I have a small penis....for this website.

[Trouserfiesta]

Hey there guys. I am pleased to be a "member" of the forum. Please let me know if this thread needs to be re-located. I didn't know where else to post it.

I have been reading this site for quite a while, and despite the fact that I am not very endowed compared to most of you, I decided to join. Hopefully I won't get kicked out for being too small, lol. My penis is 7.2 inches nbp (7.9 inches bp) and 5.4 inches around. I have had 2 girls say that it is big though, the last of whom complained that she got a sort of, sex stomach-ache after sex. (Hitting her cervix?). In spite of that, I still feel kind of freaked out with how much bigger some guys are than me, and I have a complex about it. Probably all the porn I have watched. Anyways, hopefully I won't be laughed at, with my dimensions. I don't really need support for being too big, I need re-assurance that I am not small. Lol.

I have only slept with 5 women, (all girlfriends though) and none of them have complained about my size, but if I get into a one-night stand scenario, am I am going to be laughed at if I get a size queen? I am tired of the emotional baggage of relationships, and would like to play the field, but my size fears are holding me back. I guess it's cause I think that any half-decent looking woman these days has slept with a guy with a tool like one of yours'! lol.

Don't you .2 percent of the population sleep with 80 percent of the female population at one point? I know one guy who is super-hung and apparently most of the women in his social circle has at least given him a bj. Seems odd that women are talking about being all emotional and deep, but they will give a guy head simply because he has a giant cock. Maybe I need to hang out with different people, but I feel woefully inadequate compared to guys like you and I don't know what to do. Advice?

Thanks guys.

 

[Trouserfiesta]

Hey there ladies! I am new to the forum. Need your valued opinions!

I am not going to lie, I am most likely the smallest member here. 7.2 inches by 5.4. Is that big enough to give you an orgasm if used correctly (and you can have vaginal orgasms)?

Am I just on the cusp of being able to pleasure a woman with my size? Can men who are even smaller than me bring pleasure to a woman? How big does it NEED to be before you can have a good time with it?

 

[Gecko4lif]

You penis is not a womens issue

 

[parchissi]

Welcome to you - good that you have arrived here at LPSG - enjoy the forums checking out things that interest you. Cheers.

 

[Trouserfiesta]

You penis is not a womens issue

I will move the thread then. Thought it said it was alright for a man to post.

 

[Trouserfiesta]

You penis is not a womens issue

I will move the thread. I thought it said it was alright for men to post.

 

[Guy-jin]

It's fine for men to post. But this forum is for talking about women's issues. And, as the third sticky thread in the forum says:

http://www.lpsg.org/81661-your-cock-is-not-a.html

 

[drabman]

You penis is not a womens issue

True - but since he's alread posted here then allow me my two penn'orth (it'll probably get moved anyway).

You are NOT the smallest here, or anything like it - certainly if your 7.2" is non-bone pressed and measured in the correct way (standing up, penis horizontal and measuring along the centre of the top/dorsal surface).

In the latter case you are significantly longer than average and thicker than average - many porn stars are not as long. Relatively few women will have encountered a penis as big as yours.

Don't allow some of the fantasy on here to undermine your self-esteem.

 

[Trouserfiesta]

Hello people! I am not going to lie, I am most likely the smallest member here. 7.2 inches by 5.4. Is that big enough to give you an orgasm if used correctly (and you can have vaginal orgasms)?

Am I just on the cusp of being able to pleasure a woman with my size? Can men who are even smaller than me bring pleasure to a woman? How big does it NEED to be before you can have a good time with it?

 

[Trouserfiesta]

True - but since he's alread posted here then allow me my two penn'orth (it'll probably get moved anyway).

You are NOT the smallest here, or anything like it - certainly if your 7.2" is non-bone pressed and measured in the correct way (standing up, penis horizontal and measuring along the centre of the top/dorsal surface).

In the latter case you are significantly longer than average and thicker than average - many porn stars are not as long. Relatively few women will have encountered a peis as big.

Don't allow some of the fantasy on here to undermine your self-esteem.

REALLY? I thought the average size here was 9 x 6 or something. I saw a thread like that, so I just assumed I was tiny. Lol.

My apologies for making a thread here about my penis. I saw the sticky AFTER I posted it. I posted this question in another section. I guess my dick would only be a Woman's issue in regards to the women I sleep with. Most likely not though: not big enough to cause problems with most girls.

 

[JacKNight]

Hey man welcome.

Ok the first thing... get out of your own head! Your flipping yourself out and NOTHING good can come of that. Years ago (Teens early 20s) I had these same worries. They are self defeating. Luckily for me it was about that same time that I was learning anything and everything I could about a woman's body and how to pleasure a woman.

The things you're worried about... Has she been with someone bigger? I'll tell you most likely the answer is yes I'm about the same length as you are and there are plenty of 9 inchers out there or bigger that she's probably encountered one. Good news for us is most guys in the world don't really spend the time to learn how to fuck. So trust me being a guy who's a bit above average and knows how to make a woman discover her endless supply of orgasms... I'm almost like finding a unicorn to a woman.

