I Douched And Still Painted.... Yikes!!!!!!!!

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Ok let me explain. I prepared 2 hours before or so I thought I'd given myself a proper douching. The water was clear but there was still some anxiety on my part because I normally give myself a lot more time to prepare but my partner was really in need of some stress relief ;). He's most definitely an aggressive dom top and very much into ass play. When I left my home to head to his house I felt that a little water may have travelled up and didn't come out when I expelled the last time. Not a big deal because I figured the water would just dry up and absorb into my system. Fast forward to when I'm there. He eats me out well and is able to make me relax for what I know is about to be an intense fuck. Everything is going well and I'm managing the pain and taking it in doggie style. He then flips me on my side and proceeds to fuck me from the side. Very close to the end of our session he became really fast and aggressive in his penetration but I knew this was the moment of climax. I believe this is when a little excrement may have travelled down the pipe because every other time he pulled out before he was clean. My top is very understanding and didn't care but I cared because I felt I'd done a thorough cleaning. He said it was not much to concern myself about but it still bothers me.

My question to you guys is was it the water that I let remain or was it the hard and fast pounding that caused me to paint (just a little bit)? How long do you guys need to fully prep for anal and do you use the standard douche bulb or do you use the shower system. It was suggest that I convert from the bulb to the shower system because the bulb sends air into the rectum and can lead to some embarrassing gay while having sex. Any advice is appreciated.

P.S. He texted me soon after to let me know how amazing my ass felt and how he couldn't wait for it to happen again but that could have just been him trying to ease my embarrassment.
 

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I say just relax. It's ok. Sometimes shit o_O:p happens.

I use a bulb system and haven't had an issue yet. I'm actually afraid of the full on shower systems, cause I'm not sure its actually needed and perhaps may cause more harm than good.

To be on the safe side I try to give myself 2 hours (although that's not always possible) to prep. I like doing an initial clean out then waiting and go back in to check. The extra time is just in case and to ease any anxiety.

Usually I only need a few flushes but the odd time I will need the full 2 hours.

But honestly, whatever your routine, you need to relax as accidents sometimes happen. In those cases, just move the action to the shower and carry on. Obviously your BF is mature and understanding. Trust him and move on from this small incident.
 

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Ok let me explain. I prepared 2 hours before or so I thought I'd given myself a proper douching. The water was clear but there was still some anxiety on my part because I normally give myself a lot more time to prepare but my partner was really in need of some stress relief ;). He's most definitely an aggressive dom top and very much into ass play. When I left my home to head to his house I felt that a little water may have travelled up and didn't come out when I expelled the last time. Not a big deal because I figured the water would just dry up and absorb into my system. Fast forward to when I'm there. He eats me out well and is able to make me relax for what I know is about to be an intense fuck. Everything is going well and I'm managing the pain and taking it in doggie style. He then flips me on my side and proceeds to fuck me from the side. Very close to the end of our session he became really fast and aggressive in his penetration but I knew this was the moment of climax. I believe this is when a little excrement may have travelled down the pipe because every other time he pulled out before he was clean. My top is very understanding and didn't care but I cared because I felt I'd done a thorough cleaning. He said it was not much to concern myself about but it still bothers me.

My question to you guys is was it the water that I let remain or was it the hard and fast pounding that caused me to paint (just a little bit)? How long do you guys need to fully prep for anal and do you use the standard douche bulb or do you use the shower system. It was suggest that I convert from the bulb to the shower system because the bulb sends air into the rectum and can lead to some embarrassing gay while having sex. Any advice is appreciated.

P.S. He texted me soon after to let me know how amazing my ass felt and how he couldn't wait for it to happen again but that could have just been him trying to ease my embarrassment.
Honestly there’s nothing to worry about, accidents happen, if a top doesn’t understand then he’s not worth having sex with. It’s a ‘side effect’ of gay penetrative sex and is to be expected sometimes. It is what it is, it doesn’t matter how well your prepare, sometimes it’s going to happen.
 

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I prefer to clean out a few hours before playtime. After another 30 or 60 minutes, I will check it again.

After I think I got all the water out, I will stand up, ball both my hands together and push on the stomach. While keeping it pushed against my body, I will push my hands down towards my crotch. I usually get a little more water. I keep doing this until nothing comes out.

If I am still not feeling it, I have 2 dildos in the shower, one of them is thin and very long. I will use it to make sure everything is clean.

But unfortunately, shit does happen. It isn't the end of the world.
 
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it´s totally natural. It can happen sometimes. Everyone should be aware of it. Of course in porn they cut that out. If you don´t like that at all then don´t have anal sex.
 
