you certainly *ahem* nailed him!
...women's brains operate quite differently when it comes to arousal.
...It takes a functioning brain to differentiate one pussy from another
...I can't even be turned on/attracted to a stupid man. ...
my wife has said similar things.
most people just get in their cars and drive, never understanding how a car works. to soup-up a car these days, you have to modify the parameters in the computer for the fuel injection and timing.
similarly, to have high performance sex you need to pay attention to the woman and act accordingly at the right times!
i've heard from women in the past that many big dicked guys pay little attention just letting the meat do its wonders, sometimes unsatisfying long term.
yes indeed women's minds are different; from men's and from one anothers.:wink: