Really wanting to do it makes all the difference. Obviously you weren't quite ready before, but this time you were. I'm glad you enjoyed it. Lucky you and him. Have fun.
THis is completely true.....a lot is in the head, and if youre turned on by the guy, relaxed, and really want it, it will more likely be enjoyable. Still, I know there are some guys who are natural bottoms more than others, and take to it right away. Sometimes I wish I could enjoy what the bottom guy is feeling, but I've rarely been able to.