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i am 50 years old and i have never ever prepped myself to be fucked--and i have never got shit on a guys dick or on underwear --a person needs to know their body to be regular and know when restroom time happens and deal with that--the douche/enema you give yourslef only cleans out so far and theres still shit in the intestines ive hear of guys getting shit on their dicks one guy got pissed and punched the bottom in the face--

i told him that was bullshit that its an asshole--shit happens literally-- so he went to that bottoms house and apologized for hitting him--

shit is still inside yours body--theres a cock going in and out of that bottoms ass creating a good feeling for both the top and the bottom but its also creating a suction sensation thats pulling that shit out toward the suction which is then all over the guys dick-- clean up maybe douche a ittle and then go back at it hehe--they dont say fucking the shit out of him for no reason
but--for straight men and gay men if your shit is moist and when wipe your ass it seems to take a few times to clean you asshole-you can do a few simple things to take care of that--1--activia yogurt--take it for 14 days and trust me youll be shitting and when go to wipe youll think damn did i shit--

reason why moist is not enough fiber--eat a fiber bar twice a day for a week and you will notice a diffference fiber bars can be expensive so bet thing to do is get metamucill fiber take one spoonfull twice a day--once in morning once at night and in few days you will notice a diiference--

i find it strange myself i made it over these years getting laid by guy after guy and i never shit on his dick and never caught any stds---couple guys told me they had hiv after fucking me but i was tested twice over couple months and i am still negative--i figured they lied to me to scare me

last but not least--dont ever compare the sex you have at home to the sex in porn all the shit and erectile disorders are edited out--ive got films from couple companies that post bloopers and it was showing guys couldnt get hard one guy that normally lasts a while fucking came in 2 minutes-- i can try to find these clips but google gay porn bloopers and see what find--trust me they have sex problems just like any other guy
 

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i am 50 years old and i have never ever prepped myself to be fucked--and i have never got shit on a guys dick or on underwear --a person needs to know their body to be regular and know when restroom time happens and deal with that--the douche/enema you give yourslef only cleans out so far and theres still shit in the intestines ive hear of guys getting shit on their dicks one guy got pissed and punched the bottom in the face--

i told him that was bullshit that its an asshole--shit happens literally-- so he went to that bottoms house and apologized for hitting him--

shit is still inside yours body--theres a cock going in and out of that bottoms ass creating a good feeling for both the top and the bottom but its also creating a suction sensation thats pulling that shit out toward the suction which is then all over the guys dick-- clean up maybe douche a ittle and then go back at it hehe--they dont say fucking the shit out of him for no reason
but--for straight men and gay men if your shit is moist and when wipe your ass it seems to take a few times to clean you asshole-you can do a few simple things to take care of that--1--activia yogurt--take it for 14 days and trust me youll be shitting and when go to wipe youll think damn did i shit--

reason why moist is not enough fiber--eat a fiber bar twice a day for a week and you will notice a diffference fiber bars can be expensive so bet thing to do is get metamucill fiber take one spoonfull twice a day--once in morning once at night and in few days you will notice a diiference--

i find it strange myself i made it over these years getting laid by guy after guy and i never shit on his dick and never caught any stds---couple guys told me they had hiv after fucking me but i was tested twice over couple months and i am still negative--i figured they lied to me to scare me

last but not least--dont ever compare the sex you have at home to the sex in porn all the shit and erectile disorders are edited out--ive got films from couple companies that post bloopers and it was showing guys couldnt get hard one guy that normally lasts a while fucking came in 2 minutes-- i can try to find these clips but google gay porn bloopers and see what find--trust me they have sex problems just like any other guy
Wow! So enlightening and all correct. I've generally planned all my hook ups. Told my partners so they can plan accordingly.
 

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sometimes the best sex is sex that happens out of nowhere--whether its with someone you just met or someone you been with that just shows up out of nowhere--sure its ok to plan things out but sometimes life doesnt always work out that way
 

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Cleaning used to take longer and come with less insurance for me and I had embarrassing moments. But these days I don't have any problem, part of it is that a diet of a lot of raw veggies seem to help a lot. like you can eat whatever you want as long as you also eat some raw celery and cucumber.

also, increasing the frequency of anal sex has helped a lot, it's like my body's learned which function its performing.
 

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You also could have over cleaned and gotten water into your small intestine. Once that happens ,give it up ,you'll never get clean.
I also drink a bottle of gatorade to keep my electrolytes in check. If they get low you'll feel lightheaded. Also I take 1-2 imodium to suck up any excess water. This has been working for me for years. Good luck.
 
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