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Wonder if anybody has any insight on this. Why is it when you go to a resort it is perfectly acceptable and encouraged for a woman to walk around in a bathing suit or in a bikini, but they found on men wearing speedos whether it be a full Speedo or a g-string bikini Speedo and they tell us we have to cover up so we don't offend somebody.
 

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Don't let the haters bring you down. Be confident and be yourself. Others negativity is their jealousy of you for being able to do what they aren't willing
well send my brother ..,I do that even show more then anyone else with out braking the law… no one can say anything about it I walk around at the beach or public pool in a very light, tight Itsy-bitsy little bikini (not polkadot) not my thing .. but with a big bulge .. and do I get attention omg yes.. good or bad attention still attention anyway.. as ye no one had ever come to me and say (cover your self) yes sone try to make feel uncomfortable .. but the reality is; they are the ones uncomfortable sometimes I can see people the give me the worse looks are the ones with very low self steams ! and because is really up there too, I mean the bulge that is … oh well I said “ if you don’t like it don’t look at it, let alone stare at it”
 
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Wonder if anybody has any insight on this. Why is it when you go to a resort it is perfectly acceptable and encouraged for a woman to walk around in a bathing suit or in a bikini, but they found on men wearing speedos whether it be a full Speedo or a g-string bikini Speedo and they tell us we have to cover up so we don't offend somebody.

There are guys who look great in Speedos or thongs and then there are guys who really shouldn't go out in public dressed like that.

The same applies to women, but in my experience, the majority of women have a good sense of what looks good on them and what doesn't.

Men, on the other hand, tend to see in the mirror what they want to see, rather than reality.
 
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There are guys who look great in Speedos or thongs and then there are guys who really shouldn't go out in public dressed like that.

The same applies to women, but in my experience, the majority of women have a good sense of what looks good on them and what doesn't.

Men, on the other hand, tend to see in the mirror what they want to see, rather than reality.

So, work on that Speedo body, or confine them to the backyard (preferably, fenced).
 

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Because a man's equipment is more obvious and most normal women's swimwear are not made to show their genitals bulging out. Unless one is at an adults-only gathering where the emphasis is on a sexual vibe like Hedonism Resort or a private pool party, I don't think it's appropriate for anyone, male or female, to wear a minimalistic bathing suit that is no more than a strip of cloth with their kibbles & bit and both butt cheeks prominently visible or hanging out only to be seen by others who might not necessarily be comfortable with seeing them.

This apples & oranges double-standard argument is stupid every time it comes up as there is no comparison between the two. If you are at a place that primarily caters to a gay male cliental it is one thing, but news flash...other guys who are straight and the majority of women do not want to see men wearing banana hammocks in public with their schlongs on display, especially when children are or might be in attendance.

Now I do agree that there is a legitimate double standard in the length of men's and women's shorts and by extension, bathing trunks. Back in the day men could get away with showing a little upper thigh while fashion wise, it has become almost unacceptable to have men's swimwear that go above the knee (and sometimes not even the knees are visible) and anyone who reveals their quads may be made to feel out of place. So while an argument could be made there, but as far as something that shows the entire outline of one's nuts and bolt at a public resort, hotel, pool or beach; it is never appropriate IMO.
 

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So, work on that Speedo body, or confine them to the backyard (preferably, fenced).
I wouldn’t mind seeing you on bikini swim suit you have a nice buddy, and a very hot hot big delicious looking dick, it make a very yummmy bulge.
and a little note: I’m stoping to refer a bikini swim suit as a “speedo” that is a brand. I guess a lot of people don’t like to say bikini, speedo is not even a style, there is the long tights for swimming there speedo brand, but is just me.
and I also refrain for telling people what should or shouldn’t do, I always say if there comfortable on there clothing then more power to them, like I said before as long as they don’t brake the law .. they can wear a paper back for all I care.. and my Mother is a very supported and wise woman, she always say to me “if you have it flaunt it”
so no judgement here …
 

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I wouldn’t mind seeing you on bikini swim suit you have a nice buddy, and a very hot hot big delicious looking dick, it make a very yummmy bulge.
and a little note: I’m stoping to refer a bikini swim suit as a “speedo” that is a brand. I guess a lot of people don’t like to say bikini, speedo is not even a style, there is the long tights for swimming there speedo brand, but is just me.
and I also refrain for telling people what should or shouldn’t do, I always say if there comfortable on there clothing then more power to them, like I said before as long as they don’t brake the law .. they can wear a paper back for all I care.. and my Mother is a very supported and wise woman, she always say to me “if you have it flaunt it”
so no judgement here …

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Speedos
 

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I wouldn’t mind seeing you on bikini swim suit you have a nice buddy, and a very hot hot big delicious looking dick, it make a very yummmy bulge.
and a little note: I’m stoping to refer a bikini swim suit as a “speedo” that is a brand. I guess a lot of people don’t like to say bikini, speedo is not even a style, there is the long tights for swimming there speedo brand, but is just me.
and I also refrain for telling people what should or shouldn’t do, I always say if there comfortable on there clothing then more power to them, like I said before as long as they don’t brake the law .. they can wear a paper back for all I care.. and my Mother is a very supported and wise woman, she always say to me “if you have it flaunt it”
so no judgement here …

You're right Speedo was a brand. And thank you for the compliment that's very nice.

I just lost 22 lb and yeah I still have a little ways to go but I want busted my ass and I'm going to show off what I have even if nobody else wants to look at it.
 

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Shorter shorts are back in. At a fair last week I saw more younger guys with shorter shorts than in a long time like almost cross country type shorts. I just bought some 14" trunks this year from the speedo website they were out if stock at kohls website. I have to wear a swin brief under it though to be careful if you squat down. There are guys at the y that wear swim briefs.
 
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In some areas of Europe, health club indoor pools, a traditional swim trunk is prohibited & a speedo required.
 

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Wonder if anybody has any insight on this. Why is it when you go to a resort it is perfectly acceptable and encouraged for a woman to walk around in a bathing suit or in a bikini, but they found on men wearing speedos whether it be a full Speedo or a g-string bikini Speedo and they tell us we have to cover up so we don't offend somebody.
Well, I would never (and up to now there was no reason to get upset, neither here in Europe, nor in the USA) change my speedos and wear old fashioned stuff. Speedos are regular trunks and nobody can forbid them in a resort or public pool area!
 
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