Freddie, you know we go on and on about REAL sizes. I stay pretty much in Etc anymore, but when I see some of the CRAP being posted by people who can't find their own ass with both hands and a flashlight, it makes my skin crawl. I liked the site better when it was smaller and a few people could pretty well catch the bullshit before it got out of hand, but that's just not where we are anymore. I posted something here in Etc. recently about the Kinsey scale, and the distinct possibility that even IT was a slightly high estimate, because it was self-measured. Actual average size is about 5.5", that's normal, healthy, and WHAT MOST MEN HAVE IN THEIR PANTS!
If you're trying to base your self esteem on your dick, the problem is not with your dick. Seriously, find some things of value in your life other than psychotic obsessions and delusions that can only bring you pain. Healthy self-esteem can only come from actions- things you've done.