i fantasize about raping men.

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I'm just commenting on how often it is that the people we are supposed to look up to for moral authority, pillars of the community, etc, are the ones who have the most skeletons in the closet and do a lot of damage. I'm always outraged but never surprised about how horrible people can be to one another, or animals or the planet.

I don't blame you for keeping your thoughts on this to yourself. I'm sorry it happened to you.

I'm always surprised. I guess it's just the way that I'm wired, because you'd assume I'd be a much different person than I am after some of my experiences, but I tend to assume the best in people anyway. Each one of those bad things and those bad people was the exception to the rule. In certain ways, I'm a very slow learner.

You're right about how it does seem like the people whom everyone should be looking up to are often some of the worst people in reality. Why can't I seem to assume this by now? I can be so Pollyanna.
 

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Something like this happened to me a few years ago. My date was... how to say... far more horny than me. I argued that we did not know each other. It was our first date after all. We did some petting which I believed was more than enough given the circumstances. She was pushing it further and I was reluctant. As the gentlemen pointed out... men cannot control their physical reaction... so I was physically ready. I tried to inhibit her with my legs and hands. Her body being more substantial then mine... she did what she wanted. We had no safe word and no scenario was agreed. Calling it a rape would not be fair... but it was not 100% consensual either.
 

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Something like this happened to me a few years ago. My date was... how to say... far more horny than me. I argued that we did not know each other. It was our first date after all. We did some petting which I believed was more than enough given the circumstances. She was pushing it further and I was reluctant. As the gentlemen pointed out... men cannot control their physical reaction... so I was physically ready. I tried to inhibit her with my legs and hands. Her body being more substantial then mine... she did what she wanted. We had no safe word and no scenario was agreed. Calling it a rape would not be fair... but it was not 100% consensual either.

Why wouldn't it be fair to call that rape? I think that's exactly what it was, and I'm sorry that happened to you.
 

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The sad not sexy fact is that women have raped men. Usually its women the men are in no way attracted to or women who have sick fantasies (not referring to the Original Poster, hers sounds more like a dominatrix/woman in charge thing) involving seriously causing pain to a man while they sexually pleasure themselves. Rape is horrible period, outside of a consensual fantasy, but when a woman does it to a man... its usually pretty sick. I remember rape counselors trying to scare us because most guys weren't afraid of being raped, outside of jail by a man, because its almost unheard of. On the hotter side, one of my friends said he did know a girl who wanted to do the whole "staged rape" thing. It was her fantasy not his, but she was playing the victim. It was basically he came in, she tried to get away, he grabbed her, and she trashed and tried to fight her way off the whole time... apparently that causes some types of friction and sensations that just are not possible other ways. He said it was the best sex ever, but wasn't comfortable asking her to do it again because it kinda made him feel deviant lol. I kinda wanted to rape him, but it wouldn't have been consensual or staged, and ya I'm not anywhere near that type of bastard (thankfully).