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Hello Ladies, As the title states. I did have a lot of questions that I wanted to ask. However..... This site has this great thing called a search engine and it seems all of my questions had been answered previously by all you awesome women! Since I don't have any questions righ now. I will use this thread to say thank you and I am very grateful for all your input!

I am also going to say that because of all of you and the input that you give. Has actually put My marriage of 32 years with my loving bride in a much better and even happier place! I will be the first to admit. ALL of the difficulties that my wife and I were having. Were......well..... my preconceived ideas of ALL women and how they should act or want. Mostly in the bedroom. I will just go ahead and say it......I am a dumb ass man! By this forum. I have learned so much. For example. Women are not cookie cutter beings. Each one of you are unique . Having your own likes, dislikes and desires that are as varied as snowflakes. The biggest thing that all of you have taught me is to communicate with the one you love! Before I started reading Ask a Woman. Talking about sex with my wife was a bit constrained. After reading the post in this forum. The strain was caused by me. The way I was asking questions. The way I responded to the answers. Now I truly listen and I believe what my wife has to say as truth. Seems my wife loves for me to take the lead. To take her in my arms...to slowly undress her and kiss her all over while doing it. And just let me tell you. By doing just that. My wife is an animal now! More passion more everything! Of course there are way more things we have talked about. that I now understand where I didn't before. I will give one more example. I always thought that my wife SHOULD orgasm when we had sex. She had always said. Since I like to have sex about every 3 days. She likes to wait a few more days before she has her big Or because they are much stronger when she does wait, but still loves making love with me between times cause she still enjoys the closeness. I just thought that was bunk and that the reason was because she just was not aroused or turned on by me. Then I come to this forum and see that there are a few of you that are kind of the same way with your lovers. Kind of sad that I listened to stranger's before my wife, but I guess at least I finally learned and now we both are back to acting like teenagers with each other again!

I can never thank all of you enough for your awsome input and dodging all the damn stupid DICK picks and staying engaged in helping us men who really value your input.

Merry Christmas to each and every one of you!!
 
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Hello Ladies, As the title states. I did have a lot of questions that I wanted to ask. However..... This site has this great thing called a search engine and it seems all of my questions had been answered previously by all you awesome women! Since I don't have any questions righ now. I will use this thread to say thank you and I am very grateful for all your input!

I am also going to say that because of all of you and the input that you give. Has actually put My marriage of 32 years with my loving bride in a much better and even happier place! I will be the first to admit. ALL of the difficulties that my wife and I were having. Were......well..... my preconceived ideas of ALL women and how they should act or want. Mostly in the bedroom. I will just go ahead and say it......I am a dumb ass man! By this forum. I have learned so much. For example. Women are not cookie cutter beings. Each one of you are unique . Having your own likes, dislikes and desires that are as varied as snowflakes. The biggest thing that all of you have taught me is to communicate with the one you love! Before I started reading Ask a Woman. Talking about sex with my wife was a bit constrained. After reading the post in this forum. The strain was caused by me. The way I was asking questions. The way I responded to the answers. Now I truly listen and I believe what my wife has to say as truth. Seems my wife loves for me to take the lead. To take her in my arms...to slowly undress her and kiss her all over while doing it. And just let me tell you. By doing just that. My wife is an animal now! More passion more everything! Of course there are way more things we have talked about. that I now understand where I didn't before. I will give one more example. I always thought that my wife SHOULD orgasm when we had sex. She had always said. Since I like to have sex about every 3 days. She likes to wait a few more days before she has her big Or because they are much stronger when she does wait, but still loves making love with me between times cause she still enjoys the closeness. I just thought that was bunk and that the reason was because she just was not aroused or turned on by me. Then I come to this forum and see that there are a few of you that are kind of the same way with your lovers. Kind of sad that I listened to stranger's before my wife, but I guess at least I finally learned and now we both are back to acting like teenagers with each other again!

I can never thank all of you enough for your awsome input and dodging all the damn stupid DICK picks and staying engaged in helping us men who really value your input.

Merry Christmas to each and every one of you!!


This is AWESOME and sticky worthy!

I wish you and Mrs.Eric a joyous Christmas and a even sexier New Year.
 

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@EricR , after the first paragraph, I was smiling.
Midway through the 2nd, that smile was ear to ear. What a treasure! I am happy to hear that the ladies' input here has been of benefit to you. Your success has just negated all of the crap I've read through from some of the men who "just don't get it." One happy relationship. Yep it is worth it (to me.)

Good luck to you and your wife.

Merry Christmas and You are Welcome!

BC~
 

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Hello Ladies, As the title states. I did have a lot of questions that I wanted to ask. However..... This site has this great thing called a search engine and it seems all of my questions had been answered previously by all you awesome women! Since I don't have any questions righ now. I will use this thread to say thank you and I am very grateful for all your input!

