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I wouldn't put to much thought into it. I consider myself straight, meaning that I like to have sex with women, and also find myself able to emotionaly connet with women in a way I can't with men.
This isn't to say I don't find the male body beautiful, appealing, or even sexual, because I do. I also will occassional see a man that to me looks attractive, I have even tried my hand at some highschool/college experimentation. I think what you're expiriencing is something most men go through, and you'll determine what you want to be, if anything.
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Yeah, it does matter. Think about it. Homophobia still exists as with all other prejudices. If it didn't matter, people would be a lot honest in their relationships. Orientations do run people's lives. I know that for certain. :smile:

Well, you make a point. I should rephrase my thought, I don't let orientations run my life...or the lives of people I know. (If I can help it) However, homophobia is prevalent and that does affect millions.
 

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I just like anything to do with sex. Reading it, watching it, tho doing it I reserve for men only. I think most people, if they are honest, are turned on by all kinds of sex straight, gay and bi. I even have a lesbian friend who is turned on by 2 men at it so........
 

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Imagine what if we would leave two guys in an island with no human being. Would they have sex after a couple of years? I don't know about human psychology; you guess.
 

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allow me to clarify my stance...I am 100% straight but, like when a woman says she is straight but can appreciate another beautiful woman, I am that way with cocks...

someone care to judge me? :)
 

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I wouldn't put to much thought into it. I consider myself straight, meaning that I like to have sex with women, and also find myself able to emotionaly connet with women in a way I can't with men.

I'm sort of the opposite. I have great emotional bonds with either women or men, but have absolutely no physical desire or arousal for women.

This isn't to say I don't find the male body beautiful, appealing, or even sexual, because I do. I also will occassional see a man that to me looks attractive, I have even tried my hand at some highschool/college experimentation. I think what you're expiriencing is something most men go through, and you'll determine what you want to be, if anything.
CE

I find some women to be very beautiful, but I don't ever find them "sexy". That is part of why I list myself as 100% Gay.

To the originator of this thread, you may be bi, or you may still be developing your sexuality and could become either gay or straight with time. Give yourself time. Explore, safely, and you will learn from it, regardless of where your destination turns out to be.
 

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Well, you make a point. I should rephrase my thought, I don't let orientations run my life...or the lives of people I know. (If I can help it) However, homophobia is prevalent and that does affect millions.

Orientation matters if you're not strait, race matters if you're not white, gender matters if you're not male, wealth matters if you're not rich, food matters if you've got your nose pressed against the restaurant window. In other words, if you belong to the dominant/powerful/accepted segment, you can afford to disregard those issues, but not if you don't. I do get tired of people in this or that comfortable majority saying other people's issues don't matter.
 

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I believe that you are gay if you know it with every fiber of your being. You have to be very attracted to the same sex and be willing to put up with a lot of stuff. I do mean a lot of stuff.

I know guys who are married heterosexually and are actually friggin' gay. But they don't really see themselves as gay. Strange...:confused:. But, hey, every man and woman has to live their own life.
I think it was WH Auden who said you're gay if you fall in love with people of your own sex.
It's convenient to distinguish acts (homo/heterosexual), orientation (homo/bi/heterosexual) and identity (gay/bi/strait). Sometimes they don't match at all, so heterosexually oriented strait-identified men in prison can have homosexual acts for want of a better, and homosexually oriented men can marry under social pressure and identify as strait (but I think they get pretty screwed up).
 

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I wouldn't put to much thought into it. I consider myself straight, meaning that I like to have sex with women, and also find myself able to emotionaly connet with women in a way I can't with men.
This isn't to say I don't find the male body beautiful, appealing, or even sexual, because I do. I also will occassional see a man that to me looks attractive, I have even tried my hand at some highschool/college experimentation. I think what you're expiriencing is something most men go through, and you'll determine what you want to be, if anything.
CE

College Endowment certainly states it well. You must realize that most individuals are curious during their teen years.

It is possible to have a homosexual relationship to find out about life. As a teen most must admit that they have wondered about sex with a female and a male.

Experimentation as a youth is what life is all about. The real concern I have is, How long does experimentation last, in the life of any one person. I experimented. Yes, it was a learning experience. Did I continue experimenting? No.

I state that I am 100 percent hetrosexual. Some may question that statement in my profile; however I know that I did experiment in my tender youth and I, now as an adult know what I am. No one can contest that.
 

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i'm kind of in the same boat.
I really don't think i'm gay. But i find myself paying attention more to guys than i do girls. Checking them out, watchin gay porn. I've never done anything with a guy but i think eventually i will have some kind of gay experience. But i think it will just be experimenting. I have always seen myself being with a woman so i think its just my curiousity that causing this. I guess once i've "experienced" something gay it will know. But i don't think i'm 100% gay, if anything, i'm Bi.

But i also have noticed that mainly the guys that i'm "attracted" to are guys with really built/muscular bodies and that is something that i want for me. It may have just evolved from that....i don't know
 

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Hey its my first post :eek: . any way, I concider my self strait. About 5 years ago me and my cousin were watching porn on HBO (our selfs not doing anything, just watching) and it showed a penis, and he looked away and made a noise of discust, now i dont get that, i dont mind how the penis looks. Is there a reason he did that, like he wanted to show me hes strait or something? It has boffled me for a while now. Off and on I say Damn hes hot, but it doesnt have the same effect on me as when i say a girl is hot, i think im 90% strait because of that
 
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listen straight guy,

once you let a gay man suck your cock,you will never go back to women.women do not know the ins and outs of what a man knows and feels.lets have a look at your cock,how big is it?do you have a cum picture?men are hung up on looking a certain way.the cock is a beautiful object and needs a lot of loving and gentle care.let see that cock of yours.
 
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its normal I think , I really excited too when I see mesy facials or big cock movies.Cause its a visual excitement