i got blanked in a store today.

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This ones a to hard to call. I was not there to see how it went down. I have to say I agree with incoknito, two sides to every story.

If a friend of mine was in a store the same time I was, I would have walked up and said hello!
 

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If someone does that to me, I just consider it lesson learned. There are things as friendships of convenience. I don't have time for that fake stuff. I don't call, I don't write, it's obvious to me that they aren't a real friend.
 

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Sounds like they both have issues

Tiger has it right. Either he's afraid of what she might think wrongly and has fantasies about you he's ashamed of, or she's told him to ignore you right out. Either way it's divide and conquer, keeping you from being friends with them both at once, whichever one is the source.
 

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Some people don't have that great of social skills or empathy. It might have been his choice to blank you -- possibly because he is awkward, or he feels guilty being friends with you -- and not at all as a result of any choice of his girlfriend.
 

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on one hand, you have a right to feel slighted especially if he is a reasonably good friend. sad to see someone have his balls taken from him.

on the other hand, take it as a compliment that she feels that threatened by you. as George Costanza would say, you have "hand" in this situation.