I can’t get off using a dildo..can you?

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Guys!! Seriously topic!

I am a bottom of course. But I can’t get off using a dildo!! I have tried those “rubber” ones, and electrical ones. Just doesn’t do it for me at all. All I can feel and think about when a non-real dick in my ass is: ok, what now….how long is this gonna take? Hello? Not feeling it….. I can’t get the “Mmmm” from it!!!!! I can only get the “fuccccck” from a real dick. I do not know why!!! Am I using it wrong? Wrong tool? Any suggestions?? Serious help needed!!
 

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sounds like you need the physical touch as well. or maybe a different toy. i enjoy using toys but never gotten the orgasm i desire. Mostly laziness because i get tired of doing the work myself lol, i also just like having someone hold me down and make me take it
 

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Do you mean hands free? I have a few times with dildos but it usually takes both penetration & stroking to make me come. :)

I come hands free more often when being fucked by someone. :cool:

"How long is this going to take" makes it sound like you're in a hurry. Maybe using dildos/toys isn't your best option if you're doing a quickie. ;)
 

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Do you mean hands free? I have a few times with dildos but it usually takes both penetration & stroking to make me come. :)

I come hands free more often when being fucked by someone. :cool:

"How long is this going to take" makes it sound like you're in a hurry. Maybe using dildos/toys isn't your best option if you're doing a quickie. ;)
No that I am in a hurry. It’s just, doesn’t feel anything. Lol.
 

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sounds like you need the physical touch as well. or maybe a different toy. i enjoy using toys but never gotten the orgasm i desire. Mostly laziness because i get tired of doing the work myself lol, i also just like having someone hold me down and make me take it
Preach!! We need some good love!!
 
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You know I don't really get much from it either! I have a slim jim jelly dildo gets in no problem, a prostate massager about the size of a finger, A silicone butt plug takes forever to get it in not that big, a silicone love probe get it in smaller than the butt plug but king of hurts more and my skinthetic big boy dildo 6 by 3 or 4 takes forever to get it in too! I gotta be honest don't feel too much pleasure in any of it. More often than not the probe plug and big boy will make me bleed even going slow...super slow and using a large amount of lube over an hour in some cases. I don't know If im not finding my prostate if im going too fast if my toys are wrong or what, but after all the effort more than not i'm left with a slimy ass home that has an aggravated hemorrhoid or a fissure that will take 2-3 months to heal with motrin, prep h and fiber. What am I doing wrong? Is it possible for a guy to be born without a prostate??
 
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I am new to using toys in my ass but the thought of it just makes me feel better all the time. I tried my wifes toy first and after a bit was not working for me like I thought. I went looking for one that I thought I could really enjoy. While shopping at a local porn shop the girl working there as if I needed help. I was shocked on how Open I was with her about what I was looking for. She said she knows what I need. She handed me a box with a 10in cock with a nice suction cup and a set of balls on the end. She opened the box and told me I must feel it to believe it. She handed it to me and my first thought was, This is the one. I bought it and the next Saturday it was all I could think about. I jumped in the shower with my new toy and stuck in on the shower wall and on my gosh what a feeling. Never enjoyed it so much. I do take it balls deep and push against the wall to maximize the depth.... I haven't had an orgasm yet with it but I am enjoying it very much so far and I look forward to a prostate orgasm.
 

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