I can't have sex with my girlfriend

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by Rckcanada, Jan 1, 2012.

  1. Rckcanada

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    She is 5' 2'' and only 100 lbs. She is a virgin and I think she is scared of my penis. We have had oral but thats it. anything I can do? Any ideas?
     
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    Patience, patience patience, massive foreplay, and lots of lube and respect
     
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    You HAVE had sex with her! Who says that oral is not sex?
     
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    Lots and lots of foreplay, ive made her cum. she has made me cum but no sex.
     
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    Rckcanada, you have a very large cock and she is afraid that you will hurt her and not stop once you get it started in. You will just have to have patience. The foreplay is all part of it and she may also may want to wait longer so just be patient.
     
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    get her drunk and take it slow after lots of foreplay
     
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    Go slow. Lots of foreplay, maybe even some toy play, loosen her up, use lots of lube. But most of all, follow her lead. You definitely want her first time having intercourse to be a positive memory.
     
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    Clearly its about trust while the advice your have recieved in this thread is pretty good she still won't be having sex with you untils she truly trusts you. Putting any type of pressure on will only back fire. Being attentive, caring and understanding and she will initiate and give herself to you
     
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    Is she having trouble with your PhotoShopped cock or your real cock? The artifacts on your pics clearly show that is not your real cock (enhanced or just pasted - which is it?)
     
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    I have one more suggestion, after the foreplay and getting her worked up. Face each other, with her basically sitting in your lap,but her slightly leaning back against a bunch of pillows. Let her basically take hold of your cock, and use it how she likes--let her rub it over the spots she likes, rub it over her lips, let her take it in only as far as she likes. Basically, let her have complete control over your dick. Let her tell you if she wants you to move forward of back, and follw what she wants. If she has COMPLETE control over your appendange, then she doesn't have to fear it. Do this as often and as many times as it takes for her to insert it. Show her you trust her to take control of you for her pleasure, and experience. I wish you the best of luck!
     
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    Why not you the only one in town not to have had sex with her?
     
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    you: on your back, hard and no thrusting. promise her that and keep your word - hard as it may be.
    her: mounting you at her pace.
    and lube. Try coconut oil or cream. it's tasty too if she decides to have a snack.
     
  13. D_Judith K Rantz

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    Oral sex is sex. You just haven't had vaginal (or anal, supposedly) with her.

    You need to wait until she is ready. Do NOT push her or pressure her unless you are a dumbass and want to lose her.

    I can tell you as someone who is barely 5'0", that when that time comes you will need to go very slow and use a lot of lube, including her own, by having lots and lots of foreplay.
     
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    lots of foreplay. Once she is wet it should be possible. But she's pretty small and tiny, my experience is that a taller and bigger girl works better. Don't know why actually because a vagina is not dependent on body size. But since I started dating big girls I've had fewer problems. My current GF is quite big 5.8" and 320 lbs which works very very very fine. It's the best sex ever. So you may consider to date a bbw.
     
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    Is your penis larger than a full-term baby? I suspect not. Some patience, kindness, and lots of lube will do it, if that's what you and she just insist on doing; but really, I'm with Giggles89 on this. There are few things on the planet better than feeling her orgasms from your tongue, unless it is squirting a load in her mouth.
     
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    you are fuckin huge man! yeah you just gotta give it some time - but don't be sittin around for 6 months. i don't see anything wrong with some pressure on her to do it already tho. just reassure her you won't damage her - on purpose. take it easy and don't pound the shit out of her lol
     
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    bill clinton!
     
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    Exactly right!
     
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    How thick are you anyway? I looks pretty big looking at the small pics. I don't have gold membership. Just let her take the lead.
     
  20. D_Judith K Rantz

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    This is the worst (and dumbest) answer in the entire thread. I think it's safe to say you dont get many dates...:wink: Pressuring the girl, who previously wanted to wait for marriage, to have sex is a fantastic way to go.... :rolleyes:
     
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