. See what works for you on your own.

 

[OMFGItsSamm]

Also, maybe try Her Pleasure type condoms. Ribbed or studded ones. Those can help stimulate the clitoris and the sensitive nerves outside your vagina that you said you like when he touches.

DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT stop using condoms if you're not on another type of birth control like the pill. You WILL get pregnant. Pulling out doesn't work. I repeat: DOES NOT WORK

 

[mahi123]

Also, maybe try Her Pleasure type condoms. Ribbed or studded ones. Those can help stimulate the clitoris and the sensitive nerves outside your vagina that you said you like when he touches.

DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT stop using condoms if you're not on another type of birth control like the pill. You WILL get pregnant. Pulling out doesn't work. I repeat: DOES NOT WORK

Thanks so much for that sincere advice... I will remember it.. I too dont want to regret later

 

[mahi123]

It takes all women different amounts of time and stimulation to orgasm. Seriously, it is entirely different for everyone. Some women can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation, which you usually don't get much, if any from vaginal sex. Some women can orgasm from their G-spot being stimulated, which is usually near the front of your vagina and is usually stimulated during certain sexual positions, mostly girl on top or doggie style. Missionary, in my experience, gives almost no G-spot stimulation. Some can get both at once and that is the "blended" or "double" orgasm. I suggest trying to bring yourself to orgasm, using different techniques to see what gets you off, and then trying to guide your guy towards what you know will work.

Get a vibrator, or a dildo; try just stimulating your clitoris, try just stimulating your g-spot. See what works for you on your own.

but is it not painful to use vibrator?? that kinda scares me... can u tel me more about positions if we are allowed to discuss here

 

[D_Sparroe Spongecaques]

but is it not painful to use vibrator?? that kinda scares me... can u tel me more about positions if we are allowed to discuss here

no its not painful but rather awesome feelings really.Use in any position that you feel comfy in....there are ones especially for the clitoris that literally blow your mind.

 

[Diego1982]

1- What about oral sex just to start ?
2- May be the atmosphere is not adecuate. ¿Music, candles, a porn movie?
3- Legs over his shoulders optimizes the penetration and gives an excellent estimulation on the clitoris area.
4- Experiment, try to be creative.

Sorry for my english

 

[mahi123]

no its not painful but rather awesome feelings really.Use in any position that you feel comfy in....there are ones especially for the clitoris that literally blow your mind.

What are the ones which blow your mind... perhaps I am getting too personal.. only if you dont mind sharing it?

 

[mahi123]

1- What about oral sex just to start ?
2- May be the atmosphere is not adecuate. ¿Music, candles, a porn movie?
3- Legs over his shoulders optimizes the penetration and gives an excellent estimulation on the clitoris area.
4- Experiment, try to be creative.

Sorry for my english

it does start with oral sex always

 

[bigdalten]

I can tell you that penis size or condoms don't necessarily keep you as a woman from cumming and having a fulfilling climax. I think some women do not have the level of sensitivity as some others do. I am over 6 inches in girth and about 8 inches long when active. My wife has a small clit and not very sensitive clit, g-spot, or vagina wall. I have had sex with her for hours and repeated times without her ever climaxing. For years she was not interested and just had sex to please me and wanted it over quickly. No matter what I tried, I could not bring her to climax by any use or position of inserting my hard penis into her. It was not good for me either. We split and I had several partners serially that each could climax multiple times during one session and dozens of times during night with the same widespread techniques I had always used. Sometime later, I got back with my wife, explained that we needed to work on the sex and that she needed to be open to try much harder to climax. I bought her a number of sex manuals, several rubber dicks the size of mine, a vibrating dick the size of mine, and a Magic Wand vibrator. She finally agreed to try harder and everytime we did subsequently, she was having orgasms, but not by the action of my large hard dick but with a combination of my mouth and tongue, fingers, vibrator, and dick. She has never had an orgasm with only my dick. You may need some extra care as she does.

 

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

i understand ur confusion.. Thats non other than my boy friend using this profile... lol just chk the date he posted..

oh god not this again

 

[mahi123]

I can tell you that penis size or condoms don't necessarily keep you as a woman from cumming and having a fulfilling climax. I think some women do not have the level of sensitivity as some others do. I am over 6 inches in girth and about 8 inches long when active. My wife has a small clit and not very sensitive clit, g-spot, or vagina wall. I have had sex with her for hours and repeated times without her ever climaxing. For years she was not interested and just had sex to please me and wanted it over quickly. No matter what I tried, I could not bring her to climax by any use or position of inserting my hard penis into her. It was not good for me either. We split and I had several partners serially that each could climax multiple times during one session and dozens of times during night with the same widespread techniques I had always used. Sometime later, I got back with my wife, explained that we needed to work on the sex and that she needed to be open to try much harder to climax. I bought her a number of sex manuals, several rubber dicks the size of mine, a vibrating dick the size of mine, and a Magic Wand vibrator. She finally agreed to try harder and everytime we did subsequently, she was having orgasms, but not by the action of my large hard dick but with a combination of my mouth and tongue, fingers, vibrator, and dick. She has never had an orgasm with only my dick. You may need some extra care as she does.

that was indeed a sincere advice... I shall keep all this in mind.. i hav got some more tips from this forum.. wil be meeting my boy friend over the weekend... will keep you all posted..

 

[BlkWthThk11]

Hi,

My boy friend and I am into relationship since 2 years now... since past 6 months are having regular sex.. but not even once i was satisfied... he uses condoms.. is that the reason?? or his penis is not lengthy enough to satisfy me??? please adive

Hello, could be several things hon, one, he doesnt know how to do it..second he might not prepare you well enough before you have sex....third he might be more concerned about being satisfied himself and not concerned with your satisfaction and that can come from the two other numbers above....fourth you many have a physical problem, I dated a girl that had an inverted clit, so it was hard for her to cum even though I am quite large....and fifth his cock may not be big enough for your needs, only you can answer that if looking at his cock does not turn you on then that may be a problem, you need a larger cock, anyway you are at the right site to get some answers hopefully !!