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Originally posted by gwinea2000@Jan 25 2005, 05:45 PM
Abortion, right on!

I'm pro-choice, but that kind of enthusiasm for killing a life scares the shit out of me. Abortion shouldn't be considered a priviledge, but a last resort and an admission of personal error. It CERTAINLY shouldn't be something that is embraced and celebrated.


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your first admonishment only holds if you believe that a fetus, at any stage of development, is a life, much less a rights bearing entity. Until viability, the case for that is weak. Second, why should it be and admission of personal error? It may be the result of an error and it may not be. Is all sex undertaken without the intent of having a child a personal error? And lastly, why last resort? If someone doesn't want a child and doesn't want to carry it to term in order to put it up for adoption, then one should probably have an abortion. And no, its not a priviledge but it is a right. And that right should be embraced and celebrated and protected.

I agree with you about the labor of management. Managers are workers, too. While I think the disparity in pay between company officers and the lowest paid workers is criminally excessive in this country, some disparity is understandable. But the distinction between workers and non-workers is meant to separate the working class from the owner class, people who don't create wealth but merely hold wealth. the investor class. This is a group of people who make money mostly by gaming the system.
 

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Gwinea, this is a simple misunderstanding. I was saying "right on" to the fact that I agreed with Onslow's stance, not that I was enthusiastic about abortion! For the record, I do think abortions should be a last resort, but an available one. I dislilke it being used as a form of birth control by people who don't take responsibility up front, but I do accept that my views are not everyone's. I think all life is valuable, and doing an act that can create life is something that should be taken seriously enough to discuss whether or not you want that to be the end result, and if not- use prevention! There are always extenuating circumstances, but in general I would push for more education as a way of curtailing the need for unnecessry abortions. Many unwanted pregnancies are the result of ignorance.
 
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Originally posted by mistergrasso@Jan 25 2005, 09:32 PM
your first admonishment only holds if you believe that a fetus, at any stage of development, is a life, much less a rights bearing entity.  Until viability, the case for that is weak.  Second, why should it be and admission of personal error?  It may be the result of an error and it may not be.  Is all sex undertaken without the intent of having a child a personal error?  And lastly, why last resort?  If someone doesn't want a child and doesn't want to carry it to term in order to put it up for adoption, then one should probably have an abortion.  And no, its not a priviledge but it is a right.  And that right should be embraced and celebrated and protected. 

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A fetus is a living thing. There is life within it. It is possible to maintain this life or to destroy it. This is not subjective. Whether one chooses to acknowledge it as a living human being IS subjective. I personally don't consider a fetus to be of the same stature as a newborn. You certainly can acknowledge the potential for life. Is this immaterial?

What you are saying scares me even moreso than the initial post I was responding to. I would guess (though I can't speak for her) that her 'Abortion, right on!' was simply intended to show support for the right to choose. Your post, however, seems to condone the use of abortion as a method of birth control.

In a perfect world where ideals are (or COULD be) reality, I would be against abortion entirely. I am Pro Choice, but begrudgingly so. I've seen and worked with enough drug babies, , Down Syndrome kids, etc. to know that to 'force' existence upon a child may not be in his/her best interest. IMO, the crackhead moms who keep popping out child after malformed child should be forced to have her tubes tied. This will never happen. Yet we as society end up carrying the burden of her progeny (in a very real tax-payer sense.)

Of course, in situations where the mother's life is endangered, I fully suppport the right to choose.

I also happen to know a few 'mistakes.' One girl in particular, who is one of the sweetest, most intelligent, and most giving people I know, was scheduled to be aborted. Her mom backed out the day of the procedure. Your take on an 'opinion' issue can be a bit different when it involves your very existence, yes?

Now, as far as 'admission of error', etc.
As I stated earlier, in an ideal world, there would be no need for such a procedure. People would use birth control, teenage girls wouldn't attempt back-alley abortions with coathangers, etc. This is not and never will be the case. Therefore, it is necessary -- but it is a necessary evil. Abortions will take place regardless of their legality. BUT -- the moment they become acceptible practice -- or as you stated, something to be "embraced and celebrated and protected" -- we will be a lesser people for it.

