We arent dating or anything. We have just been talking for a long time. Had sex a couple of times. Some people know the story. We talked about trying a relationship but its never going to happen. She has a kid, smokes pot, goes out drinking on tuesday (is that random or what?). She never makes any effort to bother with me so I say fuck it. What should I tell her? Edit: I also think I'm probably one of a bunch of guys she may just have hanging around waiting for her. So I don't want to be a part of the either. Although I've been thinking of telling her I don't want her for a while, I recently realized that this too is a possibility which just adds to why I don't want to bother with her anymore.