I don't get hard in stripclubs

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  1. Axcess

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    Yesterday I visited a full nude stripclub . Oddly I don't get hard . I never get hard in any anystriclubs . When I have sex with ladies I always get instant erections but when I'm in a stripclubs that's another story . What could be the reason for that ? It is only me ?
     
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    could it be the crowd around you??? I get hard in different settings, 1 on 1 or bath house, or secluded areas, but not in a bar.:rolleyes:
     
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    Could it be that it's just boring gyration? You are not going to be an active participant at the strip bar. :boobies2: did that do anything for you?
     
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    Stripclubs are sterile. No stimulation whatsoever. Not surprised that you don't get hard.
     
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    well that's better :biggrin1:
     
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    glad i could help. haha
     
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    Knowing I'm not going to get with the girls is what turns me off at strip clubs. They are fun for a few minutes but I'd rather go someplace and meet real women, they might not have huge fake tits but offer a lot more possibilities.
     
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    I don't get hard at strip clubs either.I have a wife that will dance for me and let me touch her in any way I want.Why go to a club that overcharges for beer and won't let you touch the girls?
     
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    Easy answer. Dont go to a strip club. I dont get hard in a strip club either. Why? I dont go to strip clubs. Really they are fake and plastic and take all the passion out of our sexuality. Find yourself a nice woman. Good luck to you.
     
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    I can't take stripclubs serious enough to get erections. Between the "dancing", the hard sell of the women, the silliness of the friends I've gone with, the desperation of some of the guys and the overall atmosphere, it's the least erotic sexual environment I've been in.
     
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    Strip clubs arent meant to arouse...only to amuse and entertain!
     
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    The last time I got a lap dance, the woman doing it smelled a little... ahem, strong... and it wasn't very pleasant. Seriously, I don't get hard if I'm just getting teased. I need something a little more hands-on.
     
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    I get hardons all the time at the beach or whatever. But twice saw a strip show and it did nothing for me. A private lapdance by ma gf is something different. ^^
     
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    Don’t spend any time in strip clubs but even if I was in one that featured the hottest guys I could dream up I wouldn’t get hard either. I need p-a-s-s-i-o-n for that no matter where I am.
     
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    I don't either. I don't particularly care for them because the women there don't care who you are, they just want to get paid. It takes a lot of the eroticism out of it for me. Plus, I need to be part of the action, not just an innocent bystander. I have a friend who goes to a couple of them, and he knows the owners. The girls allow you to do more there, but I don't enjoy the whole atmosphere. It's just not my style.

    Don't worry about it though. Maybe it means you're just a little more moral than you thought you were.
     
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    lap dances are the only thing that wake my boy up
     
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    I think they are meant to take your money, as much as possible.
     
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    I get hard when I get a lap dance, which is fun since it usually provokes some comment.
     
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    I don't either, probably a nice semi. Sex is not a spectator sport. why get all hot(hard) & bothered and be not able to do nothing about it? some of these clubs you might get a kind word out of the ladies, but let a finger or hand go astray and the 350 lb bouncer in bouncing your ass out the door. that's kind of a deterrent to having a good time. the best time with a stripper is after work or her night off.
     
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    I used to work security in a couple of strip bars when I was a bit younger and I found them to literally be anti-erotic.

    all the girls there gave me a soft-on.

    even the pretty ones (of which there were very very few) didn't do anything for me.

    when I went to such places socially, not even a tremor in my nether regions.

    nothing kills your libido more then a strip club or one of those big open porn stores too.
     
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