Pardon my language, but how the FUCK can you celebrate the destruction of a human life (Or, as you would prefer, the POTENTIAL of a human life)?

I've met women who use it as a form of birth control. Not many, but a few. It is one of the worst things I've ever encountered. The ability to create life is sacred. Destroying it is incredibly ugly.
 

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Gwinea, it seems we were posting at the same time, so I hope you read my reply. I happen to agree with you implicitly and for some very compelling reasons- I am the product of an unplanned preganacy. My parents were not married, and an interracial couple to boot. I am sure this thought must have crossed my mother's mind, and I am very grateful for my life.

I have always been a birth-control Nazi since I was old enough to menstruate. My mother was an articualte, intelligent person and taught me to think for myself. We didn't alwyas agree, but she was supportive of me. After she died, I fell into a depression of sorts and drank even heavier than before, and alas engaged in unprotacted sex with a guy I would never want to bear children with (please trust me on this one!). Finding myself pregnant by the worst person I could think of, and in terrible mental health myself, I chose to abort. I am not proud of this, it is just a fact of my life. I don't grieve that loss or question my choice, but I do use it as a safeguard and a reminder of why I awlays took this issue so seriously, and why I can't let down my guard on it, even occasionally. I desperately wish I had not allowed that to occur in the first place, I did not have ignorance as an excuse, but many people would have been negatively impacted by any other decision. I wish I had not put myself in a situation where all the options were bad, and I had to choose anyway. Pro-choice? Yes. But I do not herald this as a thing to celebrate.
 

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Originally posted by madame_zora@Jan 25 2005, 05:01 PM
Gwinea, it seems we were posting at the same time, so I hope you read my reply. I happen to agree with you implicitly and for some very compelling reasons- I am the product of an unplanned preganacy. My parents were not married, and an interracial couple to boot. I am sure this thought must have crossed my mother's mind, and I am very grateful for my life.

I have always been a birth-control Nazi since I was old enough to menstruate. My mother was an articualte, intelligent person and taught me to think for myself. We didn't alwyas agree, but she was supportive of me. After she died, I fell into a depression of sorts and drank even heavier than before, and alas engaged in unprotacted sex with a guy I would never want to bear children with (please trust me on this one!). Finding myself pregnant by the worst person I could think of, and in terrible mental health myself, I chose to abort. I am not proud of this, it is just a fact of my life. I don't grieve that loss or question my choice, but I do use it as a safeguard and a reminder of why I awlays took this issue so seriously, and why I can't let down my guard on it, even occasionally. I desperately wish I had not allowed that to occur in the first place, I did not have ignorance as an excuse, but many people would have been negatively impacted by any other decision. I wish I had not put myself in a situation where all the options were bad, and I had to choose anyway. Pro-choice? Yes. But I do not herald this as a thing to celebrate.
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MZ -

WOW,

All I can say is,
May we all have the power to learn from our experiences in a way that makes us stronger.
May we all have the power to learn from our experiences in a way that makes us stronger!
 

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Jana:
"Abortion, right on!" probably came out wrong. Every woman who unintentionally gets pregnant has to go through the bioethical debate; the father does, as well. The idea that anyone would say "Abortion, right on!" feeds into fundie fantasies.

mistergrasso:
Actually, that's one reason many New Yorkers believe Bush was behind 9/11. Reagan did something similar during the Iran hostage crisis, hence hostages being released five minutes after Reagan's inauguration. The degree to which Bush has opposed the 9/11 Commission gives these conspiracy theorists more ammo.
 

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Would abortion as birth control be such an issue if we educated and provided adequate birth control methods to the populace? Simple minded aren't I?

My mother supported BOTH Planned Parenthood and condom/public school sex education. Her silly theory was that "if these kids know how to NOT wind up pregnant, they wouldn't need abortions." Knowledge is power, unless you are a neocon in which case, you just make up your mind not to be horny. sigh.
 
