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In a previous relationship, the man i was with liked it when i would web cam for him. Now i hope i am not the only one who feels this way but i felt absolutely stupid.

The dirty talk, the pretend, the whole masturbating in front of a camera. I felt completely out of place. I felt rather silly.

thankfully that relationship ended and since then I've never gotten naked in front of a web cam before. Does anyone share this feeling?
 

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I've done it a few times - not too many - and I think it can go either way.

Only once or twice did it particularly turn ME on, to be viewed that way by someone else, at a different location.

Other times, I did feel a bit awkward.

Either do it, or not. And I guess you can learn a little bit about yourself as you go. But it's not something to obsess about afterward, I wouldn't think.

It's just something that can happen, now that we have the technology and the networks. It doesn't mean that every time is going to be fulfilling. In some ways that's just like real sex. :wink:
 

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i hate it, regret it always, and have been talked into it and they dont "play".. i wont do it ever again...
 

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Cam is a thing of my past. Whoever came first generally was the first one offline. And then I was usually left there playing with myself anyway. Does camming turn me on? No. Why cam when in real life is sooooooooooooooo much better!
 

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Cam is a thing of my past. Whoever came first generally was the first one offline. And then I was usually left there playing with myself anyway. Does camming turn me on? No. Why cam when in real life is sooooooooooooooo much better!

Amen!
 

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Same, op. It always felt really weird and almost embarrassing, nowhere near the super-sexy pornographer experience people seem to think it is...
 
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Seems like you're 0 for 10, OP. I don't cam and won't, it does nothing to excite me at all.
 

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I love it, but I never show my face, so I do feel some sort of embarassment at the aspect of being recognized...otherwise, I've received positive feedback, and people can choose to look or not to. Maybe its more about your personal expectations of what you want to get out of it? Basically kind of line with exbiker up there was talking about.
 
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Camming with a girlfriend can be fun if you're in the mood. I haven't done it for at least a year now though.

I used to cam with strangers too, even a few lucky ladies from here. Which was mostly good, but with absoulte strangers I felt under so much pressure and would find it hard to cum.
 

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I feel like an idiot. I just can't do it. Guys always want to know when I'm going to turn on my cam and I say "never" for all the above reasons.

I do like to look though!:smile:
 

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I love camming...so so so hot. Love seeing someone else make themself cum and I love to cum on cam for an appreciative audience. I usually do a cam show over at adultfriendfinder and when I see that there are a couple hundred people watching I cum really hard. It's totally addicting