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Hi there, I am new here, so go easy on me.
I am an 18 year old guy, but I have never had a girlfriend/I am still a virgin. I think that the main reason is that I have no confidence, and that is partly coz I feel a bit small. I am about 5x5" - not huge I know - but I would like to get to about 7.5X6". That seems like a sensible, not too big size, that any potential girlfriends could "enjoy". Is there anything I can do that won't cost the earth (I'm not very rich)?
Cheers, SS.
 

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The cheapest and most reliable solution would be to accept who you are and be happy with what you got.
5x5 while being below average is completely sufficient to please a woman, don't worry so much. Get out there and enjoy yourself.
 

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Hey, shedseven...
It's an old saying, but still a good one......
"It's not the size that matters, but the way it's used"
You can drive them crazy with a 5x5 if you use it right!
So, don't worry, you are young and may still have more
growing to do......if not, check out my PM.
 

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I gotta tell you guys, unless you've been there, it's difficult to appreciate just how deep this goes.

5x5 is average. The length is a bit shorter than average but within the range, and the girth is right on the mark.

You can do a great deal just with jelqing which requires nothing more than a microwave, a sock, some uncooked rice, some lube (vegetable oil is fine), and your hands. This is the newbie routine from Thunder's Place, the largest Penis Enlargement (PE) website. Membership there is free, but new membership is closed for the time being. You can access the wiki without any registration and it should give you enough information to start you off. Give it three months and see what you think.
 

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Hey, shedseven...
It's an old saying, but still a good one......
"It's not the size that matters, but the way it's used"
You can drive them crazy with a 5x5 if you use it right!
So, don't worry, you are young and may still have more
growing to do......if not, check out my PM.

Cheers, but "using it right" could be tricky - I have no experience at all!

Thanks a lot all for the advice and tips, and cheers for the link to Thunder's Place. I shall give it a go. Wishing I didn't have holes in all my socks now!
 

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Cheers, but "using it right" could be tricky - I have no experience at all!

Thanks a lot all for the advice and tips, and cheers for the link to Thunder's Place. I shall give it a go. Wishing I didn't have holes in all my socks now!


None of us were born with experience, but we were born with desires. Just follow
these desires and one day it will just come naturally.

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at your age, or at any age for that matter.
But, for you, you are still young, so don't rush it. You have lots of time. You will
know when the time is right, and I am confident that you will do okay. Just remember,
the first time is always, for everyone, full of fumbles and awkwardness. But, all that
can be really funny and enjoyable if you just don't take it too seriously.
When the time comes, just have fun and let it happen. In no time, you will be an
expert and wonder why you had doubts at all...LOL
But, just make sure that you practice safe sex!
 

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your size isnt bad to start out with , i wouldnt worry about it just enjoy what you have and experance will come like it has with all of us , we werent born knowing how to do everything in bed when it comes to sex , we had to learn an was shown a few things from our sexual partners as well at times , everyone if diffrent and besides as you say you are 18 , so you mite still have some growing left in that spot and when its done growing who knows you mite be at the size you want to be by that time. also when you get the chance for sex im sure who ever its with isnt going to be ready to measure it to see if its big enough for them. usaly at that point the size dosent matter much and if it doses than that person is to shalow for you to be dating or what ever anyways, so dont worry and enjoy what you have an im sure when ever it is you will bring pleasure to them who ever the lucky person will be.
 
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Enjoy what you have, dont go wasting tens of thousands of dollars on surgery that could fuck up your cock.

Billions of men in Asia have cocks the size of yours, and I am sure their women enjoy sex just as much as any woman, learn to be a good lover, and get over your slightly less than average cock size.
 

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Hi there, I am new here, so go easy on me.
I am an 18 year old guy, but I have never had a girlfriend/I am still a virgin. I think that the main reason is that I have no confidence, and that is partly coz I feel a bit small. I am about 5x5" - not huge I know - but I would like to get to about 7.5X6". That seems like a sensible, not too big size, that any potential girlfriends could "enjoy". Is there anything I can do that won't cost the earth (I'm not very rich)?
Cheers, SS.

Shedseven, you're bigger than me.
I've had a great sex life - infact still having it. :biggrin1:
I've had many, many girl friends. :biggrin1:
Enjoy what you've got.
No use worrying about something you can do little about.
I've tried every kind of enlargement programme without success. :frown1:

Of course, I fantasize about having a huge monster
but that's a fantasy. I have to live with reality.

Best
 

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first off stop listening to all these idiots trying to boost their own egos by telling you 5x5 is below average, its not, lots of guys have less than that, be happy with what you have, if you know what your doing with it, you should be able to make a girl happy if she cares about more than justa big dick..
 

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Look, a big cock might get you more attention at a gay sauna, or some admiration in a changing room, but that's about it really. A man's penis is an indicator of his state of arousal and a means of pleasuring him, it's not an object in itself. Except to size queens.

There's a lot more to sex than penises and orifices. Women, in particular, tend to be attracted to the person, not the organ. The only thing you need to worry about is letting this issue affect your self-esteem. You're average sized. In other words, the same as most guys!

Even though I'm no expert, apparently the best way to attract a woman is to listen to her and be attentive to her moods.
 
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Sorry to tell you that you are absolutely average. The dimensions over the past few years have been revised down from what used to be 6".

You are going to be perfectly functional in every respect.

The ONLY thing that is different is that you are not going to be able to perform in every position that is great for a camera such as a porn star. A few positions may be more of a challenge than others.

Though your goals are realistic in PE, just remember that it takes great patience and time to accomplish what you want.

I would avoid taking surgical action unless you are absolutely miserable for some reason. The surgical alternatives have had at best mixed reviews. Some have had good experiences, but it is like a roulette wheel, there are a great number of men who have had major problems from these procedures too.

Try conventional means if enlargement means a great deal to you.

A penis of 5"in length by 5" in circumference is again average.

Good Luck
 

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The cheapest and most reliable solution would be to accept who you are and be happy with what you got.
5x5 while being below average is completely sufficient to please a woman, don't worry so much. Get out there and enjoy yourself.

Breezor is right, but you can always try penis exercices, there are some threads here about it. But it takes time. Good luck man, and the better thing is too appreciate your body.

Hey, shedseven...
It's an old saying, but still a good one......
"It's not the size that matters, but the way it's used"
You can drive them crazy with a 5x5 if you use it right!
So, don't worry, you are young and may still have more
growing to do......if not, check out my PM.


Have fun and remember there might be guys that are bigger but there are also guys that are smaller.....
 

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ri8fQ-7eVAY
whenever i feel small (which is often)
i listen to this song,it makes me feel better.

if you are 5 you want to be 6,if you get 6 you want 6.5
if you achieve 6.5,you want 7,after you get to 7 you realise
you need 8.5 to get her to never doubt you.

once you get 8.5 she says you are too big to enjoy.

one night when i felt like shit about my size i had a dream
of the snapping pussy,girls can tighten the vaginal muscles
just like we men flex our PC's.

it makes the vaginal walls hug your cock.
 

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Cheers, but "using it right" could be tricky - I have no experience at all!

Thanks a lot all for the advice and tips, and cheers for the link to Thunder's Place. I shall give it a go. Wishing I didn't have holes in all my socks now!
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