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Androo:
It's not even close to that simple. The 'worker' contributes to the end marketable service/product which results in revenue. True. However, throwing a bunch of 'workers' in a room with the instructions 'create wealth' won't work. (Actually, it may -- in which case one or more of those with entrepreneurial spirits may start up their OWN company to generate profit. Ahh, the beauty of capitalism.) If you seriously believe that the role of manager is less important than that of a specialist, you have a VERY limited understanding of corporate structure. There's a reason why Upper Management earn salaries 2-3+ times as high as the 'workers' below them: The skills which they possess are scarce resources. The most basic rules of supply-demand economics are applicable to the world of employment. People who are trainable to be 'worker bees' are a dime-a-dozen.

If managers didn't help add to the bottom line (i.e. 'create wealth') they wouldn't have a place on the payroll.

'Workers of the world, unite!!!' Your socialist impulses may read well, but they have no basis in pragmatics (except perhaps in smaller, self-contained societies such as Switzerland.)

Gwinea2000: I should like to read a greater elaboration regarding these scarce resources, the skills of trained Upper Management.
 

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Originally posted by jonb@Jan 26 2005, 03:53 AM
Jana:
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mistergrasso:
Actually, that's one reason many New Yorkers believe Bush was behind 9/11. Reagan did something similar during the Iran hostage crisis, hence hostages being released five minutes after Reagan's inauguration. The degree to which Bush has opposed the 9/11 Commission gives these conspiracy theorists more ammo.
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Well, I'm not a New Yorker but I used to be. I don't believe Bush was behind 9/11, per se, but I think he knew something was coming and let it happen, knowing this would provide the cover for an agenda (invading Iraq, homeland security act) which was already planned but would have otherwise been unpallatable. FDR did something similar with Pearl Harbor. I think he just didn't know the buildings would come down.
 

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Originally posted by gwinea2000@Jan 26 2005, 12:12 AM
A fetus is a living thing. There is life within it. It is possible to maintain this life or to destroy it. This is not subjective. Whether one chooses to acknowledge it as a living human being IS subjective. I personally don't consider a fetus to be of the same stature as a newborn. You certainly can acknowledge the potential for life. Is this immaterial?

What you are saying scares me even moreso than the initial post I was responding to. I would guess (though I can't speak for her) that her 'Abortion, right on!' was simply intended to show support for the right to choose. Your post, however, seems to condone the use of abortion as a method of birth control.

In a perfect world where ideals are (or COULD be) reality, I would be against abortion entirely. I am Pro Choice, but begrudgingly so. I've seen and worked with enough drug babies, , Down Syndrome kids, etc. to know that to 'force' existence upon a child may not be in his/her best interest. IMO, the crackhead moms who keep popping out child after malformed child should be forced to have her tubes tied. This will never happen. Yet we as society end up carrying the burden of her progeny (in a very real tax-payer sense.)

Of course, in situations where the mother's life is endangered, I fully suppport the right to choose.

I also happen to know a few 'mistakes.' One girl in particular, who is one of the sweetest, most intelligent, and most giving people I know, was scheduled to be aborted. Her mom backed out the day of the procedure. Your take on an 'opinion' issue can be a bit different when it involves your very existence, yes?

Now, as far as 'admission of error', etc.
As I stated earlier, in an ideal world, there would be no need for such a procedure. People would use birth control, teenage girls wouldn't attempt back-alley abortions with coathangers, etc. This is not and never will be the case. Therefore, it is necessary -- but it is a necessary evil. Abortions will take place regardless of their legality. BUT -- the moment they become acceptible practice -- or as you stated, something to be "embraced and celebrated and protected" -- we will be a lesser people for it.

Pardon my language, but how the FUCK can you celebrate the destruction of a human life (Or, as you would prefer, the POTENTIAL of a human life)?

I've met women who use it as a form of birth control. Not many, but a few. It is one of the worst things I've ever encountered. The ability to create life is sacred. Destroying it is incredibly ugly.
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Gwinea,

Let me start by correcting a misreading by you of something i wrote. I wrote that the right of women to seek and/or have and abortion should be protected, celebrated, etc. I think all of our rights need protection. That is not the same as celebrating abortion. Abortion is a serious medical procedure and a fairly somber affair.

