I Am Young But I Can't Sustain My Erection. It Is Very Frustrating When I Want To Have Sex.

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You could maybe try Horny Goat Weed or Celery Seed. All natural. Could also maybe try and not stroke off a few days just before having sex.
I ordered one from Amazon. I will try it before going to the doctor. thanks!
 
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Go see the doc, dude. Could be an indication of some other issue like high/low blood pressure, poor circulation, blood clot, etc.
I have no health issues so far. but yeah, will go to the doctor once I have tried some remedies.
 
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need more specific details on when and how you're losing wood. if you are perfectly healthy then it might be in your head. i remember a short period in my younger years where i had lotsa issues staying hard with this particular girl and it was all in my head. i was so perplexed with being able to perform in bed that it actually got to me mentally and my dick shut down.

i was afraid to get or stay "hard" as it was safer than getting hard and not doing a good job at it. in short, if the dick was hard then that means i didn't have to put out therefore no chance of embarrassment (even if not getting it up wasn't bad enough). she also made fun of me too so that didn't help either.

long story short, we broke up after a short relationship and i hooked up with a side chick that was totally cool with any performance and was able to relieve me of my anxiety and it was great. i got my dick back and fucked away without any worry. if i came too soon, she was totally cool and just asked me to finger her or eat her out til she came. she didn't care how she came as long as she came and i was willing to help. it was awesome. plenty of times i was able to fuck her to orgasm too. i guess once the pressure was off, i could be myself and let go.

as the other have said, go get checked out just in case by a doctor; but it could also be in your head too...
 
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Taking supplements or medication probably isn't the first thing to look to.

First, you should look at aspects of your lifestyle that could impact your ability to get and maintain an erection. What is your diet like? How much exercise do you get and what kind of exercise? Are you overweight or underweight? Do you get enough sleep? Are you stressed out or depressed? Do drink alcohol and how much? Do you smoke? Do you do drugs or take medication?

Do you see any change if you abstain from sex and masturbation for awhile?
 
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I have no health issues so far. but yeah, will go to the doctor once I have tried some remedies.

No, quit being scared of the doctor and go now. Some symptoms may not show until it is too late. ED at this age IS A SYMPTOM. Make an appointment right now.
 
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Please before you do anything on your own go to a Primary Care Physician and get them to make sure you are a very healthy individual. When a Physician declares you a healthy individual then you might try some of this natural stuff. Just as the other here are saying at 32 YO the only persons in town that might able to have or maintain a stiffer penis longer than you is a high schooler. As the others have said above this could be a serious sign of many other health problems that can be taken care of first. It just sounds to me like you could be on the wrong path to solve your erection issues, again please see a Primary Care Physician. Please keep us posted on what is found out. Good Luck
 
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Try the horny goat weed but make sure you take it every day for several weeks. It takes time to get into your system so it can work. I've used it before and had great results but got off of it and I could tell the difference. Now I'm back on it and waiting to see what happens.
 
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Update: I just booked an appointment with a doctor for Saturday. I’ve never been this scared in my life. lol
Good. And if all they do is give you a prescription for boner pills, without a workup of some kind, find another doctor.
 
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Update: I was diagnosed with mild depression. I was advised to take a leave from work to relax and to visit my therapist. I was also prescribed meds for depression. sucks! Thank you for the advice to see a doctor btw.

Sorry to hear about your issue but I would imagine by following instructions you will have your erections back on coarse in a very brief time. Thank you for the update...