I have a small penis....for this website.

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most women...they mostly prefer...some women...something women say

Dude, stop looking for generalizations. There are a lot of humans on this planet with varying preferences, sensitive areas, fantasies, etc. While every woman is fundamentally engineered the same, the implementation details vary considerably from one model to the next. Same goes for guys.

Be sensitive to your lover's needs, preferences and responses, and adjust on the fly. Unless she's a dyed-in-the-wool size queen, all but the smallest men have plenty of willie to please a woman, assuming that they truly want to. Except for a few exceptions, if you're going in there with the primary intent of either getting yourself off or propping up your ego, there's a good chance that she'll walk away less than enthusiastic about returning.

Have fun - eat, suck, rub, fuck, kiss, lick, grind, nibble and slam. Play with different positions, angles, rates, patterns, whatever, just not to excess. Mix it up and pay attention to her responses, looking for her body to signal approval. Unless she's a talented professional (actress, escort, etc) "faking it" won't be terribly convincing, or satisfying, for long.
 
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I know I haven't been posting long, but I've been reading a while and, man, I have to say I love these threads -- when a poster just wants to know if complete strangers think their equipment can get the job done. It's a hoot.

To the OP: Yeah, you're fine. Completely normal. She'd be a lucky gal etc. etc.

I'm going to try a different tack, though, rather than put up a pic of my junk seeking self-validation. I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that, even though I'm only packin' five inches ladies, there's a damn good chance I can make your toes curl. Maybe it won't be with the dick, but by God I'll use a modified weed-eater if I have to. I will eat pussy for two hours. I have a line of credit at the sex toy shop and I know how to use it. Lol. Anyway, it's all in jest. Sorry ladies, I'm taken.
 

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I seriously doubt the lpsg average is 8x6 lolol. That sounds a little ridiculous.

And 7.2 x 5.4 definitely isn't small. Not on this website or anywhere...

You're significantly above average in both length and girth so stop worrying so much, your size is great.
 

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I seriously doubt the lpsg average is 8x6 lolol. That sounds a little ridiculous.

And 7.2 x 5.4 definitely isn't small. Not on this website or anywhere...

You're significantly above average in both length and girth so stop worrying so much, your size is great.

why ridiculous? do you think it's higher or lower than 8x6? I didn't get what you mean
 

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My advice?
You need to measure again. With 7" or in your case 7.9" bp you can never feel yourselve small or average.
If you feel inadequate, then you are not 7", final stop.
 

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Average on this site is 7x6. So most guys on here are probably thicker than you but not longer. So perhaps overall volume-wise you are the same 'size' as most on here.

Also it is a fact of life that everyone else's penis will 'look' bigger than yours. That's just an optical illusion/body image issue.

Remember too that this site attracts guys with large penises (or guys who say they have large penises).

In the real world a woman has about a 1/10 chance of encountering a 7" cock and a 1/100 chance of encountering an 8" cock. So don't worry about it.
 

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Maybe it's cause I am fairly big (6'2 230) so it doesn't look as big on me as it would on a 5'6 skinny guy. I know it's not small, heck, I wouldn't have signed up here if I thought it was. I just have this idea that there are lots of guys WAAAY bigger than me, and that they're all out in the nightclubs and bars picking up 80 percent of the women, so even my size would be not enough. I guess it's too much Mandingo porn. Plus, my last gf did say her ex was huge. Maybe it's just a psychological ploy to keep me insecure. I don't know.

Btw, I measured again. 7.2 nbp at full erection. 5.4 erect girth. Like I said, I know I am not small, it's just that I worry that, when getting with a really attractive chick, she is going to want more. I mean, only confident men get really hot ones, and didn't studies show that tge more attractive a woman is, the larger penis she desires? Would that mean that for a woman who is 9/10, would the average size she encounters not be much bigger than average, considering the only guys confident enough to pick her up are most likely confident BECAUSE they are very above average? I feel that for my last gf, she may not have wanted a bigger penis per se, but she was pretty good looking, so I assume she had many way bigger than me. I hope I am wrong.
 

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I question your researching abilities Trouserfiesta... they mostly seem to be "studies" that would aim to make you feel inferior. If you really are 7.2" or 7.9" then youre in like the top 5% if not even better than that.
 