Second, yes a fetus is living tissue. So is my liver. Skin is living tissue, too. Whether or not a fetus is a living human being or not is not merely a subjective question. It was the focus of the abortion debate for many years. Where does life begin? Does it begin at conception? does it begin at birth? Is there some time in the pregancy when one can say this fetus is now an individual life? I would guess that you believe that the fetus is a life at conception. I think it happens later, probably at viability.

I'm not sure what you mean that I condone the use of abortion as birth control. Do I think that children should be taught that if they are going to have sex, try and use protection but if you forget, go get an abortion? No. But I do believe that abortion should be available to end an unwanted pregancy and the women neither needs to be forced to do a mea culpa and admit the error of her ways, nor should she need to have her life endangered by the pregnancy. When i read Madame Zora's story, I don't see any room for her experience in your view of when abortion is acceptable.

Safe, legal and rare is I believe how Clinton put it. I think I would subscribe to that philosophy.

I don't even want to get into women getting their tubes tied. That's a whole other subject.

As far as knowing someone who was scheduled to be aborted, that's a great story. But that in turn does not mean that every fetus should be brought to term. I can use elaborate what-if scenarios to show how I might not have been born. When my mother became pregnant with my older sister my father was about to be drafted but the policy was then to allow men with pregnant wives to avoid service. Had my dad gone to Vietnam, I probably would not have been born. I have a friend who was born to unmarried parents. Had they followed the teachings of their church, they might not have had sex at all. Then he wouldn't be here. I know this is getting silly so I'll see if I can make a point. I am happy for the girl that you know that her mother decided not to have an abortion. But I don't feel anything for the people that never came into existence because a women did choose to have an abortion.

Finally, before you take to swearing at someone in capital letters, make sure you've read what they wrote carefully or you might wind up, as in this case, admonishing and moralizing based on something that was never actually said.
 

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Jonb, clearly my choice of words was poor, and did not convey my intent. I meant, "Your view on abortion is right on with mine" so I should have said that. I suck at word economy, so I guess I may as well embrace my long-windedness. I am sorry it came out as it did, I did not intend to turn this into a confessional.

EBViking, thanks so much for your words of support, I have tried to do exactly as you suggested.
 

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Originally posted by KinkGuy@Jan 25 2005, 11:11 PM
Would abortion as birth control be such an issue if we educated and provided adequate birth control methods to the populace? Simple minded aren't I?

My mother supported BOTH Planned Parenthood and condom/public school sex education. Her silly theory was that "if these kids know how to NOT wind up pregnant, they wouldn't need abortions." Knowledge is power, unless you are a neocon in which case, you just make up your mind not to be horny. sigh.
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Been gone a few days. Abortion an extremely emotiionally charged issue. Let's look at the basic facts as they are now. But before we really look at the facts we must acknowledge that it is the religious right with is one wing of Christianity that is driving the antiabortion group. So, yes, I will spend much time on the fallacy of some of their doctrines. I shouldn't have to. The religious part of this shouldn't even be a factor. But it is. Too ignore this is too totally misunderstand the dynamics of the saga of should we or should we not allow abortion.

First, the United States Constitution gives rights to those BORN as citizens or those who have been naturalized as adults who come from other countries. The basis of our allowing abortions has been on this part of the Consitution. Historicaly, rights and acknowledgement that the fetus is citizen has not been given until the baby is BORN. When still bornbabies are delivered, legally nothing has to be done. The stillborn can just be put in the incinerator and destroyed. Historically they have not ben listed as born citizens who have then died. That is until the last 20 years when a few judges have suddenly given rights to fetuses. I will digress here, but if we have an unfit mother are we going to take the fetus away and put in in a foster home? Or maybe we should put the mother in shackles and lock her up in a special home for unfit expectant mothers until the baby is born. This could apply to every woman who is carrying a baby. Any judge could decide that a woman is smoking, not eating the right kind of food, not the correct type of excercise. not enough sleep and I am sure I left something out. Because once we have established that the festus is a human being and a citizen of the United States we will have to change birthdays to the conception date. Fetuses can then become wards of the state and the women carrying them held hostage until the birth.

