"i dont like guys just cock" ????

[Ronaldo19]

Im getting tired of hearing some guys talk about how they dont find men attractive but love cock. Almost as if only liking the cock is going to make them less gay/bi than someone who does find men attractive. Im not saying you MUST find men attractive but there should be some understanding of what attraction is. Im 100% gay and find men and cock sexually arousing and attractive. I also find women attractive, sometimes sexy or hot as some str8 guys like to describe women although not usually in a sexually arousing manner, but that doesn't make me bi. I appreciate the human form and body, and women can be beautiful specimens. If I can identify as 100% gay but still admit to finding women attractive, then you can be a 100% hetero male that finds men attractive. We are all human beings and we must appreciate our body and form beyond ones genitals. I dont care if you like dick or not or if thats all you find sexually attractive in the male body, its just a little close minded to state " I dont find men attractive but I like dick". it almost sounds like youre trying to avoid being labeled as a bisexual or gay male. just suck it up, no one is going to call you out in public.

happy new year!!

 

[alcor972]

Im getting tired of hearing some guys talk about how they dont find men attractive but love cock. Almost as if only liking the cock is going to make them less gay/bi than someone who does find men attractive. Im not saying you MUST find men attractive but there should be some understanding of what attraction is. Im 100% gay and find men and cock sexually arousing and attractive. I also find women attractive, sometimes sexy or hot as some str8 guys like to describe women although not usually in a sexually arousing manner, but that doesn't make me bi. I appreciate the human form and body, and women can be beautiful specimens. If I can identify as 100% gay but still admit to finding women attractive, then you can be a 100% hetero male that finds men attractive. We are all human beings and we must appreciate our body and form beyond ones genitals. I dont care if you like dick or not or if thats all you find sexually attractive in the male body, its just a little close minded to state " I dont find men attractive but I like dick". it almost sounds like youre trying to avoid being labeled as a bisexual or gay male. just suck it up, no one is going to call you out in public.

happy new year!!

Thank you Ronaldo, for your wish...
Happy new year to you too...
I feel close to your statement... because there is no reason to separate a cock from the body which it belongs to... lol...
The male body is definitely beautiful/handsome whenever it is in a sexual or non sexual environment...
Thank you, Ronaldo...

 

[933295]

I think this issue has come up many times over the years on LPSG. I do wonder how a guy who likes cock can experience it without being in contact with an actual male. Maybe it's just a fantasy thing where the guy can come to this site and check out big dicks without any involvement with an actual person. That would make sense to me.

 

[Otep]

I don't think "guys who like cock but aren't attracted to men" and guys who claim "I can't determine if a guy is attractive because I'm 100% straight" are the same thing. I think the latter is B.S. but the former seems pretty valid to me. It's probably why transsexual porn can be so popular.

Not to mention, there are plenty of trans people who don't opt for surgery. I don't think that it is absurd for someone to have attractions that are not aligned with a gender-genital binary. Women with penises and men with vaginas. If that is someone's thing so be it. I don't think it's my place to tell them otherwise. To say that an attraction to a penis must always accompany an attraction to men is what seems a little closed minded in my opinion....

 

[Ronaldo19]

I don't think "guys who like cock but aren't attracted to men" and guys who claim "I can't determine if a guy is attractive because I'm 100% straight" are the same thing. I think the latter is B.S. but the former seems pretty valid to me. It's probably why transsexual porn can be so popular.

Not to mention, there are plenty of trans people who don't opt for surgery. I don't think that it is absurd for someone to have attractions that are not aligned with a gender-genital binary. Women with penises and men with vaginas. If that is someone's thing so be it. I don't think it's my place to tell them otherwise. To say that an attraction to a penis must always accompany an attraction to men is what seems a little closed minded in my opinion....

I never said you MUST like a male if you like Dick. I simply stated that it's closed minded to stay you don't find a certain gender attractive. Hence why I used myself as an example. I'm gay but I find women beautiful sometimes. I was just trying to to get at the idea that regardless of our sexual orientation, we can still find a certain level of attractiveness or appreciation to people of opposite or same gender.

 

[TheEnergizerBunny]

I've always found that concept ("I don't like guys just cock") is what fuels his website, tbh. This is 100% my opinion so I'm fully aware I could be wrong, but I've always thought it's kind of a fetish thing for a group majority of them. Men seem so involved with their dicks, so it extends to other men's dicks. They just love dicks; it's part of what makes them a man, to them it establishes their masculinity and makes them feel like 'more of a man.' So for them admiring another dick isn't a gay thing, it's a male thing. Again, this is just my opinion so I'm not claiming this is true or proven by psychology or anything. To me, it's just the only explanation that makes sense. Otherwise I honestly don't see why guys are so obsessed with cocks if they aren't gay.