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In the grand scheme of things, you are bigger than some, and smaller than some.
 

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I read his post and I react with a mix of humor and anger...

How can anyone with a cock well above average worry about being too small?

7.2x5.4 is a big cock by most anyone's standards. Proabaly 60-70% of men are smaller than you including me! I am only 6.2x4.5.

Just think about how guys like us feel when we put ouerselves out there!
 

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Average on this site is 7x6. So most guys on here are probably thicker than you but not longer. So perhaps overall volume-wise you are the same 'size' as most on here....

From the pics I've seen I would very much doubt the true average is as large as that. Certainly the majority don't appear to have 6" girth, but I imagine you've seen more pics than me. Certainly the average claimed size is 7 x 6, but I've learned to be extremely wary indeed of some of the claims made on this forum.

In the real world a woman has about a 1/10 chance of encountering a 7" cock and a 1/100 chance of encountering an 8" cock. So don't worry about it.

Are you factoring in the average number of partners a woman has in this statistic? Because the chance of encountering penises of this size in a single encounter, if the measurements are non-bonepressed, is much lower than that according to many contemporary surveys. For example dirkjesje has extrapolated the findings of the Durex Survey and has come up with figures of 1 in 44 for 7" and almost 1 in 800 for 8" (1 in 769 for 7.8"). (Link below).

http://www.lpsg.org/243515-i-dont-believe-12-13-a-10.html#post3472248
 
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...this idea that there are lots of guys WAAAY bigger than me, and that they're all out in the nightclubs and bars picking up 80 percent of the women, so even my size would be not enough...

It's sad you have this insecurity, but I assure you that it has no basis in reality.

...I guess it's too much Mandingo porn...

I don't doubt it. I'm sure the ridiculous claims made on the web, not least in forums like these, don't help.

...Plus, my last gf did say her ex was huge. Maybe it's just a psychological ploy to keep me insecure. I don't know.

Unfortunately there are just as many women as men who play psychological mind games to undermine their partners' confidence and thereby control them.

Btw, I measured again. 7.2 nbp at full erection. 5.4 erect girth. Like I said, I know I am not small...

It's statistically quite likely that you are the biggest your girlfriend has had.

...it's just that I worry that, when getting with a really attractive chick, she is going to want more...

Well if that's true, the majority of hot chicks are going to be very frustrated. They won't come across too many penises bigger than that.

I mean, only confident men get really hot ones...

Generally true, but there are many confident men with average penises (most men will be average) and many unconfident men with big penises. (You are actually an example of the latter). I've never subscribed to the facile argument that confident man = babe magnet, big penis = confident man, ergo big penis = babe magnet.

and didn't studies show that tge more attractive a woman is, the larger penis she desires?...

ONE study claimed to show a link, but it was tenuous as I recall. It didn't lead to a definitive conclusion that all attractive women prefer big penises.

There will also be attractive women who hate them of course - some porn stars have said as much. For example Asia Carrera avoided working with guys 8" and above (I'm not sure if that was porn 8" or real 8", because precious few true 8-inch penises exist in porn)

will the average size she encounters not be much bigger than average, considering the only guys confident enough to pick her up are most likely confident BECAUSE they are very above average?...

As I said above, the statement big penis = confidence is false. Many guys are not as preoccupied with penis size as those who visit this forum for example. Some guys who are large might not be that bothered. Others might have a big penis, but not believe they have one and so be just as unconfident as anyone (again, you are a good example of this phenomenon).

Even the relatively few women who place a big importance on penis size, will probably put more of a premium on other material things first. Ask a lottery winner how much his penis size matters when pulling women.

I feel that for my last gf, she may not have wanted a bigger penis per se, but she was pretty good looking, so I assume she had many way bigger than me. I hope I am wrong.

I would be prepared to bet you are.
 
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... 7.2x5.4 is a big cock by most anyone's standards. Proabaly 60-70% of men are smaller than you including me! I am only 6.2x4.5.

Just think about how guys like us feel when we put ouerselves out there!

But you have nothing to worry about either. If your length is non-bone pressed, it is slightly above the average figure given in most reputable surveys. However there are many who believe that because of the selection bias in these surveys, the true average is likely to be smaller.