The point here is that legally, there is no unboirn fetus in the womb who has the rights of citizenship according to the United States Constitution.

All the above is to establish why abortion is legal here in the United States. If this were not so then Roe vs, Wade might not ever have happened.

Now to the issue of religion and whether the fetus is a human being or not. I am of the opinion that the soul enters the body when life is "breathed" into it. I can talk about this from another angle then abortion, My wife and I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks. There was no funeral or obituary. We don't know the gender. I don't believe that what to become a baby for us has a soul in heaven. I don't believe that the soul is given until the baby breathes. And the fact that no funerals were held throughout the ages supports this belief as customary throughout Christianity and other religions as well throughout history until suddenly now here in the United States.

I understand that some people believe that the soul is given at conception. As far as the Christian religion goes, we must go back to what people believed during Biblical times. During those times people believed that the seed came from the man only. The woman was the place of incubation. An analogy here is the seed for a plant is put in the flower pot. to grow and develop. There was no doctrine of conception. The seed just started growing after being planted in the women. This concept of sperm and egg uniting to make a human being is a scientific concept that was discovered in recent times. Now if abortion were very wrong, the Bible would have condemned it. It was not mentioned.

So I believe that threre is no extra child that I will see in heaven. But I know Christians who believe that since the soul is given at conception there will be a soul in heaven. while I don't agree with them, I understand their viewpoint. The problem is that if you believe that the fetus is a complete human being with a soul that will live eternally, then how can you say that abortions would ever be a valid procedure except when the choice is to save the life of the mother and the other choice is to lose the life of the mother and the fetus as well. If the fetus is human then it has all the rights of all other humans and we don't decide when we can murder or not murder the developing human.

This gets into a whole new area of human selection and when do the parents get to decide that there is enough wrong with the baby to abort it. Should the government have standards for this or should the parents have control of this? There are cases where it is clear that the baby will not develop at all and I know of doctors who recommend to abort the fetus.

The case for saving the life of one human and letting one human die is well documented. Car wrecks and the decision has to be made which one to save first. And the medics know that the one not saved first will probably die. So the case for either losing both mother and unborn child OR just losing the child through abortion makes it OK to have abortions if you believe that the fetus already has a soul because the choicee is save just mother or lose both.

My point is that the position of most antiabortion people is flawed. To allow for abortions for cases of incest, rape, or defects in the fetus just can't be argued successfully if the fetus is a human being with a soul. We would have to treat it like a born human being and I don't think we can go and murder a three year old because we have a confession that yes the baby was conceived through a rape.

So in in conclusion of considering this as a Christian decision, one must either be totally against abortion except to save the life of the mother or Bibically there is no prohibition against abortion period as the fetus does not have a soul until life is breathed into it at birth.

But legallly, this is more than just a Chrsitian doctrine decision. And to make a change, an amendment to the U.S Constitution willl be needed.

Again, according to my religious beliefs, I don't expect to see a baby in heaven. And the fetus that was aborted in Jana's case; I don't expect Jana will see a baby in heaven either. But I do understand how those who expect to see that baby in heaven feel. I have talked to other people who have lost a baby through a miscarriage and they really believe that they will see a baby in heaven. I understand why they would be against abortion.

But we have to look at it from a historical prespective as well as our present knowledge of conception. The whoe, doctirne of human life with a soul begins at conception is based on moern scientific discovery, not the Bible. The Biblical people had no conept of conception. All seed were the same whether spilt out as in withdrawing the penis just as orgasm was about to happen to prevent a pregnancv or planted in a women.

There are very valid arguments about when a feus become a human being and abortion should be wrong, but using the Bible is not one of them.

Yes, I know the Scripture about "how I knew you before you were in the womb." To use that concept would give a soul to all seed since the man carried 100 % of the seed and the woman only was the "soil" for the seed to grow. That would give a soul to every sperm that ever was produced. That would give me millions of children. Surely, no one believes that is true.

In conclusion, we will have to use our modern knowledge about conception and when we want to start counting fetuses as a human being. The Bible's concept of the birth of babies will not give much help. And according to our U.S. Constitution the only way to outlaw abortions contitutionally is to add an amendment to the U. S. Consitution.

