i am a 23 years old female ... about 1. sleeping in lingerie 2. dressing up in stocking and garters 3. dressing up as school girl i feel like im too young to be sleeping in lingerie. isn't that for older women like when my mom was in her 30s and 40s? right now, isn't a short booty boxers sexy enough to sleep in? (when my bf is around) i feel so old if i wear lingerie to bed and kinda fake. i feel like im saving/reserving lingerie for when im older r there women that wear lingerie to bed every night? does lingerie= you're ganna get some? when i dress up in stockings etc.. i dont think they are aesthically pleasing. it doesn't look pretty to me fashion wise. also, i feel like an object when im dressed in these get ups. it makes me not like to do it, i never told my bf but he seems to like these things quite a bit. does any lady out there share simliar sentiments?