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Jonah,
Lots of good advice here.
There is a catch-all phrase for a condition called (I think) "retarded ejaculation." That's actually a lot less specific than some of the advice you've already been given but it might be helpful to you if you want to do some searching.
A porn addiction or obsession probably isn't a good thing BUT:
YOU ARE NOT HURTING YOUR PARENTS BY MASTURBATING!
Regardless of what they (or you) think or say.
I agree with rogue, 10 minutes isn't that long particularly when you haven't figured out what works for you yet.
Guilt, anxiety and frustration aren't conducive to pleasure (generally).
You can cum from wet dreams which involve very little stimulation so something you've got works.
This problem you have will actually make you very popular with the guys or the girls, may frustrate the hell out of you though, but don't let it (alone) stop you from attempting to have a relationship- it might just solve the problem. (I don't mean to oversimplify, it'd be great if you tried a few new techniques for a half hour and had a gusher but this is probably going to take some work on your part. It sounds like you are dealing with some hellacious guilt.)
I'm really surprised that your psychiatrist didn't have a field day with you, you might need to try someone else.
Good luck.
Lots of good advice here.
There is a catch-all phrase for a condition called (I think) "retarded ejaculation." That's actually a lot less specific than some of the advice you've already been given but it might be helpful to you if you want to do some searching.
A porn addiction or obsession probably isn't a good thing BUT:
YOU ARE NOT HURTING YOUR PARENTS BY MASTURBATING!
Regardless of what they (or you) think or say.
I agree with rogue, 10 minutes isn't that long particularly when you haven't figured out what works for you yet.
Guilt, anxiety and frustration aren't conducive to pleasure (generally).
You can cum from wet dreams which involve very little stimulation so something you've got works.
This problem you have will actually make you very popular with the guys or the girls, may frustrate the hell out of you though, but don't let it (alone) stop you from attempting to have a relationship- it might just solve the problem. (I don't mean to oversimplify, it'd be great if you tried a few new techniques for a half hour and had a gusher but this is probably going to take some work on your part. It sounds like you are dealing with some hellacious guilt.)
I'm really surprised that your psychiatrist didn't have a field day with you, you might need to try someone else.
Good luck.