I don't like men with entitlement issues

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Two things, Red.

First is that I've seen you posting a number of times now that you're "thinking of leaving". I hope you don't. I like you. But I don't like the negativity. I've seen this with you before, where you start getting frustrated and down about aspects of this site, your pictures (which mysteriously expanded dramatically over the past few months) disappear, your avatar disappears. You're about one step shy from either getting yourself banned (again) or leaving voluntarily. That's unfortunate to see, because I think your contributions on the forum can be fun and interesting (when they aren't filled with vitriol due to the actions of particular chatroom rats or forum trolls).

Second, I think this negativity is honestly from the chat room. People like this douchenozzle Hart_of_Woofs are abundant in there. I've never really "caught on" with the whole video chat thing. Naturally a major reason is that I'm not into watching dudes wank themselves. But another major reason is that it's full of mindless asshats. I only care about one or a handful of people in there when I go in there, and often miss the few people I like who frequent it.

Anyway, maybe the forum isn't enough for you. I don't know. But if you must leave, I'd suggest trying to leave the chatroom first because a number of us like you and would have a harder time dealing with the flood of entitled douchebags plaguing this forum. The Women's Issues has been a reasonable haven from it.

Sometimes I make threads in the Relationships forum and the responses from some of the men are just head-shakingly stupid. Even though they're not "women's issues" per se, I feel like I'd get a better response in this section of the forum. Too bad!
 

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Two things, Red.

First is that I've seen you posting a number of times now that you're "thinking of leaving". I hope you don't. I like you. But I don't like the negativity. I've seen this with you before, where you start getting frustrated and down about aspects of this site, your pictures (which mysteriously expanded dramatically over the past few months) disappear, your avatar disappears. You're about one step shy from either getting yourself banned (again) or leaving voluntarily. That's unfortunate to see, because I think your contributions on the forum can be fun and interesting (when they aren't filled with vitriol due to the actions of particular chatroom rats or forum trolls).

Second, I think this negativity is honestly from the chat room. People like this douchenozzle Hart_of_Woofs are abundant in there. I've never really "caught on" with the whole video chat thing. Naturally a major reason is that I'm not into watching dudes wank themselves. But another major reason is that it's full of mindless asshats. I only care about one or a handful of people in there when I go in there, and often miss the few people I like who frequent it.

Anyway, maybe the forum isn't enough for you. I don't know. But if you must leave, I'd suggest trying to leave the chatroom first because a number of us like you and would have a harder time dealing with the flood of entitled douchebags plaguing this forum. The Women's Issues has been a reasonable haven from it.

Sometimes I make threads in the Relationships forum and the responses from some of the men are just head-shakingly stupid. Even though they're not "women's issues" per se, I feel like I'd get a better response in this section of the forum. Too bad!

I didn't say I was thinking of leaving. I said I didn't know what keeps me here anymore. Two different things in my mind. I've been enjoying expanding my gallery but several times lately I've had complaints about my new cam sucking. Which was fine at first, but now I've had people doubt that it's me and even tell me they are all just old pictures from when I was "skinny" and not "obese".

I finally get the hankering to post a video because it's been since 2008 since I posted one and I got to thinking the site needs more of it's own people posting their stuff. I got several complaints that not only was it fucking boring but the camera quality was poor so why even bother?

Do you not see other stuff going on? You don't read everything. And I didn't say I was leaving. I've been not participatory for a long time now. Just trying to come back lately has rendered these kinds of responses.

Also, Mystic Wolf is Heart Of Lion trying to fool people because he got scared of Hickboy picking on him. So he's been on even more of a rampage to gain female attention at the expense of himself. The chatroom hasn't been negative as of late at all too me minus this one incident. The rest of it is going on in threads and commentary about my media. I think you'd be a tad frustrated too.

But this isn't like the times I've left before or got banned. The last few days have been nothing but garbage here and I already had hardly any reason to involve myself publicly.

The post you were referring to is "Ladies Why Are You here?" and I said I don't know what keeps me here. Then the other bullshittery came down full force.
 

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Back on topic, you raise an interesting scenario, Mlle.

It calls a few things into question, but I think there is an over-arching issue, and I see it everywhere.

No one will be terribly surprised at this, of course. Essentially, it's trying to foist one's own beliefs or feelings onto others.

Why should you, or your husband, care what a random person on the internet thinks about your situation?

But it's so prevalent. People trying to tell others what they should do or how to behave. People making comments or statements that the parties involved could care less about.

As it happens, I am one of those people who sleep through whatever, and I never mind being awakened by my love. She can wake me any time, for anything. When she can't sleep, I read to her and it helps. I fall right back to sleep after she does.

People seem to want to tell others what to do, that's common.

I think there is another underlying thread, and that's the propensity to try to defend those who want no defending. He most likely felt that he was somehow 'helping' your husband. Maybe the poor sod just couldn't bring himself to let you know that, gosh, that lamp is so annoying. In rides the internet cowboy to save the day and champion the downtrodden husband!

Of course, there is the golden rule of human interaction. He most likely has many, many other issues that one could wax rhapsodic about for pages (mommy issues, daddy issues, the need to subjugate others, the need to make oneself feel superior... on and on..)

But your main point is valid, here or anywhere. People need to smooth themselves out a bit and not enter 'internet free-for-all' mode at every opportunity.

TL;DR: The internet is full of assholes. Let's all try not to be one.
this re banned in a hurry
 

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I didn't say I was thinking of leaving. I said I didn't know what keeps me here anymore. Two different things in my mind. I've been enjoying expanding my gallery but several times lately I've had complaints about my new cam sucking. Which was fine at first, but now I've had people doubt that it's me and even tell me they are all just old pictures from when I was "skinny" and not "obese".

I finally get the hankering to post a video because it's been since 2008 since I posted one and I got to thinking the site needs more of it's own people posting their stuff. I got several complaints that not only was it fucking boring but the camera quality was poor so why even bother?

Do you not see other stuff going on? You don't read everything. And I didn't say I was leaving. I've been not participatory for a long time now. Just trying to come back lately has rendered these kinds of responses.

Also, Mystic Wolf is Heart Of Lion trying to fool people because he got scared of Hickboy picking on him. So he's been on even more of a rampage to gain female attention at the expense of himself. The chatroom hasn't been negative as of late at all too me minus this one incident. The rest of it is going on in threads and commentary about my media. I think you'd be a tad frustrated too.

But this isn't like the times I've left before or got banned. The last few days have been nothing but garbage here and I already had hardly any reason to involve myself publicly.

The post you were referring to is "Ladies Why Are You here?" and I said I don't know what keeps me here. Then the other bullshittery came down full force.

Oh, that clarifies things completely.

Also, I'm sorry to hear people were bashing your pics/videos. Pics/videos have never been something I overly cared about here.

I just read the thread where you posted your video and you got two complaints and about ten times as many compliments/guys begging to see it. Aside from the guy bitching about the quality and a known pervert troll of that forum, everyone else loved it.

Maybe you do need a break or vacation from here if that's enough to get you down.

Either way, I'll stop bothering you. It's clear you're not here for what I have to offer.
 
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It's just been one of them weeks where you feel the white screen of death coming....it's a scary feeling. I feel like annynimouse that week he wasn't getting any sleep and was at the razors edge. 2 days and counting. If i disappear for a couple of days, make sure first I'm not banned, 2 if I'm not then don't worry about me for a couple more days until I can catch up on some zzzzzz's...if you don't hear from me by then...send out the blood hounds.