The question you need to ask yourself is why you found yourself into that topic of conversation. If you get off on it then carry on. If not, then don't bother asking or talking about it. It means absolutely nothing to you, your life or your future. No matter how competitive you may believe yourself to be, sex is not a competitive sport. If you choose to make it that then at least do so consciously, with full knowledge of how you respond to it. What is between your legs is what it is, but your decision to be competitive is completely under your control.
I hate my ex's husband...
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I don't make any apologizes for being a fan of size queens. That being said I was curious about what drrew her to him considering beyond ethnicity we were quite different.
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Is that really what drew her to him? Or could it have been, just maybe, other factors?
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With you on that one. I don't hate, but she has come the closest
So you are a fan of size queens, but when she acts as you might expect a size queen would act, you feel like shit.
Your business, so long as you see the connection between the two.
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A couple of my exes have been open with me about their exes, as has my current girlfriend, because they know I won't give a damn whether their exes were bigger, smaller, thicker, or thinner than I am. Now, if they liked their exes better in bed than they liked me, that means I've room for improvement and had better get to work.
That said, if they've been open with me, I feel no compunction about being open with them in return. Frankly, I prefer it that way. If she liked something X did, or the way Y did it, I'll give it a go. Maybe she'll like the way I do it better, if not, well, new and different skills are always useful.
My present GF has had bigger than I, although I don't believe she's had anyone thicker (not that it matters.) She says she gets off more with me than she has with any other partner. (He liked to slam her cervix -- a statement which likely made most of the women reading this thread wince and cross their legs, just thinking about it. I understand it feels a lot like getting hit in the balls.)
To the OP: If your gf is with you and not him, there's a reason for that. It means she likes and values you better.
If she liked his dick better than yours, well, so she did. But she likes you better, overall, or she wouldn't be with you. She'd be with him, or with someone else.
And I have to reluctantly agree with @JPoster, above: You get off on her being a size queen, but when you find out she's had bigger than you, you get all insecure about it and hate her ex (who didn't have any more control over what he ended up packing than you or I did.) Having a fetish for size-queens comes with an added probability that you're not going to be the biggest your partner has experienced. It's simply part of the territory.
Yep, it's your business, so long as you own to it, but you might consider sitting yourself down and taking a long, hard look at why it bothers you so much that she's had someone bigger, and what the reason is that you feel so dammed insecure about it.
Any road: Best of luck to you, and to her. Hell, and to him as well.
That said, if they've been open with me, I feel no compunction about being open with them in return. Frankly, I prefer it that way. If she liked something X did, or the way Y did it, I'll give it a go. Maybe she'll like the way I do it better, if not, well, new and different skills are always useful.
My present GF has had bigger than I, although I don't believe she's had anyone thicker (not that it matters.) She says she gets off more with me than she has with any other partner. (He liked to slam her cervix -- a statement which likely made most of the women reading this thread wince and cross their legs, just thinking about it. I understand it feels a lot like getting hit in the balls.)
To the OP: If your gf is with you and not him, there's a reason for that. It means she likes and values you better.
If she liked his dick better than yours, well, so she did. But she likes you better, overall, or she wouldn't be with you. She'd be with him, or with someone else.
And I have to reluctantly agree with @JPoster, above: You get off on her being a size queen, but when you find out she's had bigger than you, you get all insecure about it and hate her ex (who didn't have any more control over what he ended up packing than you or I did.) Having a fetish for size-queens comes with an added probability that you're not going to be the biggest your partner has experienced. It's simply part of the territory.
Yep, it's your business, so long as you own to it, but you might consider sitting yourself down and taking a long, hard look at why it bothers you so much that she's had someone bigger, and what the reason is that you feel so dammed insecure about it.
Any road: Best of luck to you, and to her. Hell, and to him as well.
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Aside from the imbecilic interest many men have in what other men they don't know can do with a ball in a stadium.... there is nothing on earth that matters LESS than the size of dick on some other guy ( whom you aren't having sex with )... except for what an EX thinks of the size of some other guy's dick.
What the fuck do YOU Care for?
Grow up. Man Up.
Two things good women admire in a man:
The ability to go bald gracefully without losing their self confidence.
And the ability to not give a flying fuck or show any curiosity in any other man who has been inside her pussy.
Be your own man.
What the fuck do YOU Care for?
Grow up. Man Up.
Two things good women admire in a man:
The ability to go bald gracefully without losing their self confidence.
And the ability to not give a flying fuck or show any curiosity in any other man who has been inside her pussy.
Be your own man.
I had a girlfriend that was very open to talk. She loved sex as well. A short blonde with large breasts and quite the appetite.
She seemed surprised the first time that I indicated my interest in hearing about her past sex life. Once she figured out that I really enjoyed hearing about it, she opened up. I heard about her ex-husband and how she had to get used to him pounding her insides. She described a thick previous boyfriend and detailed how it felt going in.
We would fuck like rabbits during and after these stories. She bragged to her friends about the fact that she would orgasm so hard that she almost blacked out. I walked into a bar where she was sitting with a couple of friends. One of them was a drop-dead gorgeous read head that while staring into my eyes said "this is the guy right?". She later told me what she had just told them.
Another of her friends grabbed my crotch and said "I gotta see this one". But she was answered "No, no. This one is mine".
We had just made an agreement to have a foursome with another couple when I broke it off with her. I had met another girl that I wanted to date. I missed her for a long time.
She seemed surprised the first time that I indicated my interest in hearing about her past sex life. Once she figured out that I really enjoyed hearing about it, she opened up. I heard about her ex-husband and how she had to get used to him pounding her insides. She described a thick previous boyfriend and detailed how it felt going in.
We would fuck like rabbits during and after these stories. She bragged to her friends about the fact that she would orgasm so hard that she almost blacked out. I walked into a bar where she was sitting with a couple of friends. One of them was a drop-dead gorgeous read head that while staring into my eyes said "this is the guy right?". She later told me what she had just told them.
Another of her friends grabbed my crotch and said "I gotta see this one". But she was answered "No, no. This one is mine".
We had just made an agreement to have a foursome with another couple when I broke it off with her. I had met another girl that I wanted to date. I missed her for a long time.
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