Hello Ladies, As the title states. I did have a lot of questions that I wanted to ask. However..... This site has this great thing called a search engine and it seems all of my questions had been answered previously by all you awesome women! Since I don't have any questions righ now. I will use this thread to say thank you and I am very grateful for all your input!
I am also going to say that because of all of you and the input that you give. Has actually put My marriage of 32 years with my loving bride in a much better and even happier place! I will be the first to admit. ALL of the difficulties that my wife and I were having. Were......well..... my preconceived ideas of ALL women and how they should act or want. Mostly in the bedroom. I will just go ahead and say it......I am a dumb ass man! By this forum. I have learned so much. For example. Women are not cookie cutter beings. Each one of you are unique . Having your own likes, dislikes and desires that are as varied as snowflakes. The biggest thing that all of you have taught me is to communicate with the one you love! Before I started reading Ask a Woman. Talking about sex with my wife was a bit constrained. After reading the post in this forum. The strain was caused by me. The way I was asking questions. The way I responded to the answers. Now I truly listen and I believe what my wife has to say as truth. Seems my wife loves for me to take the lead. To take her in my arms...to slowly undress her and kiss her all over while doing it. And just let me tell you. By doing just that. My wife is an animal now! More passion more everything! Of course there are way more things we have talked about. that I now understand where I didn't before. I will give one more example. I always thought that my wife SHOULD orgasm when we had sex. She had always said. Since I like to have sex about every 3 days. She likes to wait a few more days before she has her big Or because they are much stronger when she does wait, but still loves making love with me between times cause she still enjoys the closeness. I just thought that was bunk and that the reason was because she just was not aroused or turned on by me. Then I come to this forum and see that there are a few of you that are kind of the same way with your lovers. Kind of sad that I listened to stranger's before my wife, but I guess at least I finally learned and now we both are back to acting like teenagers with each other again!
I can never thank all of you enough for your awsome input and dodging all the damn stupid DICK picks and staying engaged in helping us men who really value your input.
Merry Christmas to each and every one of you!!
I am also going to say that because of all of you and the input that you give. Has actually put My marriage of 32 years with my loving bride in a much better and even happier place! I will be the first to admit. ALL of the difficulties that my wife and I were having. Were......well..... my preconceived ideas of ALL women and how they should act or want. Mostly in the bedroom. I will just go ahead and say it......I am a dumb ass man! By this forum. I have learned so much. For example. Women are not cookie cutter beings. Each one of you are unique . Having your own likes, dislikes and desires that are as varied as snowflakes. The biggest thing that all of you have taught me is to communicate with the one you love! Before I started reading Ask a Woman. Talking about sex with my wife was a bit constrained. After reading the post in this forum. The strain was caused by me. The way I was asking questions. The way I responded to the answers. Now I truly listen and I believe what my wife has to say as truth. Seems my wife loves for me to take the lead. To take her in my arms...to slowly undress her and kiss her all over while doing it. And just let me tell you. By doing just that. My wife is an animal now! More passion more everything! Of course there are way more things we have talked about. that I now understand where I didn't before. I will give one more example. I always thought that my wife SHOULD orgasm when we had sex. She had always said. Since I like to have sex about every 3 days. She likes to wait a few more days before she has her big Or because they are much stronger when she does wait, but still loves making love with me between times cause she still enjoys the closeness. I just thought that was bunk and that the reason was because she just was not aroused or turned on by me. Then I come to this forum and see that there are a few of you that are kind of the same way with your lovers. Kind of sad that I listened to stranger's before my wife, but I guess at least I finally learned and now we both are back to acting like teenagers with each other again!
I can never thank all of you enough for your awsome input and dodging all the damn stupid DICK picks and staying engaged in helping us men who really value your input.
Merry Christmas to each and every one of you!!