Jana, I have a relative who also got pregnant under very similar circumstances. The father was crazy with documented mental conditions. The girl in question was not well and her doctor had warnd her not to get pregnant for health reasons. Yes, I was instrumental in arranging an abortion for her. I regret the action was necessary. But it was no one else's business. The miscarriage still bothers my wife and me. But she is still pro choice on abortion.

The pain of miscarriages and having to deal with whether to go through an abortion or not is painful enough without the U S Constitution getting involved. Only the mother, doctor and the woman's god as she understands him to be should be involved, period. The rest of us need to gracefully butt out.
 

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Thanks, Freddie. Well said.


I am reminded, reading your post, of a lyrical presentation of one of the ideas you present (but don't endorse.)

Every Sperm Is Sacred
Micahel Palin

There are Jews in the world, there are Buddists,
There are Hindus and Mormons and then
There are those that follow Mohammad, but
I've never been one of them.

I'm a Roman Catholic,
And have been since before I was born,
And the one thing they say about Catholics is
They'll take you as soon as you're warm.

You don't have to be a six footer,
You don't have to have a great brain,
You don't have to have any clothes on,
You're a Catholic the moment Dad came, because

Every sperm is sacred,
Every sperm is great,
If a sperm is wasted,
God gets quite irate.

Let the heathen spill theirs,
On the dusty ground,
God shall make them pay for
Each sperm that can't be found.

Every sperm is wanted,
Every sperm is good,
Every sperm is needed,
In your neighborhood.

Hindu, Taoist, Morman,
Spill theirs just anywhere,
But God loves those who treat their
Semen with more care.

Every sperm is sacred,
Every sperm is great,
If a sperm is wasted,
God gets quite irate.

Every sperm is sacred,
Every sperm is good,
Every sperm is needed,
In your neighborhood.

Every sperm is useful,
Every sperm is fine,
God needs everybody's,
Mine, and mine, and mine.

Let the pagans spill theirs,
O'er mountain, hill and plain.
God shall strike them down for
Each sperm that's spilt in vain.

Every sperm is sacred,
Every sperm is good,
Every sperm is needed,
In your neighborhood.

Every sperm is sacred,
Every sperm is great,
If a sperm is wasted,
God gets quite irate.
 
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gwinea2000: Well, after reading through all of the posts, I've realized that I can't take the time to respond everything that I'd like to. A few quick thoughts, though:

Madame Zora, it seems we're on exactly the same page. When I re-read the posts, I figured your words came out wrong. My initial response was a bit reactionary, so I apologize for that. Thanks for sharing your experiences.

Let me start by correcting a misreading by you of something i wrote. I wrote that the right of women to seek and/or have and abortion should be protected, celebrated, etc. I think all of our rights need protection. That is not the same as celebrating abortion. Abortion is a serious medical procedure and a fairly somber affair.

Gotcha. I still disagree that it is a right to be 'celebrated.'

Second, yes a fetus is living tissue. So is my liver. Skin is living tissue, too. Whether or not a fetus is a living human being or not is not merely a subjective question. It was the focus of the abortion debate for many years. Where does life begin? Does it begin at conception? does it begin at birth? Is there some time in the pregancy when one can say this fetus is now an individual life? I would guess that you believe that the fetus is a life at conception. I think it happens later, probably at viability.

So then, it would be incorrect to refer to a fetus as an unborn child (as it is not yet a child), correct? Would you say that this 'lump of living tissue' that is a fetus should be afforded no more protection than, say, your skin? Should Scott Peterson have been charged only with the murder of his wife? What if he had kicked her in the belly, killing the fetus but leaving her with a just a decent bruise? Would this be a simple case of spousal abuse?

I have a hard time believing that you REALLY believe the parallels you've drawn -- that a developing fetus and a peson's epidermis are of equal stature. I'll go one further -- a fetus is a living organism. It's not self-sufficient, but neither is a new-born.

When i read Madame Zora's story, I don't see any room for her experience in your view of when abortion is acceptable.

