I have a question

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  1. Imported

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    Big load: What do all you guys think of guys who have below average or small dicks? Do you treat or think of them as any less of a person? I've heard some people say that you arent a real man if you dont have a big piece of meat between your legs!

    I think it's bollocks, there is nothing wrong with having a small penis, its just the luck of the draw. I hate when people think they deserve more women or something because they have 7"+ when erect. I've known people with 3-4" cocks when erect and they're just regular guys living a normal life. I dont see how people associate a succesful carerr with having a big dick (except maybe porn stars!)

    Question for the ladies, or gay guys. If you found a guy you completey loved and couldnt live without, wanted to marry and have lots of kids with, but found out he had a small penis would you stay with him? I dont see why you shouldn't. I dont think penis size is the deciding factor in a relationship


    Also what do people consider average? I'd say 5-6" roughly, anything above that i would consider to be "big"


    I'm 7" erect by the way, not sure about my girth
     
  2. Imported

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    Kazon: Big Load:

    I have swung episodes with a few kats, one serious ( His azz was SCRUMSHULEESENT), who are smaller than I ( I am 8x4). I have treated them the same. Though, I find the smaller dicked kats like to play with my dick more & are more often than not, able to last almost, to as long as I can, than kats my size or bigger. I have also known some massively sized, lenght, width & thicknes all on one person who when hard, were not really hard or/and needed to wait some time before going for round 2, the outcome being more aggravating than satisfying.

    I prefer my size or better, though, not essential, providing I am not still going like the energizer bunny long after he has stoped. So it depends. I do have issues with guys who look like Tarzan & act like Jane...that to me is such a turn off regardless of what is hanging or not between tha leggs.
     
  3. txquis

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    I'm laid back about size....whatever you've got, use it well.
    Most here would tell you the same.
    Yes, you will meet people in your life who only like the big ones,
    and that is their preference.
    I"m glad there are some who like the average boys, or i'd
    never get a date.

    Cheers to you.
     
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    I am within the limits of average accordoing to some surveys. And I have been i the small penis group as well. This is my conclusion, the big dick guys are much more friendly and nice to the smaller endowed guys then the other way around. In the small penis group people have posted saying they were 6 inches or so and have litterally been chastised unreasonably.

    The guys with extremely large penises (above 9 inches) have been almost apologietic and some wanted penis reduction surgery, some have just shared that they were ashamed to have one so big. But those who are under four inches are usually arrogant and extremely intollerent of any guy bigger then they are no mater the size.

    Before I visited both sites, I just assumed that I would rather be seen in the nude by guys smaller than me than guys larger than me. Judging from what I read on the small penis forum, the opposite is true. It wouldn' faze me to be seen by the guys here that are 9 inches and above. Most of them would just accept me as I am in hopes I would accept them. But Iwould not want to be in the room with the guys that are four inches or less that have posted in the small penis forum. They are too judgemental.

    Now I don't know about women. I think that too much is made about penis size by people who don't know what they are tlaking about. Girls have been lead to believe that all guys have a 7 inch penis or larger. They have stopped to realize how big that really is.
     
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    I have a really good friend who has a tiny dick (probably the smallest I have ever seen on an adult). He's my pal and I don't care at all about the size of a man's cock as so far as liking or disliking the chap.
     
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    I don't care about the size of anyone's dick and I don't really want to know but there is that curiosity in me, wanting to know where I stand and how I measure up but really I can deal and am very happy not knowing the size of any of my friends or anybody that I know. Penis size isn't all that important. How many people see your penis and how many see your achievements, your personality and your good will etc? © me :D
     
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    Knight, I agree. I have no idea of the penis sizes of any family member or friends, and frankly don't care! I do hope that all are 'equipped' enough to satisfy their wives or girlfriends. When I was grade school age I think I remember seeing my dad naked going from my parent's bedroom to the bathroom and noticed his penis was larger than mine. But I was 8 or 10 at the time! Once puberty and teenage growth kicked in, I got a magical growing penis :p and realized it was part of growing up. (pun intended.)

    LapDog :p
     
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    As long as it's attached to a body that has some semblance of intelligence, I don't care how big or small a guys dick is at all. There is so much more to a man than his penis. I would never berate or belittle a guy over the size of his dick.
     
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    Okay let me be shallow here---if you dont have a big dick i am not interested in sex with you unless you bottom but dont expect me to suck you. there i said it.

    i have always wondered what tiny cock men think regarding their own apendage. i wish i was 9-9.5 inches and then the guys that know my size have to slap me because i am not small but sometimes think i am.

    i dont think size is a degree of manhood and i dont think big cocks determine success in life; it makes one more confident and that is about it.

    on a personal note i would hate to have a tiny cock --it would be so terrible.
     
