I Don’t Want To Look A Lads And Wank But I Can’t Stop

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Hi guys

I really just confused

right so I wank at looking at celebrities dicks like gym lads but I also wank to straight porn but I can’t stop with the “gay” stuff I don’t like it after I’m annoyed with myself

im currently single and straight always have I would never want to be with a lad or want to do anything with lads only ever done anything with girls

some people will say what I do is gay but I would never never come out as gay because I know I’m not but I just wanted to stop looking at gay stuff but I can’t
 
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I wouldn't worry about it. Just carry on. Figure out what you like.

Straight, bi, gay -- they're all just labels. They're just words. They don't fucking matter. Do what you want. Ask yourself, "And what if I were gay? Is there a problem with that?" Not saying you are at all, but if you did have a gay side it wouldn't be anything to worry about.

Just a heads-up -- years ago, I'd jack off looking at gay porn, but didn't think I was gay because it seemed crazy and impossible to actually be with a guy. Then I tried actually tried it, and I never looked back. You may not really know until you try something in real life.

But if just want to be with women and then sometimes look at gay porn on the side, that's fine, too.
 

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If it gets you off, enjoy. If a gay guy enjoys some girl porn but is all about the D nobody would say he's suddenly straight. No reason it wouldn't work the same for a straight man. It's society's homophobia that tells straight men there's NO ROOM for any gray area within straightness. That's bs so don't stress over it.
 

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Hi guys

I really just confused

right so I wank at looking at celebrities dicks like gym lads but I also wank to straight porn but I can’t stop with the “gay” stuff I don’t like it after I’m annoyed with myself

im currently single and straight always have I would never want to be with a lad or want to do anything with lads only ever done anything with girls

some people will say what I do is gay but I would never never come out as gay because I know I’m not but I just wanted to stop looking at gay stuff but I can’t
You've succumbed to the feelings many guys have. Rather than say "gay stuff", you mean guys with other guys. Guys who are most probably with girls too. I'm married 30+ years. LOVE, love, love looking at guys fucking guys. But then I like straight and lesbian situations too. Enjoy the ride...
 

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Whatever floats your boat, @Tom smith11111. Lots of fundamentally straight men get off on guy’s bodies. Be it for the variety, the taboo, the novelty—and maybe even a hint of bisexual attraction. It’s all good.

But something in what you said gives me pause. You jerk off to men but feel bad afterward? You want to stop but can’t? (Can you stop looking at women no problem?)

Maybe your dick is trying to tell you something, and you’re resisting. Not saying it’s definitely so, but it would be worth opening your mind to the possibility.
 
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It seems to be the problem here is that you have decided you're straight, think that getting off on other guy's bodies isn't allowed if you're straight and therefore feel guilty. Labels are mean to be descriptive, not prescriptive so what turns on you is what turns you on and when it comes to having a wank you can fantasise about whatever you want to, even things you would not actually want to do in real life, and you can use porn to aid that fantasy if that kind of porn is legal.

So, I think stop worrying about labels for now and stop worrying about your porn habits. You say you've done things with girls - how did that work out? I assume you mean more than date, i.e. something sexual? Is that something you are still looking to do? Now's not the best time to explore that with COVID-19 but that seems to be crucial in working out where you're going.
 

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Enjoy yourself buddy, you like what you like. You aren't hurting anyone or yourself.

Sexuality is a fluid thing that isn't so simple as people think.

Amen. You don’t owe anybody else an explanation. Enjoy what you enjoy
 

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Others have given good advice already. If you decide you want to try out webcamming or snapchatting with a guy to see how you feel about it, you can feel free to DM me.
 
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Or is it all ok and I’m just over thinking this shit and just not to worry and carry on what I’m doing
I'm gay, and watch a lot of straight porn. Why? I find a lot of gay porn to be..cheesier? to put on the appearance of masculinity, while not hitting the mark? I'd rather just watch a straight guy get blown, or bang a woman. So, while there is a woman in the scene, she does nothing for me, and I have no personal desire to go there in real life.

But, back to porn.

It is a means to an end. For whatever reason, straight porn gets me off more than gay porn. For you, it's something different. It doesn't mean I want to have heterosexual sex anymore than someone else's virtual fantasy/fetish means they want to do that in real life. Like those awful cartoon monster porn vids. Eek.

I know lots of guys who identify as straight who like watching other guys cocks as part of their porn. Would they go there? Probably not, but even if they did, who cares? Whatever floats your boat.