In an earlier post, I typed "Abortion shouldn't be considered a priviledge, but a last resort and an admission of personal error." I'd bet that Mme Zora would readily admit that her situation fit that description.

Safe, legal and rare is I believe how Clinton put it. I think I would subscribe to that philosophy.

We're probably quite close to agreeing on this issue. Our major difference involves the status of a developing fetus.

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First off, I find your posts quite hard to read due to the frequent errors in spelling, structure, and diction. Nothing personal, just an observation. Regarding the 'status' of an unborn child, here's a hypothetical: If your wife were pregnant and was assaulted by some jackass, leaving your child-to-be destroyed, should the person responsible serve a simple 2-3 year term for assault? If a fetus is murdered, should there be consequences? Just curious.

Citizenship to a country isn't the issue. Whether a country affords any protections to its existence is. Though immigrants aren't granted 'citizenship', they are offered certain protections and rights (though few and far between).


Now I'm rambling....
 

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Gwinea,

Yes, we are probably not too far apart on this matter. i think I detected, rightly or wrongly, a bit of judgementalism (a word?) in your first post and that is probably what I reacted to the most. So few women use the right to an abortion as simply a form of birth control that i don't think the actions of those women should necessarily be brought into the equation. For most it is the result of a mistake or possibly the statistically inevitable failure of prophylactic birth control. I just don't think there are hordes of women who think to themselves, "Boy, I sure like unprotected sex. I'm just going to keep doing it and get an abortion every time I get pregnant." That might not be what you are implying but that was how I read it.

Regarding the life of a fetus, no, I don't think that it is the same as the skin. I was trying to use an example where it is easy to see the distinction between something having life and a living person. I must say that I do feel very uncomfortable with the idea of extending constitutional protections to fetuses. It doesn't sit right with me. As Freddie pointed out, there is nothing in any religious or social traditions to support the notion of considering a fetus to be a human being. That is not to say that we are bound only by what our traditions dictate. Progress means expanding our notions of humanity and developing the social contract. Its ironic that the anti-abortion crowd probaby is one the thinks of itself as supporting traditional values while the pro-choice crowd thinks of itself as progressive, since tradition is on the side of the pro-choicers, while the anti-abortion movement can in many ways be seen as an extension of the progressive struggles to expand human rights.

I myself struggled with the issue of choice because, like Freddie, I feel that if a fetus is a human being regardless of its stage of development then it should be afforded all the rights that born humans have. But I don't think that a fetus is a human being but rather something developing into one. When does the transition take place is a difficult question. I suppose I have settled on the moment of viability, that is, when the fetus would be able to live independantly as a child outside of the womb. Science wil no doubt continue to move this mark.
 

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Originally posted by madame_zora@Jan 26 2005, 06:27 AM
Jonb, clearly my choice of words was poor, and did not convey my intent. I meant, "Your view on abortion is right on with mine" so I should have said that. I suck at word economy, so I guess I may as well embrace my long-windedness. I am sorry it came out as it did, I did not intend to turn this into a confessional.
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Sorry about that. Well, abortion is more humane than infanticide. Contraceptives are more humane still.

The problem is the way morals have historically been taught in the States, aiming for the ideal and saying you'll go to hell otherwise. A much better way to teach morality is to show the consequences of one's actions.

The problem is, the ideal doesn't exist in real life. That's why it's ideal; it's an idea.
 

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Originally posted by gwinea2000@Jan 26 2005, 12:22 PM




Second, yes a fetus is living tissue. So is my liver. Skin is living tissue, too. Whether or not a fetus is a living human being or not is not merely a subjective question. It was the focus of the abortion debate for many years. Where does life begin? Does it begin at conception? does it begin at birth? Is there some time in the pregancy when one can say this fetus is now an individual life? I would guess that you believe that the fetus is a life at conception. I think it happens later, probably at viability.

So then, it would be incorrect to refer to a fetus as an unborn child (as it is not yet a child), correct? Would you say that this 'lump of living tissue' that is a fetus should be afforded no more protection than, say, your skin? Should Scott Peterson have been charged only with the murder of his wife? What if he had kicked her in the belly, killing the fetus but leaving her with a just a decent bruise? Would this be a simple case of spousal abuse?





