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But it's probably more a random question...and going with my score of posting in correct threads tonight...probably low on the list.

How often does Kink enter into your life regarding sex and life as a whole. I'm kind of kinky in business life as well, not in the sexual regard, but throwing the oddball out there for clients to dwell upon before making a decision on design or offering thoughts outside the norm.

Anyhoo, does Kink influence your decision making. Not just in sex I suppose...but your attitude and outlook toward life?

Being a Brickie by trade....I often comment about how leggo mirrors the traditional brick, which has been around for many more thousands of years...........It's amazing what can be created from such a basic material..transformed into anything imaginable.

Hope I haven't led you off on one of my tangents :)
 

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Your thread title made me think this was going to be about sewing. No it doesn't influence my decisions
It could be about anything you wish.

You were on the right...well ...kinky track...then you reverted to normal again....

My love loves her dressmaking..........we have a room here specifically set up........from machine to overlocker etc..etc...

She is able to draw her own patterns though...........not those drawn from the local Spotlight. She is able to think outside the square.

So you don't think outside of the square while studying a pattern of a skirt, dress..whatever..to add your own flair?

Or are you confined to whatever is placed before you?

Kink to me is not following a path set down...well trodden by those before you............hence Kink....in anything.

Sewing is a skill............fashion is well, fashion. Never underestimate kink in fashion :)

This is fashion from the 70's............apart from the shoes...?
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Kink is my life in a way. I am a Mistress, D type, and my husband is my owned and collared submissive. Daily choices and interactions tend to be laced with this knowledge.

Basic things like chores can have a fun little spin to it too. My submissive dresses as my maid and does things like the laundry or getting home tidy.

If you're simply referring to kink as a means to stray from the norm in basic life, I'm not sure I agree with that, but I grasp your mentality in a way. Neither of us fall into our supposed roles. Gender conformity be damned, questionable ethical choices in the eyes of those who are societal norm. Sure. That's us. That's me.

*shrugs* hopefully this gives you somewhat of an answer you were looking for.
 

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I’m open-minded in sex and in life. I have minimal kinks, though. I think. Maybe kinkier than some, not as kinky as others. Does kink affect my daily life? I don’t think so, but I do a lot of out-of-the-box thinking.
 

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I’m open-minded in sex and in life. I have minimal kinks, though. I think. Maybe kinkier than some, not as kinky as others. Does kink affect my daily life? I don’t think so, but I do a lot of out-of-the-box thinking.
It's the out of the box thinking which wakes others up :)
 

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Kink is my life in a way. I am a Mistress, D type, and my husband is my owned and collared submissive. Daily choices and interactions tend to be laced with this knowledge.

Basic things like chores can have a fun little spin to it too. My submissive dresses as my maid and does things like the laundry or getting home tidy.

If you're simply referring to kink as a means to stray from the norm in basic life, I'm not sure I agree with that, but I grasp your mentality in a way. Neither of us fall into our supposed roles. Gender conformity be damned, questionable ethical choices in the eyes of those who are societal norm. Sure. That's us. That's me.

*shrugs* hopefully this gives you somewhat of an answer you were looking for.
Yes...and..no...S&M relationships are all good, until one may tire of being the other....it extends beyond sexual need. Whether your sexual desires extend to other parts of your life, or has influence on them is probably what I'm searching for.

One of my traits...and probably not a good one, is in conversation, discussing ideas on a topic of any sort, my mind begins to go into overdrive.

I skip from idea to idea...then become silent,drift off, then, Oh yeah...a whole other idea starts to evolve........I hate it when this happens cause sometimes I say shit which leaves people with mouths open....in a nice way:) cause it's ideas they may have not thought of.

It sounds manic when I type it, but it's not really. It happens in an easygoing manner, conversation.

But, I find it's not the mundane which gets us through the day.........it's our imagination...Yeah...that's it, where does your imagination take you? Acting out in S&M relationships can ease the flow of what is happening in your life....your mind can sometimes take you further than your physical reactions.

I've been around for a while. Do I desperately need to know others opinions? No. Does anyone need to give an answer? No.

Then, what is the point of a website with forums? :)
 
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Every once in a rare wild I will encounter a job that raises my eyebrows a hair. I try not to let it show too much.

But a client will request something in a bedroom remodel that has no other function than pleasure of some type. I'd prefer not to go into detail, but let's say that ceiling or wall reinforcement is usually called for.

My project manager will run to me for advice, and I will always say "no problem. We can handle that."
 

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Yes it's a very big part of my sex life,

No it doesn't influence my day to day life,

You don't understand Lego until you tread on a brick in the dark naked, then hop into the lurking pile and end up falling on your ass into it :confounded:xx
 

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Every once in a rare wild I will encounter a job that raises my eyebrows a hair. I try not to let it show too much.

But a client will request something in a bedroom remodel that has no other function than pleasure of some type. I'd prefer not to go into detail, but let's say that ceiling or wall reinforcement is usually called for.

My project manager will run to me for advice, and I will always say "no problem. We can handle that."
Those darn eye hooks rated for a ton need a strong beam.
 
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