I bottomed and loved it actually!

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So if anyone helped me with my past thread you would have known that I was preparing to bottom with a guy I have been foolin' around with recently. Thank you all to helped me with that!
I never bottom... well except 2 times about a year ago. So wow I was really nervous about it, but I actually loved every minute of bottoming. I noticed that when I would top a guy, it would take me FOREVER to cum! To the point where the guy who was bottoming would cum awhile before I would haha. :redface: The guy who fucked me was only about 7 inches and I think the first time I cummed, it happened within 3 mins!! I have never cummed that quickly....so I must have been enjoying it and he must have been doing something right! I'm starting to think that I may like being a bottom more than being a top.... I can live with that. haha.

Anyway, thanks for everyone's help earlier! :biggrin1::biggrin1:
 
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Congratulations! I'm envious. I'm really poor at bottoming and need to relax more to do it. So glad you had such a great time. It really inspires me.
 

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Glad it went well, matt. I suspect many guys who insist they are tops would really be bottoms if they could just loosen up enough to try it (no pun intended).

I agree with everyone else, lucky is the man who tops you (or gets topped by you).
 

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Wow, I didn't expect to get any feedback on this thread... Thank you for writing. :biggrin1:

Congratulations! I'm envious. I'm really poor at bottoming and need to relax more to do it. So glad you had such a great time. It really inspires me.
Yah - I was really poor at bottoming a year ago too because I had never done it, but this time I really wanted to do it and the guy I am with really made me feel comfortable.

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I viewed your entire gallery, and if I were a porn producer (gay or straight porn) I would sign you up!
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haha - I really don't know what to say to that but thanks. I honestly don't think I have what it takes to be in porn with looks and all that, but DAMN that would be a fun job! I'd sign up haha. :tongue:
 

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Congrats man, one of the best feelings in the world when you do it with the right guy, welcome to the world of versatile..
 

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I'm glad you had a good experience Matt! Sounds like a great time for both of you!

In my opinion you have to bottom to be a good top. How else would you know what feels good? I pitch and catch...I rather enjoy catching a bit more! My current buddy really knows how to hit the hot spots! Mmmm yes!
 

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Congratulations! So tell us more--what did you do to prepare, how did it work, what was the experience like? I'm glad that we could all help!
 

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Yah - I was really poor at bottoming a year ago too because I had never done it, but this time I really wanted to do it and the guy I am with really made me feel comfortable.

Really wanting to do it makes all the difference. Obviously you weren't quite ready before, but this time you were. I'm glad you enjoyed it. Lucky you and him. Have fun.
 

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Congratulations! So tell us more--what did you do to prepare, how did it work, what was the experience like? I'm glad that we could all help!

Well I did what somebody told me with my first thread and that was just to chill out and not worry too much about bottoming and what all goes on with it since that was basically the reason why i was nervous to bottom... it worked great and nothing went wrong (of course) and we both had loads of fun. The experience was exactly what i was looking for too. Being a top most of the time I always had this urge and want to bottom. Whenever i would jo i always thought of me bottoming with a hot guy.... and it was exactly what happened haha. You guys did help me and im really appreciative of it. :D :biggrin1:
 

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I think I mentioned this before on this site but, in my humble opinion, it bears repeating.
I'm a top almost exclusively-although I enjoying sucking a big dick whenever I get a chance. Whenever I tried to bottom, it was always painful and I was never into the experience. One night I hooked up with a dude who had a small cock and figured that this might be a good time to try bottoming (he was also a gay republican so I've been literally and figuratively fucked by a tool of the Bush administration!). But I digress...
Anyway, it was the first time that being a bottom felt pleasurable and it taught me a lesson as a topman which I remember to this day. When fucking a very tight ass, it's often best if you can enter semi-hard and let your cock expand as the bottom gets used to the size and the sensation. This can take several minutes. The tricky part is that the top has to stay hard enough not to lose his erection, but not so rock hard that the bottom is immediately getting fucked by a rigid cock. If the top can make his dick get bigger and harder as the bottom is getting more used to it, both sides can enjoy a really satisfying fuck session.
It requires a huge amount of control as a top but fortunately for me, this is an area in which I excel.
Just sayin'
 

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So if anyone helped me with my past thread you would have known that I was preparing to bottom with a guy I have been foolin' around with recently. Thank you all to helped me with that!
I never bottom... well except 2 times about a year ago. So wow I was really nervous about it, but I actually loved every minute of bottoming. I noticed that when I would top a guy, it would take me FOREVER to cum! To the point where the guy who was bottoming would cum awhile before I would haha. :redface: The guy who fucked me was only about 7 inches and I think the first time I cummed, it happened within 3 mins!! I have never cummed that quickly....so I must have been enjoying it and he must have been doing something right! I'm starting to think that I may like being a bottom more than being a top.... I can live with that. haha.

Anyway, thanks for everyone's help earlier! :biggrin1::biggrin1:
So does this change your status of being 70% str8??? Maybe not. Check out the thread I started " Str8 guys and butt play."