I LOVE THIS THREAD~~
I've not come from a blowjob yet.. Time will tell.
*whenever you have the time, mister... * :wink:
you have probably not met the right man yet. Stick around here and I'm sure you will.
or woman~ (just sayin' there are some women who are pros at making your toes curl....at least I've made a few curl)
Vive la difference!
I couldn't love anything more than a sensuous wet mouth on my hard cock.
*I like your style, Mister~ *
I've never came from a blow job either. :'(
*YET* :wink:
I love a good blowjob. But like anything else it requires some enthusiasm on everyone's part; it isn't it's own magic. Intercourse IS it's own magic even if you weren't planning on it. So it comes down to, the bj is only for the playful.
*Playfulness is really part of giving / receiving oral ... I am very playful.. Wanna play?* :biggrin1:
If it's not your thing, then it's not your thing. Make sure your partner knows this ahead of time though. They are going to want to try (I know I'd want to), but it really has to be only at your request and if you really feel like you want to try it again.
Speaking as a woman who loves to give head, if I was with a man who didn't like it, I think that's how I'd prefer it be handled. Somehow I'd think, I could make him like it - even if I couldn't. So if there were ever times that he thought, yeah now I'd like to try it - that would be the time I'd be on him. I wouldn't want him to let me do it, just to make me feel better - that's just a recipe for sexual resentment.
^ +1 (again, we are on the same wavelength, Ms. LeFemme... )
But then I think of this: It could be a cultural thing, or the way you were raised to think of a mouth on your cock... (yuck for some, yum for others) ...
If it is a psychological barrier that prevents you from enjoying a blowjob, hardly anything will change that perception. Please let your partner know how you feel, so she (he) is not continually trying to change your mind.
Sex is about pleasing both partners... Finding that happy medium where you both enjoy the sexual activities is amazing.. awesome and powerful~
Not being able to cum from a blowjob, or having less than pleasurable experiences is certainly nothing to be ashamed of.
Good luck ..
FP