I'm new here and I don't really hang out my dirty laundry in public but i think I need some uncensored advise and opinions. To make a long story short, my bf quite smoking about three months ago. he used the pill called Chantix. since then he's become more aggressive and not in the way someone would like. Just about anything sets him off into a rage that can last up to 2 hours. Most of them is towards me. Now I know that me and hims are polar opposites and even though we've had our small disagreements, they are getting worse. i hate to see him so stressed out and I'm starting to worry about my safety and his own. I told him to see a doctor but he refuses to. i don't know what to do anymore and I cant deal with the emotional, and verbal abuse he keeps on giving me. i don't know if its better for me to leave him and give him space. but i also don't know that doing so may cause him more stress and pain. btw he stopped the pill treatment two weeks ago. great i make sure I write this with good grammar and i still get the title wrong... smh.