  10. Imported

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    Kazon:
    I like your straightforwardness and honesty
     
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    I wanna cry when I read your question.
    When it comes to true love the size does not matter. No matter what size.
    I have had lots and lots of good sex with averege guys and "under averege" guys.
    I don't think that those guys are less of a man just because of a small or averge penis.
    The only thing that counts is the carisma and the ability to love. Believe me, I know that.
     
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    You're entitled to your prejudices, but in my opinion most of what makes a man sexy can be found in what lies between his ears, not between his legs. I have had dynamite sex with men who are not spectacularly endowed, and would do it with most of them again.
     
  13. Imported

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    Big load:

    that's exactly how I feel!! I'm not gay but i completely agree that sex with an average guy can be just as enjoyable as sex with a hung guy. If you're just after a good shag then sure go for the biggies but, i've said it before, you cant help who you fall in love with and letting something as stupid as dick size (or tit size for that matter) do the deciding is stupid and shallow.
     
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    Big load:

    i admire your honesty :)

    just a question though, what if you fell in love with a guy who only had a 4" erect penis? Would you dump him because he wasnt hung?
     
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    To get somewhat deep here, love takes time. There is no way on earth I will ever believe in love at first sight. I think true love takes in the very least several months, if not a year. You can be very fond of someone, even become attatched to them, but to actually love them REQUIRES that you know them fully, and that takes time. Many factors go into choosing a suitable mate, compatibility, sexuality, mutual interests, appearance, common types of life goals, religious compatibility- all these things are good to consider when choosing a potential life partner. You'll forgive me if I get annoyed as hell at people who date twice and claim to be in love!!!

    If Hungthick prefers larger men, well that's just how it is. Some men perfer blondes, so I'm just not their taste, big fucking deal. I also get anoyed at people trying to view dating as being so pc we are not allowed to have preferrences, which is absurd! If that were true, we also wouldn't be allowed to prefer intelligence (and oh doesn't everyone on earth think they have that going for them), kindness, nurturing, expansiveness, humor. There are a lot of things you're either born with or you're not. I wasn't born white, so a lot of men won't like to date me, that's okay too. I don't whine about it if I know that's the reason, I just go on to someone else, plenty of fish in the sea. I wasn't born with a naturally high metabolism, so I doubt I'll ever be skinny, which is some men's preference. But then, I have nice boobs so some guys like that. I'm not insulted if a guy likes me for my boobs! I'm just happy he likes me. Once he gets to know me more, he'll discover what a cool person I am (no ego problems here, lol). Until then we have to approach each other for some reason. so we are drawn to what our eyes like.

    I don't judge the value of a man by his penis size, that distinction I want to make abundantly clear.

    For me personally, to fully experience orgasm takes a larger than average penis, and I don't think I could ever truly fall in love with someone who couldn't give me that. I tried it once and it was more to give up than I had expected. Preference. I don't think that the men who don't want to date me are assholes, they have a right to their preferences, and so do I.
     
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    Big load: so you're saying if you couldnt have a decent sex life you wouldn't be able to love someone?
     
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    When I consider the matter, I realize that size doesn't matter a whole lot to me. I mean, if I'm going to be on bottom, it may a bit, but that's only because I don't do it often. But as a measure of the kind of guy I'm dealing with....nah, that doesn't matter at all. In fact, I talked to a dude I like that's hung bigger than me, found out thru chat, but wasn't my goal to find out. He just mentioned it on the third conversation because we talked about getting together and such. I liked him considerably before ever knowing that he's hung.

    On the flip side, I dated a dude that had some issues with his size and dating me (some rumor about black dudes and huge dicks). I was way more into him than to care about the size he was (about 6" long and 4 thick). It caused some minor rifts with us, but as I liked him a whole lot, I found us a way thru it.
     
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    Volt: I treat smaller guys with GREAT respect. The guy on 28 Days Later did a nude scene openly and I thought that took a lot of guts.

    People who are smaller, I see them as being able to live life happily without sexuality as the #1 factor, and that is awsome. People who are happy with who they are ... just seeing them gives me strength to accept myself.

    Now i just can't stand guys who walk around and act like they are just the most important people on earth. I'm sure a huge majority of people on this forum are quite small, or not anything special at all, they just signed up for the sake of self comfort.
     
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    Hmm...interesting...definitely interesting point Volt
     
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    No, not in a marital way. I can love many people, but to be in love is another matter. Don't get me wrong, I don't represent all or even most women. I'm just me. Most women COULD have a decent sex life with men of any size. Women have most of our nerve endings around the opening of the vagina, and the g-spot is only about 2 to 3 inches in, so being smaller to average in size is not a prohibitive factor in being able to give a woman an orgasm! Also, many (if not most) women prefer oral stimualtion to penetration, for the purpose of orgasm, many women don't climax from insertion anyway. They like penetration for the emotional closeness with their partner, but often need oral to get off. Everyone has different tastes and different needs, but I think it is important to consider being compatible sexually when choosing a life partner. Could you be happy never having an orgasm from your partner? If you answer "yes", I don't believe you.
     
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