- sdbg,
Same here. Over the years, I've met a few members when they have come to San Diego on business or on vacation. It's usually coffee at Starbucks and conversation. 2 members came to my house for a dinner party. They came back a year later and we did typical tourist stuff. I've enjoyed those times, and we still keep in touch.A "crush" may be a bit extreme. There are definitely several str8, bi, and gay guys on here that I would love to meet.
For me, a crush can only develop from me liking a guy's personality. Sure, it helps if he's attractive, yet ultimately the inside matters more than the outside.