I am also going to say that because of all of you and the input that you give. Has actually put My marriage of 32 years with my loving bride in a much better and even happier place! I will be the first to admit. ALL of the difficulties that my wife and I were having. Were......well..... my preconceived ideas of ALL women and how they should act or want. Mostly in the bedroom. I will just go ahead and say it......I am a dumb ass man! By this forum. I have learned so much. For example. Women are not cookie cutter beings. Each one of you are unique . Having your own likes, dislikes and desires that are as varied as snowflakes. The biggest thing that all of you have taught me is to communicate with the one you love! Before I started reading Ask a Woman. Talking about sex with my wife was a bit constrained. After reading the post in this forum. The strain was caused by me. The way I was asking questions. The way I responded to the answers. Now I truly listen and I believe what my wife has to say as truth. Seems my wife loves for me to take the lead. To take her in my arms...to slowly undress her and kiss her all over while doing it. And just let me tell you. By doing just that. My wife is an animal now! More passion more everything! Of course there are way more things we have talked about. that I now understand where I didn't before. I will give one more example. I always thought that my wife SHOULD orgasm when we had sex. She had always said. Since I like to have sex about every 3 days. She likes to wait a few more days before she has her big Or because they are much stronger when she does wait, but still loves making love with me between times cause she still enjoys the closeness. I just thought that was bunk and that the reason was because she just was not aroused or turned on by me. Then I come to this forum and see that there are a few of you that are kind of the same way with your lovers. Kind of sad that I listened to stranger's before my wife, but I guess at least I finally learned and now we both are back to acting like teenagers with each other again!

I can never thank all of you enough for your awsome input and dodging all the damn stupid DICK picks and staying engaged in helping us men who really value your input.

Merry Christmas to each and every one of you!!
Merry Christmas! Happy New year! I'm genuinely excited for you and your wife. Thank you for believing us. Not everyone does. Be well.
 

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Awww, Thank you all for your kind responces. The reason I love this particular forum is that all of you are real! No phoney women members. Or at least what I have seen. I love the fact that none of you agree that cheating is ok and I have personaly witnessed you ladies shut down men that come in here and are looking for validation to cheat. I feel that all of you are truly loyal or should I say committed to the ones you love. In this day and age unfortunately. Commitment is more and more rare. ALL of your significant others should count their lucky stars for you!

Just so you Ladies know. Here is a few other things I have learned from you. Just so you know that your input is valued and has made a positive difference at least in mine and Regina's relationship. "One and done orgasm " My dumb ass that that ALL WOMEN were or could be multi orgasmic. Maybe......but if my wife is happy and is not complaining? Why should I be offended. You ladies taught me that. ALL WOMEN should have an orgasm with penetration only.... I was wrong again.....You also taught me that. Period sex.....wife does not like it.....I refused to believe her. Thought it was just a way to avoid me for 5 to 7 days..... Yep you guys put me in my place on that one too! Lol Even though I was not the one that asked that question. Here is another that I didn't ask, but someone else did..... After wife and I make love and she has an orgasm . She wants to get right up with not a lot of After glow cuddle time. Says after sexy time where she has an orgasm. She is rejuvenated and is full of energy........I didn't believe that shit.....my feeble mind thought that she just couldn't stand for me to touch her after and was ashamed. Yes i continued to think like that even after being married 30 plus years. Yea i am kind of thick headed. Well... You guessed it. You ladies once again slammed me into the wall and knock sence into me without you even knowing it. I guess what I am trying to say is. All of your input is vital and you may be adressing one man, there are bunches more men that reads your responces and is taking it heart. So please please never get discouraged when some ass comes in here that flashes his unsolicited peen pic or is trying to gather some wanking material or just trolling. I can assure you that all of you and your knowledge is valued by a bunch of us! Please keep giving your advise and knowledge of the female being flowing. Cause we are listening!!!
 
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Awww, Thank you all for your kind responces. The reason I love this particular forum is that all of you are real! No phoney women members. Or at least what I have seen. I love the fact that none of you agree that cheating is ok and I have personaly witnessed you ladies shut down men that come in here and are looking for validation to cheat. I feel that all of you are truly loyal or should I say committed to the ones you love. In this day and age unfortunately. Commitment is more and more rare. ALL of your significant others should count their lucky stars for you!

Just so you Ladies know. Here is a few other things I have learned from you. Just so you know that your input is valued and has made a positive difference at least in mine and Regina's relationship. "One and done orgasm " My dumb ass that that ALL WOMEN were or could be multi orgasmic. Maybe......but if my wife is happy and is not complaining? Why should I be offended. You ladies taught me that. ALL WOMEN should have an orgasm with penetration only.... I was wrong again.....You also taught me that. Period sex.....wife does not like it.....I refused to believe her. Thought it was just a way to avoid me for 5 to 7 days..... Yep you guys put me in my place on that one too! Lol Even though I was not the one that asked that question. Here is another that I didn't ask, but someone else did..... After wife and I make love and she has an orgasm . She wants to get right up with not a lot of After glow cuddle time. Says after sexy time where she has an orgasm. She is rejuvenated and is full of energy........I didn't believe that shit.....my feeble mind thought that she just couldn't stand for me to touch her after and was ashamed. Yes i continued to think like that even after being married 30 plus years. Yea i am kind of thick headed. Well... You guessed it. You ladies once again slammed me into the wall and knock sence into me without you even knowing it. I guess what I am trying to say is. All of your input is vital and you may be adressing one man, there are bunches more men that reads your responces and is taking it heart. So please please never get discouraged when some ass comes in here that flashes his unsolicited peen pic or is trying to gather some wanking material or just trolling. I can assure you that all of you and your knowledge is valued by a bunch of us! Please keep giving your advise and knowledge of the female being flowing. Cause we are listening!!!

