ok so obviously i'm big or i wouldn't be on this site, i'm not one to brag about my size, but suffice to say i'm long and pretty wide on top of that. My girlfriend of seven months and i want to have sex, but here are my snags: 1. shes a small girl physically, as in 4' 11.75" 2. shes only had intercourse with one other guy and not very many times even with him. that was about two years ago, too. so shes basically a virgin. I'm really scared of hurting her. I really don't want to fuck the whole thing up because we can't have sex (I have an acronym for relationships: FFPI or Fighting, Friendship, and Physical Intimacy, all equally, it just doesn't work otherwise and physical intimacy doesn't mean fucking, though thats part of it, it means being close physically in any way) I'd like advice on how to handle this. i know foreplay, her being comfortable and relaxed, and if we really need it lube will all be a factor but i also know its more than that. HELP ME!!! oh, and women who've dealt with similar situations before will be tremendously helpful PS: PLEASE don't be rude or vulgar, if you're going to do that then go somewhere else.