i have a crush on a LPSG member

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  1. B_theaussieone

    B_theaussieone New Member

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    he is 100% straight and makes subtle homophobic remarks. but that turns me on? anyone else have a crush on a fellow member?
     
  2. thadjock

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    have you told this person you have a crush on him? i always tell my str8 friends i'm attracted to in no uncertain terms that "ya, i would so totally do you". that way it extends an open invitation to him if he's ever had a fleeting thought about wanting to do something with me. it takes the pressure off, opens the door.

    I know in 99% of the cases nothing is going to happen but there has been that one percent where we were able to share some fun, and i'm sure it wouldnt' have happened if i hadnt' throw it out there first. even when something does happen it's important to remember that he might just be dipping his toe in waters he'll never want to swim in, so keep ur wits about u.
     
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    Crush? No, but I am smitten by a few.... And my hubby could probably tell you who they are.... Not me... I don't give out names
     
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    how does your hubby know? do you tell him?
     
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    gosh, do I ever... on both sides of the playing field!
     
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    Who doesn't?
     
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    i have a crush on cath
     
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    I definitely have a crush on a few members. :biggrin1:
     
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    ur avatar drives me crazy
     
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    I keep nothing from him...and he knows about the wolf.. Wink

    The boy has become a man..... And man, o man, you are driving both sides crazy....
     
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    HA! HA! HA! Anyone that knows, knows!
     
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    i have 42 crushes.
     
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    I "might" even have a crush on someone in this thread :wink:
     
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    I know I have a crush and he is on this thead...
     
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    you too? oh my god... :-( :)
     
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    I am certainly attracted to about 3-4 people on the site ( one being another female) but i wouldnt say i have a crush on them, maybe on one i suppose.
     
  17. dolfette

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    no.
    i've only one internet crush.
    a huge and overpowering crush.
    a heart skippy when he PMs me crush.
    but he's not on this site.
     
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    Sparks are flying all over the place!
     
  19. The Dragon

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    Lots.
    It's rather nice when it's reciprocated because there is no point throwing yourself at those who aren't going to return the gesture.

    That is just embarrassing for both parties.
     
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    what an unhealthy attraction
     
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