Wow!

Thank you @EricR

This is beyond gratifying to read and it's given me a huge case of the AWWW SHUCKS!

Such effusive praise isn't the norm and, for me at least, is the best Christmas present
I could have been given.
Ladies here come from all over the globe and from dif. cultures so the argument
that there's a cultural bias goes out the window.
When such a dif. cross section of women are all saying the same thing, well we
may be onto something.
 

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I have to point out one thing... There is *one* female member who flat out encourages cheating. She pretty much only pops up when the thread is about cheating, and she makes it clear that in her opinion monogamy is stupid and for stupid people.

I could not disagree with a person more.

I want to thank YOU @EricR for this thread. This makes me wonder how many men there are out there reading these threads and actually hearing us after all. I don't post my responses without sincerity. Even if I'm being humorous, even if I'm flaming a troll, I always give honest answers.

I'm confident that all the ladies who regularly contribute to the threads in this section are as honest as I am.
 

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@tight-N-juicy. Can't say I have ever ran across that *ONE* you are referring to. I mostly stay In ask a woman and (red faced) The healthy penis. All the others just seems to me guys flashing dicks and trying to pick up other guys. Hey if that is your thing more power to ya, but it's getting to the point that it's in every dang thread. With the exception of Ask a Woman. You ladies take guys to task head on and shut their shit down rather quickly! I wish the other groups would follow your lead.

Anyway..... IMHO. Anyone that would condone cheating has absolutely no respect for themselves. Again that is just MHO.
 
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I also ment to add that i am sure there are lots of men that read and frequent Ask a woman. Thing is we are not allowed to post in another's thread which is a good rule. Keeps the subjects from becoming muddy.
 
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Call me a contrarian @EricR but sometimes a thread NEEDS a damn good muddying.

Nothing like a damn good thread slide about book or movie reviews or recipes to
kill off an ill conceived topic.

Sometimes thread sliding is fun because it is.
 
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Call me a contrarian @EricR but sometimes a thread NEEDS a damn good muddying.

Nothing like a damn good thread slide about book or movie reviews or recipes to
kill off an ill conceived topic.

Sometimes thread sliding is fun because it is.

Hahahahah I so agree! However us men are not allowed to interject. I have witnessed first hand from you ladies Muddy a few threads and I love them!!! Especially when you guys started sharing .... I think.... Limon cookie recipes. I bout fell the hell out on that one!!!
 

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@tight-N-juicy. Can't say I have ever ran across that *ONE* you are referring to. I mostly stay In ask a woman and (red faced) The healthy penis. All the others just seems to me guys flashing dicks and trying to pick up other guys. Hey if that is your thing more power to ya, but it's getting to the point that it's in every dang thread. With the exception of Ask a Woman. You ladies take guys to task head on and shut their shit down rather quickly! I wish the other groups would follow your lead.

Anyway..... IMHO. Anyone that would condone cheating has absolutely no respect for themselves. Again that is just MHO.

She very rarely posts... Like maybe once a year at the most. I've only seen her post on this section twice throughout my entire membership here. So I'm not surprised that you haven't come across her... Lucky you!

Not that monogamy is best for everyone, honesty is. Open relationships are perfectly fine and I don't judge those who choose it for their own relationships. I do judge when it's actual cheating. Fuck liars. They get no respect.

I do hope you come up with some more questions for us at some point, this has been a lovely exchange. Your continued curiosity is welcome and encouraged.
 
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@AlteredEgo well please share your recipe. They sound awesome! @Tight_N_Juicy ... Yea liers are indeed the worst. Especially when it comes to infidelity! Granted.... I have heard of cases of open relationship doing well or ok with it, but I personally don't understand it. That's just me though.

I will indeed try and come up with more questions. I just don't want to be redundant. I will also try and make my questions relevant. Instead of some of the stupid thrill seeking that I have seen here. If I didn't know any better. I would think some of the questions asked here were penned by adolescent teen age boys.
 
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@AlteredEgo well please share your recipe. They sound awesome! @Tight_N_Juicy ... Yea liers are indeed the worst. Especially when it comes to infidelity! Granted.... I have heard of cases of open relationship doing well or ok with it, but I personally don't understand it. That's just me though.

I will indeed try and come up with more questions. I just don't want to be redundant. I will also try and make my questions relevant. Instead of some of the stupid thrill seeking that I have seen here. If I didn't know any better. I would think some of the questions asked here were penned by adolescent teen age boys.
It's @Bonfire 's recipe.
 
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