hello. i put this post here because i'm having a problem with my wife. it's got nothing to do with me or my penis... but has everything to do with her being overweight and not happy with it. she has a very low self opinion and her being big doesn't help. me, i don't mind it. in fact, i like a bigger girl. i'm sure i'd love my wife and find her attractive even if she was 400 lbs, and she's no where near that now. i try and try to tell her that she's sexy and make her feel good about herself, but it doesn't do it. i'm running out of ideas. and she hates how i love her curves, she calls them "gross." lately, she's been wanting to start riding a bike around to help her shed some whieght (she says 100 lbs, which would put her at 120 i think, but she's five foot ten and i think that's not a healthy weight for that hieght anyway.) while i'm supportive in her drive to get thinner, i'm also gonna miss the extra curves. i'm conflicted, and i don't know how to make her feel good about her self the way she is. maybe i should help her try and lose wieght? i built a bicycle for her, and all it needs is a few more parts and it's done. so that's not far off. i don't know what to do. "help her get comfortable in her own skin" or "help her look the way everyone else wants her to look" okay ... have at it.