I first learned about electo-stim toys when I was 16, during my "self-education" about sex. I had to read about it in a book, since that was before the internet. I've always been curious about what it feels like, but I've been unwilling to invest money in finding out.
I've spent a ton of money on toys! I owned very few before TheBF and I began dating, but we were a long distance relationship for our first year, and he was very generous about buying me toys as gifts. :smile:
I still buy toys! I love them, but we hardly ever use them during sex together. I have a clit stimulator that fits on his cock, which I use with toys too. We used that during sex once. I bought a toy for his balls to use while I blow him. We both like that one. You can use it during intercourse, too, but we've never done that. I've used toys to prepare myself for sex with him, for stretching or "practicing." I guess I think of toys as replacement for his cock, not consciously, because in the heat of the moment it just doesn't occur to me to use them during sex with him.
I'm not all that kinky! I have masturbated a lot. I suppose the level of effort I put into my masturbation might qualify as kinky. Sometimes I play music that turns me on, put porn on, set up my pillows just so with my favorite vibe wedged in between at that perfect angle, with access to all the controls, and I'll watch and squirm and moan and orgasm for hours on end. I've done it for 12 hours before. Not quite continuously, because I start to feel guilty for enjoying myself too much, and then I'll stop, but a few minutes later I'll decide, "Just one more time..." and I sit down on my vibe again! The most frustrating part is that my favorite vibe only lasts about 45 minutes with good power before I have to change the batteries again. I use rechargeable batteries.
I also own a harness that holds toys, and I've cleaned the house while wearing it, but not often. It was made to fit "any size" which means I have to cinch it up really tight and it doesn't fit well, and the frustration and effort involved in making it fit properly before I being cleaning keeps me from wearing it while I clean, which is why I bought it! I keep meaning to buy some leather tools and cut it down to the right size and add some better hardware, but I haven't done it. Yet. Now that I'm pregnant, I doubt I could make it fit at all right now. Not without suspenders. :tongue:
I'm not into size toys for masturbation, just for stretching in preparation for sex with TheBF. I prefer clit and g-spot stimulating toys for personal fun when I'm alone. My favorite toy only penetrates a few inches since it's made to rub my g-spot. Unfortunately it doesn't fit into my harness. If it did, I probably would have already altered the harness so that it fit better!
Nipple clamps: My nipples aren't that sensitive, at least, not before I was pregnant. I am curious about the vibrating nipple rings.
Clit pump: I just learned about these about 4 months ago! I'm so curious about them. If anyone tries a brand and like it, please let us know!
I've spent a ton of money on toys! I owned very few before TheBF and I began dating, but we were a long distance relationship for our first year, and he was very generous about buying me toys as gifts. :smile:
I still buy toys! I love them, but we hardly ever use them during sex together. I have a clit stimulator that fits on his cock, which I use with toys too. We used that during sex once. I bought a toy for his balls to use while I blow him. We both like that one. You can use it during intercourse, too, but we've never done that. I've used toys to prepare myself for sex with him, for stretching or "practicing." I guess I think of toys as replacement for his cock, not consciously, because in the heat of the moment it just doesn't occur to me to use them during sex with him.
I'm not all that kinky! I have masturbated a lot. I suppose the level of effort I put into my masturbation might qualify as kinky. Sometimes I play music that turns me on, put porn on, set up my pillows just so with my favorite vibe wedged in between at that perfect angle, with access to all the controls, and I'll watch and squirm and moan and orgasm for hours on end. I've done it for 12 hours before. Not quite continuously, because I start to feel guilty for enjoying myself too much, and then I'll stop, but a few minutes later I'll decide, "Just one more time..." and I sit down on my vibe again! The most frustrating part is that my favorite vibe only lasts about 45 minutes with good power before I have to change the batteries again. I use rechargeable batteries.
I also own a harness that holds toys, and I've cleaned the house while wearing it, but not often. It was made to fit "any size" which means I have to cinch it up really tight and it doesn't fit well, and the frustration and effort involved in making it fit properly before I being cleaning keeps me from wearing it while I clean, which is why I bought it! I keep meaning to buy some leather tools and cut it down to the right size and add some better hardware, but I haven't done it. Yet. Now that I'm pregnant, I doubt I could make it fit at all right now. Not without suspenders. :tongue:
I'm not into size toys for masturbation, just for stretching in preparation for sex with TheBF. I prefer clit and g-spot stimulating toys for personal fun when I'm alone. My favorite toy only penetrates a few inches since it's made to rub my g-spot. Unfortunately it doesn't fit into my harness. If it did, I probably would have already altered the harness so that it fit better!
Nipple clamps: My nipples aren't that sensitive, at least, not before I was pregnant. I am curious about the vibrating nipple rings.
Clit pump: I just learned about these about 4 months ago! I'm so curious about them. If anyone tries a brand and like it, please let us know!
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