You might find these videos reassuring. They were posted by two well-known female sex researchers giving their opinion on size, both from personal experience and from surveys. (I'm suspect they're talking non-bonepressed in the first and bonepressed in the second by the way).

YouTube - ‪How Big is a Big Penis?‬‏

YouTube - ‪What is The Average Penis Size?‬‏
 
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I have only slept with 5 women, (all girlfriends though) and none of them have complained about my size, but if I get into a one-night stand scenario, am I am going to be laughed at if I get a size queen? I am tired of the emotional baggage of relationships, and would like to play the field, but my size fears are holding me back. I guess it's cause I think that any half-decent looking woman these days has slept with a guy with a tool like one of yours'! lol.

I feel the same way. I completely avoid having sex because of my size, but I have a "legit" reason to worry as my size is what most women would define as small or as the small end of average. You actually have quite a good size.

Don't you .2 percent of the population sleep with 80 percent of the female population at one point? I know one guy who is super-hung and apparently most of the women in his social circle has at least given him a bj. Seems odd that women are talking about being all emotional and deep, but they will give a guy head simply because he has a giant cock. Maybe I need to hang out with different people, but I feel woefully inadequate compared to guys like you and I don't know what to do. Advice?

Thanks guys.

That's just how the vast majority of women are. They tell each other about the penis size of the guys they've been with. It's incredibly sad and pathetic but there's not much you can do about it.

If a guy has a big dick, it's going to be very easy for him to get laid once he has just nailed one woman. She's going to tell all her friends about his size, and voila: he will keep on getting blowjobs or pussy.
Nearly all women fantasize about sucking or fucking a huge cock.
 

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I feel the same way. I completely avoid having sex because of my size, but I have a "legit" reason to worry as my size is what most women would define as small or as the small end of average. You actually have quite a good size.



That's just how the vast majority of women are. They tell each other about the penis size of the guys they've been with. It's incredibly sad and pathetic but there's not much you can do about it.

If a guy has a big dick, it's going to be very easy for him to get laid once he has just nailed one woman. She's going to tell all her friends about his size, and voila: he will keep on getting blowjobs or pussy.
Nearly all women fantasize about sucking or fucking a huge cock.
No.
The vast majority of women go for your smile. And style.
No penis lenght or girth.
Or have you labelled it on your shirt?
Once again no.
I asked my girlfriend if my penis or sex-loving-acts was the thing that she wanted to stay with me.
No, was her answer, it was your Mercedes SLK230 and the way you act.
[ after 12 years she is still with me, once I get divorced we ll marrie ]
 

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...That's just how the vast majority of women are. They tell each other about the penis size of the guys they've been with...
Nearly all women fantasize about sucking or fucking a huge cock.

Even if you were female, you would struggle to back up a generalisation like this without firm evidence. Since you clearly aren't, I don't understand where you get this from. Even if you knew twice the number of women that most men do, you would be acquainted with an infinitesimal fraction of "all women". I suspect that you don't know any more than I do what all women fantasise about .

If a guy has a big dick, it's going to be very easy for him to get laid once he has just nailed one woman. She's going to tell all her friends about his size, and voila: he will keep on getting blowjobs or pussy.

Good grief. You don't seriously believe this do you?
 

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No.
The vast majority of women go for your smile. And style.
No penis lenght or girth.
Or have you labelled it on your shirt?
Once again no.
I asked my girlfriend if my penis or sex-loving-acts was the thing that she wanted to stay with me.
No, was her answer, it was your Mercedes SLK230 and the way you act.
[ after 12 years she is still with me, once I get divorced we ll marrie ]

Sigh... I never said that penis size is the FIRST thing a woman go/look for in a man, but it's pretty damn important seeing as most women today are size-queens.
 

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Even if you were female, you would struggle to back up a generalisation like this without firm evidence. Since you clearly aren't, I don't understand where you get this from. Even if you knew twice the number of women that most men do, you would be acquainted with an infinitesimal fraction of "all women". I suspect that you don't know any more than I do what all women fantasise about .

Good grief. You don't seriously believe this do you?

Go to forums for women and see what they write about penises.