That being said, I've also always believed a majority of people are bisexual internally without knowing it, and I think that could be another aspect of it. While they don't want to explore their homosexual side they're entertaining it [through this website/other means that relate more specifically to the cock and less specifically to the man attached to the cock].

 

[Exbiker]

TheEngerizerBunny is a wise ...errm ...rabbit.

I think desire has several levels. At the top level, "front of house", the level at which we either do or don't interact with other people, it's been processed through several layers of conscious thought and memory...

Some of us want to let other people - social restrictions / trends - influence our sexuality and our sexual behaviour.

And others less so.

But the upwellings of desire from deep inside our minds are more raw, more variable, more free.

I think liking cocks, liking seeing pictures of cocks, wanting to talk about them IS a bit homosexual, in and of itself.

BUT, fully developed sexuality isn't just about genitals. It's also about bodies, minds, cultural symbolism, behaviour... "Gay" is very much about socialisation - culture and symbols and behaviour and language - whereas sexuality is more about physical bodies - sexual organs and hormones...

So. Yes. There are ways that people could have an interest in cocks but still not develop a gay sexuality. It could be like an interest in guns, or motorbikes.

At the end of the day, these labels don't matter too much.

But it is interesting how men who like cock but aren't gay are still quite often willing to make stereotypical assumptions about gay people.

If we extend respect, as we should, that needs to run both ways ...

 

[Brian S]

I think there's a certain level where if a straight guy has come to the conclusion that he is willing to experiment, he can do so as long as it was about getting off. Just to get off might seem less threatening than getting involved with the man at large, so to speak. That brings up feelings, attraction, etc. I knew a straight guy once who just wanted to suck my dick. He had a curiosity about it, and he did it once, and we never fucked around again. He satisfied his curiosity. I don't think that makes him bi, however, if a guy continues to return to that well and still says he's not bi, then I think he's kidding himself or at least not being real with himself. It's like, I had sex with a girl once. I found out what that was about, and I washed my hands of it afterwards. If I continued to fuck girls and said I wasn't attracted to them I just liked pussy, then I would be deluding myself.

 

[Otep]

I never said you MUST like a male if you like Dick. I simply stated that it's closed minded to stay you don't find a certain gender attractive. Hence why I used myself as an example. I'm gay but I find women beautiful sometimes. I was just trying to to get at the idea that regardless of our sexual orientation, we can still find a certain level of attractiveness or appreciation to people of opposite or same gender.

Then what's the point of bringing in guys who like dicks but not men? If you're trying to make the argument that all people, regardless of orientation, know what is and is not attractive, talking about guys who like dicks but not men is irrelevant.

 

[Samantha Hopkins]

I think this issue has come up many times over the years on LPSG. I do wonder how a guy who likes cock can experience it without being in contact with an actual male. Maybe it's just a fantasy thing where the guy can come to this site and check out big dicks without any involvement with an actual person. That would make sense to me.

Maybe I am missing the point, but having been with some "Otherwise Straight Guys". Many are OK with the sex aspect of it, but don't want to do anything else. I had a long term FWB who went down on me all the time, but would not kiss or anything romantic. We often joked about it, somehow having a dick in his mouth was OK, but kissing...that somehow crossed the line. Only if I was completely en femme and we had a bit too much to drink, would he do anything beyond sex. Married guys are much that way too.

 

[933295]

Maybe I am missing the point, but having been with some "Otherwise Straight Guys". Many are OK with the sex aspect of it, but don't want to do anything else. I had a long term FWB who went down on me all the time, but would not kiss or anything romantic. We often joked about it, somehow having a dick in his mouth was OK, but kissing...that somehow crosses trying the line. Only if I was completely en femme and we had a bit too much to drink, would he do anything beyond sex. Married guys are much that way too.

I do understand not wanting to be romantic in the classic sense, but it's difficult to suck a guy and not touch him in any other way. I think it's pretty much impossible...at least for me. All men I've been with whatever their orientation, have responded to me in a sensual way. I'm not sure how I could avoid feeling some sensuality during our time together. I'm still trying to understand this experience.

 

[Titanomachina]

I understand it quite well. They just pretend the rest of the guy isn't there. In short they separate the two. The guy is just a means to an end.