Your lack of confidence... total game killer both for you and her. Women are attracted to confidence in a man... so much so that damn near the ugliest hermit out there could probably get a good looking woman if he had himself together. When it came to sex and the bedroom part of my game plan was to keep expectations low. I wouldn't talk myself down or anything just didn't go out of my way to brag or anything. Now not that I would recommend this to you now just throwing it in for info. Today I know what I can and can't do in... (and out) of the bedroom. I will flat out tell a woman that I'm going to rock her fuckin world. Which right away puts them in one of two mindsets... either they thing "oooh goodie" or most of them "yeah right hero I've heard that before". When you come through and deliver... raises that whole attraction thing even more. I've been told now more times than I can count "Wow I think that's the first time I've ever REALLY had an orgasm" (Usually after they experience vaginal orgasm for the first time) or "That's the first time I've had multiple" or "It's usually not THAT easy for me to have multiples".

Does all that mean I can please every woman out there??? Fuck yes it does!! LOL ok just kidding may be letting the ego run amok. No there are still a small handful of women out there that I can't do a thing for. In fact about a year ago I was with a woman like this. For me probably a good thing though could use an ego check every once in awhile. But for me that means... So what I'm not the guy who can deliver 10 times out of 10... who cares that's John Shaft's job not mine. I'll take being the guy who can deliver 99 times out of 100 any day of the week and twice on Sunday.

 

[Zayne]

among female pandas, yes!

 

[Zayne]

You posted that question here? God have mercy on your soul.

 

[MrToolhung]

Since I am not a women I am not going to be able to tell you for sure if she would be satisfied. However, I think you will have no problems at all. From my perspective your cock would satisfy this dude. :smile:

 

[Trouserfiesta]

among female pandas, yes!

Haha

 

[tross87]

You posted that question here? God have mercy on your soul.

hahaha

REALLY? I thought the average size here was 9 x 6 or something. I saw a thread like that, so I just assumed I was tiny. Lol.

My apologies for making a thread here about my penis. I saw the sticky AFTER I posted it. I posted this question in another section. I guess my dick would only be a Woman's issue in regards to the women I sleep with. Most likely not though: not big enough to cause problems with most girls.

Lots of guys lie about their size dude. If your measurements are legit like someone above described than you're big.

 

[geeka]

Well, what IS a woman's issue is that it is hard to believe guys who are progressive enough to visit a forum like this wouldn't know it isn't the size or a penis that gives a woman the most pleasure. It is her clitoris that does it for most. Your penis is largely irrelevant in the final scheme of things. Useful for some sensation, but not the be all end all of sexual encounters. It gets in your way a lot too, huh? Admit it! You are vulnerable indeed with that hanging thang! <G> Lion says swooosh...you're done, while the woman lives on...intact! Don't shoot the messenger. Someone HAD to say it.

 

[D_Crystallized Ginger]

the lpsg average seems more like 8x6, and btw 7.2 x 5.4 is pretty big especially if not bone pressed... also you joined a large penis support forum so what did you expect?? In your mind you are already are big and need some support to believe it strongly otherwise you wouldn't have joined LPSG... this is my opinion

 

[AlteredEgo]

Your questions are already answered within hundreds of previous threads asking the same thing, and more easily, you can find your answer in the Women's Issues forum in the sticky thread about size discussion found at the very top of that page. When you first join a forum, you should read all the stickies and use the search function before you start a thread. Just my advice.

 

[Trouserfiesta]

Well, what IS a woman's issue is that it is hard to believe guys who are progressive enough to visit a forum like this wouldn't know it isn't the size or a penis that gives a woman the most pleasure. It is her clitoris that does it for most. Your penis is largely irrelevant in the final scheme of things. Useful for some sensation, but not the be all end all of sexual encounters. It gets in your way a lot too, huh? Admit it! You are vulnerable indeed with that hanging thang! <G> Lion says swooosh...you're done, while the woman lives on...intact! Don't shoot the messenger. Someone HAD to say it.

I would like to believe that the clitoris is more important than the vagina in terms of a woman's pleasure, but why is it that most women I talk with (and have had sex with) say that although they love getting head, they prefer vaginal intercourse? If 80 percent of women can't climax from vaginal penetration alone, why do they mostly prefer it to getting oral, when oral is much more likely (if done correctly) to give a woman the big o?

If this 80 percent of women who can't climax from vaginal penetration alone experienced a big cock perhaps that number would go down. I would like to think it is the motion of the ocean that matters more, but I don't know about that. Perhaps some women who aren't as in touch with their bodies and seldom (if ever) orgasm want a large penis because, if they aren't having them, they get the most pleasure from a large one. Is "average" even capable of bringing a woman a vaginal orgasm? I am not huge by any means, but am above average, and I have yet to give a woman a vaginal orgasm. I mean, the last gf made a lot of noise, but I am pretty sure she faked it.

I probably just suck in bed, but I have to ask: is it really how you use it? Or is that just something women say to make small and average guys feel better? Is my size the "baseline" for big enough, or should I pe?