I try to be satisfied with my life but the one thing that is holding back my inner happiness is that I have trouble appealing to guys. I don't know what happened over the last couple of years but it seems that guys no longer find me appealing than they once used to. In 2007, I went to my very first gay club in my area and thought I had it all. All of the cute guys were always hitting on me and asking for my number to hang out again. I made more male friends than I do now. Around that time, I went through two unsuccessful relationships with which one is a good friend of mine and another is out of the picture. Early last year, I was in another failed relationship with a guy that took advantage of me and stole my wallet. It seems that everything is not the same that it once used to be. After I went through my last relationship with my ex, my level of confidence in guys has plummeted. Instead of easily walking up to a guy and striking a conversation, I feel shy and less confident that the next guy is going to give me the time of day. Every time I make a good impression with my style and appearance, guys never smile at me and turn their heads the other way. I am just tired of having enough of this! I have grown tired of feeling sorry for myself that my lack of confidence has materialized in my inability to get a boyfriend. Recently, I have been working harder on my body to get it in great shape for the next couple of months just in time before the summer. Now I need to work on gaining back my confidence and believing that I am just as appealing as any other guy. A situation that is odd in itself is women are always approaching me no matter if I am gay. Guys never approach me the way girls do. Any advice???