I am still a virgin:(

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  1. Mr. Russ

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    Anyone know somebody in the Sheboygan, WI area that can help me (women please). I am 21 and yet to be laid. I am a little shy, but willing to fuck like crazy!:smile:
     
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  3. Mr. Snakey

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    :cool: :smile: Nothing wrong with that I have a friend 30 years old who is a virgin He chooses to wait till he finds the right girl Your only 21 You have plenty of time Dont worry it will happen
     
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    THank you, Uncut.

    I think he might be surprised to know that there are others on the board who have not yet taken the plunge. There is nothing wrong with waiting for the right time person and place.





     
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    You're the first person I know from Wisconsin, period. Sorry.

    My two best friends are both still virgins, and both 27 years old. I know it's hard to do, but try not to build it up or think about it too much. Practice social skills, practice asking girls out, work on making yourself more appealing to the opposite sex, try many different approaches and try not to become discouraged... if you're out there, you're dating, and/or in relationships eventually it will just happen. Go on a few dates, and sex will more likely than not come naturally. Just don't go after that single-mindedly. Women can smell desperation and its not an attractive thing. At the same time, don't be too nice. Nice guys almost never get laid. If you see an opportunity, go for it. Don't pass it up just to be accommodating or considerate and expect that kindness to pay sexual dividends later. Be aggressive, but not desperate, be confident, but not cocky, focused, but not obsessed. It's important to find a balance. Besides doing whatever you can to make yourself attractive (work out, be active and involved in things outside of work/school (doesn't include EverQuest), have a job, etc) Most important things are to be confident, comfortable with yourself, and able to adapt. If you're 21, does that mean you are in college? If so... hang out with the guys who seem to get laid a lot. Go to parties/bars/clubs with them. Also, going to class is an okay way to meet girls but far from ideal. Get involved with extra-curricular activities... student organizations, fraternities, sports, et cetera.
     
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    if you're desperate, you can always pay a stripper for sex.
     
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    I don't think this is the best site to try and find a woman on! Hehe.

    However...get to know a girl from your area. Then things will lead. I think the best way is to take it in steps. ie kissing, fingering, oral, mutual masturbation, sex...

    At least thats how it was for me and I'm practically a sex god now lol. Or maybe try and find an older woman near you...they seem to like younger guys and showing them around their bodies...

    But this site is one of the worst for what you want IMO. Maybe a dating site?
     
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    being an asshole and making fun of others is my job.

    i think im in love
     
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    There's no time frame for having sex the first time you should be happy you've been able to hold off for so long waiting for the right girl instead of dipping into every hole that comes along with no emotion or attachment to the person just looking to pop your cork It will happen when it should and it will be worth the wait
     
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    I think the easiest way to find a woman if you are a virgin, is simply not to look for it. I know it sounds absurd, and I know they all tell you the same thing. But I distinctly remember going about looking to get laid when I was a virgin, and it was precisely because of that, that I never did get laid. Eventually I was forced to go and do something stupid that I still regret to this day. Later however, when I didn't care and I would just be doing something well, I would notice a girl or two checking me out. And thats the trick. Women are naturally attracted to our performance. If you know something well, or do something well, or even say something well, your chance of being noticed by a girl is that much greater. It is the confidence of your own ability that usually attracts a girl. Whether that be in up front situation where you talk to a random girl and all she can whiff of you is your quiet self confidence, or whether that is a creative act where she along with others are awed by your talent.

    So I would say, develop your abilities and be proud of them, not too much of course. And you will soon see the women will follow. Then the trick is not trying to find a leach, but a great girl instead.
     
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    Don't waste your time feeling bad, Russ.

    You are a good looking guy. Just do like NineInchCock says... and women will just fall in your lap:biggrin1:
     
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    Where's Wisconsin?

    Maybe we could club together and send out a relief party?
     
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    Virginity is a funny thing...Most people dont realise they'd like their's back until they have already lost it :31:

    No need to hurry, your cock isnt going to drop off unless you get some..take your time and do it right..not right NOW
     
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    I'm not a virgin yet, will someone come to Paris and shag me?
     
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    Heck, it's kinda fun being "saintly" while having a wicked mind.

    I'm probably in too much danger of scaring anything away though.
     
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    I'm pretty sure I've only ever heard women say that.


    While it's true that there's not an urgent and pressing need to lose your virginity by a certain age, I'd say that it's equally true, if not moreso, that it's pointless hoping that your first time is going to be some magical unforgettable experience and then holding out for that and wasting years of your life searching for an ideal that probably doesn't exist when you could have just been having fun the whole time. It's not being in a hurry or settling for something less than perfect that leads to so much disappointment the first time around, it's more that kind of attitude leads to people being disappointed about their first time. As long as you don't expect your life to change forever, recast in the glory of true love, and angels to descend from on high singing hymns the first time your penis penetrates vagina.... well... then... you'll probably enjoy yourself and have no regrets. If you're worried about this.... Practice safe sex. Don't sleep with anyone you wouldn't normally just for the experience of it. Make sure both parties involved have the same expectations. Be confident that you yourself are mentally and emotionally (and spiritually, if applicable) ready. Then you've got most of your bases covered.
     
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    extra base to cover in order to avoid regret that I egregiously forgot to cover in my last post: avoid using recreational drugs including alcohol beforehand. Though I know some people who can only have sex when they are not sober.... this is really sad. Don't start down that path.
     
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    Enough philosophical crap, I just want to pound some pussy!
     
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    then hire a pro for fuck's sake!

    your charming personality ain't helping :rolleyes:
     
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    Good luck on losing your virginity. I really do mean that. For me I just decided to say "fuck it". The first girl I ever ended up in bed with was begging me to fuck her (also the first girl who ever told me I have a big dick too) but she was kind of "easy" (I was young and that turned me off though now that I'm older I don't care, nothing wrong if people just want to fuck) and so instead of losing my virginity to this girl who now I would bang the bejeezus out of I decided to not sleep with her. She always kept the offer open though. I just wasn't comfortable about the whole thing, I thought losing your virginity was supposed to be this big meaningful epoch in your life.

    So instead I lost my virginity when I was 24 instead of 18. I had had the opportunity a few times (definitely could have made it happen if I weren't such a gentleman and a little more obvious about what I'd like to have happen with a girl) though finally I ended up meeting a girl who was just a freak who lived in the same barracks as me. She knocked on my door said, "I'm sleeping with you tonight" and I decided to just say fuck it and I fucked her for a couple of hours. She loved my size and orgasmed multiple times and we became fuck buddies for a while.

    The sex really didn't mean anything. Honestly I didn't even really enjoy it all that much. She gave great head and had beautiful breasts but other than that it was all pretty blah and meaningless. I didn't even cum and just faked it (I had on a rubber) because I was getting bored and she was orgasming like 5 or 6 times.

    Just don't get your hopes up too high. Its just sex. If you're wanting to make love though its a different story entirely.
     
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