I don't like how I look or how I feel about myself...

D_Hammond Happydipper

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Hi guys,

I wasn't sure if I should put this in this section or the appearance issues section, but it seemed like this was the right one since my issues stem deeper than just how I look.

Umm, so I realize that I have really low self-esteem. I don't really like how I look... I don't feel like I'm very attractive... and I'm not really packing down there... and I know that a serious relationship shouldn't be built on something so flighty, but I just feel like that's kind of what I want in a guy, even though I know that there are more important aspects to a partner than just attractiveness, like how much the other one loves you and cares about you.

The problem is, I haven't been with anyone for over a year, and I feel kind of empty inside because I don't feel like I have anyone special in my life. I mean, I have a lot of friends who are girls, and some straight guy friends, but I feel like I want someone to be with that I can give myself up to. I feel really lonely sometimes, and I'm in college and this time is supposed to be special, but everyday I go to bed wondering what the hell I'm doing. I feel like if I had someone closer to talk to, I would feel better. I know that's kind of selfish, to be in a relationship just for that, but it's just how I feel, and no matter how hard I try to realize this, I still feel the same way.

So I feel really bad about myself for my appearance and the fact that I haven't been seeing anyone. And I think that I haven't been with anyone on a date, and this is my opinion, but I think it's the fact that I'm not attractive enough. I mean, I feel like I have a lot to offer in a relationship, but I guess my luck isn't too great.

Thanks for reading this, I would really appreciate any kind of advice.

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seriously do you think than anyone on this site has a healthy self esteem? I truly doubt it. I am of course speaking for myself, but it takes one to know one, and the very nature of posting penis pics on the internet for compliments would NOT be filed under Healthy self-esteem. Every member is in the same boat as you bro. Take it easy.