LOL...it's true though...i aint that hot or perhaps i lack confidence i do'nt know
Clearly it's low confidence, because I think you're gorgeous. Kinda perfect, actually...my ideal man. (Seriously, when I first saw your pics about a month ago, I thought it was a real pity that we live in different countries.)
not chosen by any means...i'm just not the hedonistic or promiscuous type, am low in confidence despite people telling me good things but largely due to a drug addiction which saw me become a recluse for 8 years...i successfully quit over 2 1/2yrs ago now tho so am out there looking for the right guy to have some fun with
I'm sorry to hear that you had an addiction and spent 8 years as a recluse. I'm glad that you're now clean and sober. It makes me sad whenever I hear about a young guy like yourself missing out on the pleasures of love and sex...because I missed out on them, too. Now that I'm older and fatter, and my libido has left me, I really regret not enjoying my youth more. If I had, I might be happily married now, and in a better place in my life.
Alas, I still haven't overcome the shyness and insecurities that caused me to be virtually celibate when younger. In some ways they are worse. You have time, mitchy. Don't make my mistakes.
Having said that, I confess that I have no solid, practical suggestions for overcoming the lack of confidence that's holding you back, but I really hope find a way to do it.