Freddie53
First off, I find your posts quite hard to read due to the frequent errors in spelling, structure, and diction. Nothing personal, just an observation. Regarding the 'status' of an unborn child, here's a hypothetical: If your wife were pregnant and was assaulted by some jackass, leaving your child-to-be destroyed, should the person responsible serve a simple 2-3 year term for assault? If a fetus is murdered, should there be consequences? Just curious.

Citizenship to a country isn't the issue. Whether a country affords any protections to its existence is. Though immigrants aren't granted 'citizenship', they are offered certain protections and rights (though few and far between).


Now I'm rambling....
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Well it seems that Jana and I both are off on our writing skills on this thread. I deleted most of the above quotes. But I found much of everyone else's posts difficult the read as well. We are all using different terms and coming from different situations and philosophies. Sorry about the misspelled words. But I am in a majority there. The number of posts with mispelled words seems to outnumber the ones that are written perfectly. It is easier to find other's mistakes then your own.

Now to the issue. Assult. You must not know American law very well. It is called rape. At one time rape was a capital offense as in the person found guilty was put to death. Rape often carries a life sentence, not two or three years.

The reference that I used about "born" is as I understand it part of the Roe vs. Wade decision of the United States Supreme Court and as such is very integral to understanding the legal aspects.

There are three differerent arguments going here

1. Legal
2. moral without religious ties to a God
3. religious

Legal. Bottom line is that a government can make what it wishes legal or illegal and this is going to vary from nation to nation and I didn't take into consideration that much of my audience is not American. We can make 20 miles an hour the legal top speed if we wish. We can legally pass a law to do anything. So I will leave this issue alone for the moment.

2. Moral or ethical. We all differ and we will never agree on this either. I didn't address this fully as I was only referring to the awesome and daunting task of satisfying all religions beliefs in writing a legal document. This is the third issue.
I will leave this issue alone except to say that those who don't even believe their is a God can and do have high moral values according to the society that they live in. I will leave this issue alone for now.

3. The religious issue is daunting. Certain religious groups believe that if a person gets a blood transfussion that that person will burn in hell for eternity. So if a person is an adult, in America the hospital will not force or require a blood transfusion out of respect for religious reasons. I have no problem with that. I would have a problem though if that religous group tried to pass a law that my son would have to die and not get a blood transfussion to make American law conform to the religious beliefs of that group.

That is what I was trying to say. The religious right believes that the soul enters the body at conception. That is their right to believe that. They don't have a right to force all Americans to conform to their particular religious beliefs on when does a mass of living cells get a human soul to live on for eternity.

We simply can't in America rewrite the Constitution or the laws to fit the religious beliefs of a religious group even if that group has about 37 % of Americans agreeing to that religious belief. The other 63 % don't and shouldn't have to follow the religious practices of someone else's religion.

The issue of abortion has to be dealt with solely on the issue of moral or ethical ground and what the people of that nation want the laws to be concerning abortion.

IN CLOSING: Abortion is here to stay. If we make it illegal, we will just drive it underground and have many girls mutilated. Rich people will send their duaghters to a country where it is legal. Only the poor who want abortions will be denied or mutilated.

Morality isn't easily legislated. Societies have on numerous occasions tried to stamp out homosexuality and premarital sex as well as maturbation. None have been successful in doing so. And until human nature changes, none will be able to do so. We will just have a lot of people being punished in some way. Even capital punishment will not stop certain human behaviors. It has been tried and it didn't stop those behaviors. It did keep it from being out in the open. That is all.


I must make two last comments. How could anyone equate the death of a fetus four days old with the death of a person who lived a long and fruitful life is a mystery to me. I just don't see a fetus as a viable human being with a soul. That is my religious belief. My religous beliefs are that the soul is given at birth, period.

If a woman is carrying a baby at even eight month and the baby is lost due to the deliberate attack on that woman, that is a wrongful loss issue, not murder. There is no name, no social security number, no anything anywhere establishing the mass of human flesh in the woman's body as a person.

This is new ground the idea of charging people with murder of unborn fetuses.