I don't like getting a blowjob.

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Try to masturbate playing with your head, it will become a bit numb over time and what you feel will shift from "painful" to "pleasurable"...It was painful for me as well when I started having sex, but it is great now!
 

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I think you'd better speak to the person giving the bj, I'd wager that the problem lies there!

I would bet good money on this.

H0neymustard, there's a planet full of uncut guys who absolutely fucking love oral. It has nothing to do with that. In fact, in my totally un-scientific experience and according to my somewhat-slutty (and I say that with the greatest love) circle of friends, uncut guys seem to enjoy oral more and have less difficulty coming from it.

No, by far the number one culprit for bad sex - bad head, bad handies, bad anal, bad anything - is in the technique. The only way to change that is through communication.

People have to learn how to have sex well, and that extends to oral. There are a few lucky guys who can practice on themselves, but the rest of the world has to learn through experimentation with others (and even those of us who can blow ourselves learn pretty quickly that other guys like it differently).

So you have a sensitive dick. I'm the same way - and I'm uncut. That means that the ladies (in my case, the gents) can't just clamp down with their lips and treat it like a popsicle. They have to tease it, go light with their lips, light with their tongues, and go slow, slow, slow. At least, that's how it has to start. Guys with sensitive dicks have to be more communicative about what they like when they get head. It's a bit of a burden, but the pay-off comes (pun intended) when someone gets good at it. Oral goes from being a bit ouch-inducing to the kind of toe-curling, slow-burning, shouting-to-the-rafters pleasure that porn stars do such a bad job of imitating.

Since (according to the side-bar under your avatar) you're American, OP, you're also going to have to do some educating about how to handle a foreskin, as that's not standard issue in your country. Luckily, it's a nice lead-in to communicating about taking it slow and using a lighter touch, as you'll have to let the ladies know it's not as simple as yanking the skin back and using as much suction as possible - which, frankly, is a small blessing for the one giving head. As much fun as it can be to bob up and down like a woodpecker for a minute or two, it starts to feel like a chore pretty fast, and it can cause some neck and jaw soreness. Going slower and lighter is more comfortable for the blow-er, too. So in that way, you're in luck.
 

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You should look into "desensitizing" your glans. There are many ways to do it, one being to retract the foreskin while clothed. The sensitivity should subside with more contact to the glans. Good luck bro.
 

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U r just overworked about it. The vacuum suction and the pulling if the foreskin while getting sucked is probably a major factor. Why not take control. Just have the cock sucker just open their mouth and u slip it in. Like u r fucking. On a side side note u should peel back your skin and while u have down time and let it air dry just to toughen up the skin if your head. U should make thus pleasurable fir yourself. If it doesn't feel right then don't do it. Or come see me I can help. I'm a proactive at it...
 

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you need to work on your penis, getting it ready for this. play with yourself with it pulled right back, and try keeping the foreskin back for a while during the day. worked for me over time.
 

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I'm uncircumcised.

Getting a blow job is just about my favourite thing. Easily as good as fucking an anus. Or, from what I remember, a vagina...

When I say "favourite thing", I'm not including things like reading a good book, or seeing a great film. Or things like nicely baked bread, with good cheeses and wine. OK ? :wink:

Work a little with your masturbation. Gently, slowly. The foreskin should be able to be rolled back completely. I think my "soft" pic may indicate that ? You should also do this for washing anyway, so it should be at least that loose ... ?
 
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I'm not overly keen on getting them either.

It's not painful or anything, but it's very sensitive, there's too much sensation going on. Makes me feel like I'm going to cum within seconds, and I have to fight it not to. And I don't want to cum that quick.

It's not a massive deal though.
 

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Take a look at the stuff that you see on the internet. What is "normal"? Not everybody likes the same things. For a long time I did not think that getting head was that great either. Tastes change over time. Recient experiences have been more fun than in the past. BJs might not be that much fun for you today just don't rukle them out forever.
 

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I am cut and I still hate getting sucked most of the time my head is more sensitive than most plus i have a long shaft to play with i can get myself off better than most
 

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There are also desensitizing sprays meant to keep guys form comming too quicly, you might want to look at Adam and Eve or similar sites for this. Getting a blow job when done right is absolutely amazing.
 

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I guess it's because I'm uncircumcised, but my head is really sensitive and it's actually sort of painful.

Is that normal?

we all have our likes and dislikes. I love giving blowjobs but am not as keen on receiving, they really don't seem to do a lot for me. Then again I am circumcised so maybe my penis is insanely numb....or I just don't get a thrill out of sticking my penis in the mouth of a man or woman, even ones that I love.
 

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My head is pretty sensitive too!

I remember the first time I actually retracted my foreskin, I got scared and it wouldn't go back down, it was really tight. (that was around 12-13?) over the years of slowly playing with it it got looser...but I found my head was still super sensitive. Even when retracting to wash it now is sensitive, not as much as when I was younger but enough strokes on it directly and I flinch still.

I can't see how uncut porn actors can last so long during their sex scenes...I'd be done under a minute with direct stimulation to the exposed head, lol! :(