Here I am, still obsessed with building a bigger penis (jelqing, Extenze, Arginine, AND a pump - I don't know where i find the time, either lol) when my wife really doesn't care if it's bigger or not. When I first told her I started to pump, she really really surprised me by asking, "What for?" -- no joke -- and then explained that she was more concerned about the possibility of me injuring myself, not caring for me to be larger. I feel so selfish because I know in my heart I'm trying to get larger just for my ego's sake and consequently for more confidence...which my wife WOULD appreciate...but then i think it's not vital since I'm off the market already. Oh, well, maybe this can encourage some of the smaller guys, that yes, there are still women out there that still do love a guy for who he is, and not his cock. And btw, I know many of the ladies on this forum are pretty much the same way, in that while you have an appreciation/admiration for large penises, and in some cases, any penis (meaning you find them all valuable and aesthetically pleasing in their own way), that somehow, the man it's attached to is what really appeals to you overall. Most of you ladies have really encouraged me (except the die hard size queens, but I still can understand your viewpoint) and i am so glad you're all here! You're all pretty classy women! Thanks!