I know because I used do it sometimes. I just play along with the kissing and cuddling, because what I wanted was down there. Everything before was just prelude, song and dance.

 

[933295]

I understand it quite well. They just pretend the rest of the guy isn't there. In short they separate the two. The guy is just a means to an end.

I know because I used do it sometimes. I just play along with the kissing and cuddling, because what I wanted was down there. Everything before was just prelude, song and dance.

Would you consider this to be disassociation? I think I would know the difference between someone who kisses me without any feeling and someone who is really attracted to me. Maybe I've never experienced being with an adult who is just using me for only their own pleasure and nothing more. I know teenaged guys try to seduce girls all the time with no interest in them beyond their bodies but we're talking about grown men here.

 

[Titanomachina]

Would you consider this to be disassociation? I think I would know the difference between someone who kisses me without any feeling and someone who is really attracted to me. Maybe I've never experienced being with an adult who is just using me for only their own pleasure and nothing more. I know teenaged guys try to seduce girls all the time with no interest in them beyond their bodies but we're talking about grown men here.

You would be surprised how easy it is to do it. When people get in the heat of it it's pretty simple. Grown men or teenaged girls, there is no difference at the end of the day. Anyone can fake it.

 

[Samantha Hopkins]

I think its just how some guys are. I am not saying it makes sense. I don't think every guy who does stuff with guys is fully gay. It took me into my 20's to totally accept the fact that I liked guys. It was a long path to that realization.

When I was a teenager I would have sex with a guy and as soon as I orgasmed I wanted to run away. I wanted to puke and die I felt embarrassed and grossed out. I couldn't believe i had just done something sexual with a guy. It was awful. I felt terrible. Yet a few days later, i would be over it and back to doing stuff with guys again. It was an awful cycle. I started dressing in girls clothes because it made me seem like less of a freak for doing stuff with guys, it was OK for girls to do stuff with guys.

By wearing girls clothes I could pretend I was a girl doing normal things that girls do with guys. It worked some times, and other times it made thing much much worse. If I went all the way with hair, make up and a corset I would have my orgasm. I would be all freaked out and then have to deal with getting changed back to boy mode. I actually preferred to give guys BJ's because I didnt have to have an orgasm.

This post orgasmic embarrassment really got bad when I became anally orgasmic. I would have these massive, incredible, mind blowing, full body, holy crap orgasms. So not only did i have all the guilt of being with a guy, but my orgasms were out of this world. Then I would want to run away but would have to wait for him to finish. It was a freaking nightmare. Eventually I got over it more or less. I just accepted that I liked doing stuff with guys....but it was a long haul.

So for a lot of guys who do stuff with guys, its not all sorted out in their heads, guilt, fear shame or whatever. A lot of "Otherwise Straight Guys" get the same post orgasm embarrassment I used to get. Knowing they want to run away after they cum helps because you don't feel used. Its so different from guy to guy.

 

[Novaboy]

Perhaps it's how some guys convince themselves they are not gay or bi. If they never allow themselves to have more than a quick sexual encounter, they can prevent themselves for developing any feelings for another man.

I do understand that a straight guy can be interested in cock but not men in a sexual way if no sex is ever evolved. It's more of a case of envy. Being intrigued buy huge cock, wondering what it would be like or what it feels like to have a big cock. That I think is normal as we all have cocks. Just like a straight guy can admire a body builder or a hairy chest and wish they were like that too. If you goes beyond admiring or envy than I think they are deluding themselves. Just my opinions of course.

 

[alxthaboy]

I think theres room for everyone, no reason to believe it is logical or not, it may just happen!

 

[firecaptain]

I'm attracted to cock, Big cocks, That's why i'm a fan of gloryholes and anonymous hotel sex. I don't want anything to do with the guy. I want cock, I could never be in a relationship with a guy. I want hard cock. I want it being shoved deep down my throat and tearing up my ass. Plain and simple. In northern Calif. looking for hard cocks. come in get hard fuck or get sucked and leave. Pretty simple.

 

[fordonfire]

yeah, it's odd how often you hear this....if someone ever says this to my face i'm going to say "well i don't like people but i love dick"

 

[bijockfl]

I'm attracted to cock, Big cocks, That's why i'm a fan of gloryholes and anonymous hotel sex. I don't want anything to do with the guy. I want cock, I could never be in a relationship with a guy. I want hard cock. I want it being shoved deep down my throat and tearing up my ass. Plain and simple. In northern Calif. looking for hard cocks. come in get hard fuck or get sucked and leave. Pretty simple.

Appreciate your candor fire..wish i lived near you