I cum like Slow...

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  1. D_N Flay Table

    D_N Flay Table New Member

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    After reading the "I cum like fast" post.. I thought I would start my own.

    I have the exact opposite problem, it takes me a very LONG time to cum..

    Jacking off is at least a 15 minute event for me, and sex is even longer.

    no matter how long its been, no matter how turned on I am.. I just can't cum quickly.

    I love having sex... I LOVE It...
    there are a couple girls here that I would love to show how much I dig it..
    You know who you are ;)

    Does anyone else have this problem?

    I have worn girls out, and they have to make me stop... IT SUCKS!:mad:
     
  2. snoozan

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    Yanno, it's always one or the other with men, it's never a happy medium. My husband has come closest because we cum at the same time a lot, but it still seems like most of my partners have either rubbed me raw by the time they were done or they were finished as soon as I started really getting into it.

    Can we install a timer on on your urethras or something?
     
  3. No_Strings

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    That's pretty fast :wink::tongue:
     
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    i am in atime where i cum when ever i want.. except those times.. :)
     
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    Usually it takes 45 minutes or more.

    This problem may come from the way of jerking it off.
     
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    True, so, tell us, how do you jerk off?

    I'm guessing you've tried longer foreplay for you?
     
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    Foreplay is not included that time. :biggrin1:

    Maybe I should do longer foreplay and about to cum, go inside!!!!!!!! :cool:
     
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    So you didn't get any foreplay?
     
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    She didn't like sucking. So just touching and get wet, then do it. :rolleyes:
     
  10. deadur

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    I had this problem for awhile, like when I lost my virginity it took well over three hours and we just gave up. But sometimes when I masturbate it takes as you said quite awhile, around half an hour. However I found this helps, if you think about cumming.. for example...

    Say you're masturbating and it's taking forever... think to yourself "Fuck I want to cum right now" well it works for me anyway.
     
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    Yeah, I was just about to suggest that.
     
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    Thx!
    I should have.

    Maybe explode faster!!!!!!
    Hopefully within 30 minutes
     
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    Yo I have the same problem.

    I learned to use the power of my MIND to solve this problem. It really is a problem of mind over matter. Though sometimes it could be lack of sensation for whatever reason.

    I also just take it out and jack really ferociously when I'm ready and concentrate on nothing but coming.


    Sometimes it just doesn't work, though.
     
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    i have the same issues with prolonged ejaculation.it seems that if i haven't had any form of ejaculation for 4-7 days i can cum normally in 15 minutes but otherwise i can't i and i have to concentrate really hard to achieve an ejaculation,i don't know if there are any health issues here or mostly psychological.any help would be nice.
     
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    I have the same problem. It helps me a LOT if the girl talks to me, you know, tells me how much she wants it and so forth. It's all psychological I guess. The problem is I seem to be most attracted to cute/bookish types of girls who tend to be a bit on the shy/quiet side
     
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    I have the same problem. Well, not a problem for me. Enjoy it.
     
  17. D_N Flay Table

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    I dont mind at all, its the girls that get punished.
    I really dont like causing people discomfort during sex
     
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    I take a lot to cum too. No less than 20 minutes.
     
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    When I relieved my toyboy of his virginity we were at it for hours but he never came... think he was too nervous to let go. I was all sore and frustrated the first few times we had sex, but slowly I discovered his 'magic button' - now if I want him to cum soon I reach under my bottom and play with his balls and it drives him crazy :eek:)

    You're unlucky if you have no magic button.... I s'pose long, heated foreplay is the answer. That or a vibrating buttplug.
     
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    I'm either really fast or really slow. Less than five minutes or more than 45. Usually I cum the quickest from a good sucking, then from jerking off, and intercourse takes at least 20 minutes, even if it's the first sex act. My -ex used to mention how long i took me (I gathered it was a pleasant change from her other sex partners), but I don't think she ever timed me.
     
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