So my bf and I have known eachother for probably 4 or 5 months. We've been officially together for only a few weeks tho, and so have only started having sex in that time. I have no problem making him cum during sex, but I have no success during foreplay... e.g. from a bj, handjob, even when I masturbate in front of him. He won't masturbate in front of me either cos he's too shy about it still... I think he just gets a bit of stage fright...but it makes me feel like shit and like he's not attracted enough to me. I know he really likes me and he tells me I'm sexy, but I believe that actions speak louder than words. I just don't understand how he can cum in 5 mins by watching chicks masturbate in porn, yet I'm right there doing in front of him...and it doesn't do anything for him... I know I prob just need to be patient, but it's not one of my good traits lol. Does anyone have any advice or stories where they have been in similar situations?